MorganLover
New Member
Maybe i am just new to being married, will be 7 years in Aug. but hubby and familiy come first. Hubby and i talked about me getting a horse and we both agreed for me to get my horse. I know he would never make me choose anyway, unless it was for finacial reasons, but other then that he wouldn't. If i had too i would for my family. I love my horse and my animals all very much but i love my family more. That is how it should be in a healthy relationship, and in a healthy relationship there shouldn't be those kinds of problems. If hubby felt i was choosing my animals over him i'd make sure to give him more attention, we are in this for life, it is not a throw away situation like some married couples make it. Hubby over all is pretty good about the time i spend with my horse or even with happy riding hers, he can get a little testy like all men but he'd never make me choose or put our marrage in that situation. I love being married and love my hubby. Now i could love him even more if he'd get up on a horse and go with me lol, but i am still working on that part. haha i have to get rotten cop to work on him a bit. lol