Let me see if I can clarify
Http I live in the Northeast, my neighborhood has NO REPEAT NO HOA, however the TOWN takes care of ROAD, Trash, Playground that was installed 1 year ago. My neighbors are nice, and there are No flamingos, gazing balls, no trucks or cars on blocks and though there is one family that during the daytime has 3-4 cars at various times due to children coming and going picking up the grandkids, our streets are kept free of an overload of cars. Our yards are well kept, admittedly they were all looking a bit overgrown with all the rain and having a hard time getting a big enough break in the downpours to mow. No houses are painted very odd colors, we do have a person who has done a pastel house with a pastel fence but it is tasteful and has not brought down property values. There is no trash all over peoples' yards and right now the pile I have is in my backyard until I am done cleaning out and get ready to move when I will get a HUGE bin and dump it all out at once. Now mind you this is all done WITHOUT an HOA being involved, and I know my neighbors, and we look out for each other without paying a fee. What a concept! I am in my mid 30's thank you so I am old enough to remember when these things were started, though none stayed here in the North for the same reasons I have pointed out. I realize that a relaxed HOA is only there to make it easier for common areas to be maintained and cheaper for everyone. I am just saying that when there is a good responsible neighborhood in place with MATURE and Community minded adults willing to take care of their property and the property around them then I don't see the need to pay a bunch of people to make sure everyone follows the rules. So if you want to know where this little NO HOA Haven is, come north, most communities are well kept and people know that the more rural areas are going to have some odder neighbors. And guess what there are no HOA's keeping everyone line.
Also there are several good public school systems up here, and guess what those towns don't have HOA's either. And yes if my husband did not have a job down there I would QUITE happily stay here in my area where we obviously take neighborhoods more to heart on our own without the Neighborhood Nazi's having to tell us how, when, where, why and what we can do with our land. There are times now that I wish I could stay here and avoid them all together but I can't therefore will have to put up with the HOA's to get the best overall chance for my children. I am just hoping to get into the lesser evil of all of them where I am not paying one month's mortgage every year just to keep them happy. And to all the poster's on this thread who have voiced a similar view of not wanting an HOA telling them how many pets they can have, how high and exactly where their fence can be located and what color your house is I thank you, you have made a Northerner feel a little less timid about moving down there.