How do I get him to take care of his son??????????
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Suz
33 yrs & we r still n luv
Your so smart. gee, I'm jealous. When someone calls you from a RESTRICTED
phone number............... you can stfu too.
Better yet, if the son doesn't pay up, maybe the Grandparents should step up and help out?
Suz
33 yrs & we r still n luv
I do. now you can go back in your hole.........
nomoney
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PrepH4U
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nomoney
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I planted more marigolds today, the trees are blooming also.
Did you see the Caps game?
that's his responsibility to act like a man.
yes he needs to step up to the plate, yes he needs to take care of his actions, but don't hold anyone else responsible for his doings.
nomoney
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I for one, having sons - wouldn't put up with a "weekly" phone call from a "RESTRICTED" number. If my son can't give me his contact info for emergencies, etc....then don't bother calling me at all.
You are right though that it is his responsibility, and I guess you've already tried everything you can. His parents are a dead end. Maybe he'll come home for Thanksgiving. :shrug:
I win! My ex owes $72,689.81. My case is in PG County. They have so many cases, I am just a number to them. Calvert seems to be more on the ball though. They regularly post deadbeat parents in the county paper. My two cents:
1. You have a beautiful child, move forward. Support him the best you can. I delivered newspapers to support my children.
2. Don't punish the grandparents, your child needs all the loving family you've got. His parents don't owe you anything. Just let them love your child.
3. The father obviously has no character, he will reap what he sows.
1. You have a beautiful child, move forward. Support him the best you can. I delivered newspapers to support my children.
2. Don't punish the grandparents, your child needs all the loving family you've got. His parents don't owe you anything. Just let them love your child.
3. The father obviously has no character, he will reap what he sows.
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
Its been a while since I asked for any advice on here.
Last june I filed for Custody and child support of my now 19 month old son. I had my first court date in January. My son's father showed up for that one. He requested mediation because him and I couldnt agree on a custody agreement (go figure). A week later was the mediation. He got married and moved to Texas about two days before the mediation. So he didnt go to the mediation that he requested. So we had to go to another court date in march. Again he didn't show for that either. So i was awarded Sole custody of my son and a set amount of child support. The courts decided he should pay back child support from the time i filed lat june. To this day he has not paid for ANYTHING. i dont even think i have heard from him since January. He is pretty close to being around $4,000 behind on his Child Support. His father talks to him around once a week and says that My sons father always calls from a restricted number. Which i believe because he is a coward. I have no address for him. no phone number. nothing. I know the reason he moved to Texas was in hope of not having to pay for TWO kids in Maryland. But how long will the courts let this go on for? How am i supposed to find him so the courts can atleast send him the court papers? I don't know where to start. I have tried to call The child support enforcement agency, but all they do is transfer me around and talk alot of gibberish saying they will get back to me. i just need some financial help from my son's father and i don't know where to start so thay can atleast start garnishing his wages, or atleast penalizing(sp) him for not paying his child support. Arent they supposed to take his license away or put him in jail or something? If anybody has any information on where i should start or what i should do to get him to start paying his child support.I dont evenknow where he is. I mean i have done everything i think i could do. i have been to court. i have paid EVERY court cost. he has not shown up but for one court date. As of right now i have spent hundreds of dollars just trying to get him to take care of his son.and still i get nothin. please let me know. Thanks in advance.
You can't get him to take care of his child and don't expect him to. Just do all you can to give the child a wonderful life. Good luck.
P.S. Texas does not do anything to help MD with child support.
Suz
33 yrs & we r still n luv
I didn't "play" so I don't HAVE to PAY. It is NOT my responsibility. I am the grandparent, not the parent.
Now, if she needed diapers, food, clothes all she has to do is ask. I take Che' for days at a time so she doesn't have to pay for a sitter. (and enjoy every minute I have him.) No, she wants cash. Which she asked for via texting my cell phone last night. Hence this thread....... and now I understand I can't see my grandson once again because I said no to the cash.
Tell you what. All of you are so quick to jump on the bandwagon...Why don't ya'll just pass the plate, give up some cash, and I'll let you know where to send it to her? How's that for a solution? Since ya'll seem to know the answer for everything......
because we have our own life to live. i'm the uncle of che - i have a full time job and my own life. my parents both have there own life to live as well.
oh yes that's a great idea. next you're going to say the uncle should pay up to.
being a grandparent or an uncle or an aunt is a part time endeavor, not a full time endeavor. we are not responsible to take care of the kid full time, our repsonsibility is to spoil him rotten and give him back to his mother.