How do I get him to take care of his son??????????

pixiegirl

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
otter said:
Amazing..
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Really, I think it's pretty common unfortunately.

Chemommy, suck it up baby girl. You are a grown up and you chose to have a baby with a POS. Harsh words yes but it's the reality of the situation. I did it too. My son is 7 and hasn't had ANY contact with his sperm donor in 3 years and I've never gotten support. I chose to have and keep my son so I chose to bare the responsibility of raising him.

As long as baby daddy family is not supporting the POS or directly going against your wishes when it comes to things that concern your son then you have no reason to keep them away from your child. They do not owe you cash money UNLESS they are financially supporting baby daddy still. Seems as if they aren't doing that so you should be greatful for what they do do.
 
Black-Francis

Black-Francis

New Member
pixiegirl said:
Really, I think it's pretty common unfortunately.

Chemommy, suck it up baby girl. You are a grown up and you chose to have a baby with a POS. Harsh words yes but it's the reality of the situation. I did it too. My son is 7 and hasn't had ANY contact with his sperm donor in 3 years and I've never gotten support. I chose to have and keep my son so I chose to bare the responsibility of raising him.

As long as baby daddy family is not supporting the POS or directly going against your wishes when it comes to things that concern your son then you have no reason to keep them away from your child. They do not owe you cash money UNLESS they are financially supporting baby daddy still. Seems as if they aren't doing that so you should be greatful for what they do do.
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well said.......
 
Suz

Suz

33 yrs & we r still n luv
pixiegirl said:
Really, I think it's pretty common unfortunately.

Chemommy, suck it up baby girl. You are a grown up and you chose to have a baby with a POS. Harsh words yes but it's the reality of the situation. I did it too. My son is 7 and hasn't had ANY contact with his sperm donor in 3 years and I've never gotten support. I chose to have and keep my son so I chose to bare the responsibility of raising him.

As long as baby daddy family is not supporting the POS or directly going against your wishes when it comes to things that concern your son then you have no reason to keep them away from your child. They do not owe you cash money UNLESS they are financially supporting baby daddy still. Seems as if they aren't doing that so you should be greatful for what they do do.
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:huggy:

No we don't support him financially or emotionally (on my part at least). He isn't even welcome in my home any longer.
 
sockgirl77

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
After reading the whole thread after I posted I realized how incredibly rude it was of you to post this. You knew that his grandmother was a forum member. Grow the eff up. If you want less drama with her quit posting your baby daddy drama about her son. :dork:
 
Suz

Suz

33 yrs & we r still n luv
stylin said:
The Mom does have the address!!!!!! It is stated in her one of her old posts that she does...hmmmmm
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ummm unless you gave birth to him then you don't know sh*t, because all I know is the town he lives in (and so does chemommy).
 
thurley42

thurley42

HY;FR
01mds10 said:
because we have our own life to live. i'm the uncle of che - i have a full time job and my own life. my parents both have there own life to live as well.



oh yes that's a great idea. next you're going to say the uncle should pay up to.

being a grandparent or an uncle or an aunt is a part time endeavor, not a full time endeavor. we are not responsible to take care of the kid full time, our repsonsibility is to spoil him rotten and give him back to his mother.
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i'm sure an uncle will end up paying..just not you...
 
SoMDGirl42

SoMDGirl42

Well-Known Member
This whole thread is sad. It's sad the father doesn't take care of his responsibilities, the mother has to do it with no support, the grandmother does what she can and it's not appreciated, and the baby is used as a pawn.
Sad. No winner winner chicken dinner here.

Mom, do the best you can to raise your son, I hope one day the father will grow up and do what is right.

Grandma, continue to do what you can and love this little man as much as you can.

And lastly, all of you, stop fighting and using this child as your pawns, he's the innocent party in ALL of this.
 
Mojo

Mojo

New Member
sockgirl77 said:
After reading the whole thread after I posted I realized how incredibly rude it was of you to post this. You knew that his grandmother was a forum member. Grow the eff up. If you want less drama with her quit posting your baby daddy drama about her son. :dork:
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His own mom called him a POS :shrug:
 
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01mds10

New Member
Mojo said:
His own mom called him a POS :shrug:
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so then it's ok for her to post this.. come on now, get real..

the mother wants everyone to pay for her son that she had and can't afford. she needs to suck it up and be a mother.


i'm sorry but #### that.

i work my ass off all year so i can give my hard earned money to a childs mother that can't afford a baby she had the choice of giving up. if you can't afford a kid, you shouldn't have had one. period.

this goes to all mothers who ##### about money and children and expect giveaways.

i'm not directing this towards anyone in particular, this just urks my last nerve my tax dollars are going to this.
 
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Ilikepie

New Member
01mds10 said:
this goes to all mothers who ##### about money and children and expect giveaways.

i'm not directing this towards anyone in particular, this just urks my last nerve my tax dollars are going to this.
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Woot!

What about her MF'n parents, can they help out, pay for some of the necessities since everyone thinks the fathers parents should pay! WTF, it takes 2, TWO I say to make a baby! Stop harassing the fathers parents for money etc. Harass your own parents for not teaching you to keep your GD legs closed!

Grow the F up, get a job, and raise your child!
 
Otter

Otter

Nothing to see here
01mds10 said:
so then it's ok for her to post this.. come on now, get real..

the mother wants everyone to pay for her son that she had and can't afford. she needs to suck it up and be a mother.


i'm sorry but #### that.

i work my ass off all year so i can give my hard earned money to a childs mother that can't afford a baby she had the choice of giving up. if you can't afford a kid, you shouldn't have had one. period.

this goes to all mothers who ##### about money and children and expect giveaways.

i'm not directing this towards anyone in particular, this just urks my last nerve my tax dollars are going to this.
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Ilikepie said:
Woot!

What about her MF'n parents, can they help out, pay for some of the necessities since everyone thinks the fathers parents should pay! WTF, it takes 2, TWO I say to make a baby! Stop harassing the fathers parents for money etc. Harass your own parents for not teaching you to keep your GD legs closed!

Grow the F up, get a job, and raise your child!
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:yay: My nominations for most ignorant posts of the month.
 
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Ilikepie

New Member
otter said:
:yay: My nominations for most ignorant posts of the month.
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Aww, is that the best you could come up with? Since you are in such support of the little tramp, why don't you give her some hard earned cash? I'm sure she would REWARD you! (just make sure you keep it wrapped) Douche bag!
 
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