I am in shock

[Sharon]

Thanks for the laugh

Your picture is appropriate! It fits you well.

So says Boy Wonder!

 

[FromTexas]

That doesn't really say anything more than the other two releases. LIGHT THE TORCHES! KILL HIM WITH FIRE!

I don't know. That picture says "offender" to me.


And I wouldn't use fire. That leaves a smell. Concrete vest into the river - its crab season.

 

[camily]

I don't know. That picture says "offender" to me.


And I wouldn't use fire. That leaves a smell. Concrete vest into the river - its crab season.

 

[dems4me]

I don't know. That picture says "offender" to me.


And I wouldn't use fire. That leaves a smell. Concrete vest into the river - its crab season.

Only on a southern maryland forum

 

[camily]

I don't know. That picture says "offender" to me.


And I wouldn't use fire. That leaves a smell. Concrete vest into the river - its crab season.

You must have been abused as a child and need to seek counseling.

 

[theArtistFormerlyKnownAs]

You must have been abused as a child and need to seek counseling.

 

[FromTexas]

You must have been abused as a child and need to seek counseling.

I was abused by my counselor.

 

[donbarzini]

I was abused by my counselor.

:snort:

 

[smcop]

:snort:

That's a nice compassionate remark by someone who lists themselves as a police officer!

 

[FromTexas]

That's a nice compassionate remark by someone who lists themselves as a police officer!

 

[sommpd]

So says Boy Wonder!

Your comment quacks me up...

 

[oldman]

This thread has lead me to believe SMIB's really do exist and according to some experts inbred people just don't have the minds to figure 2 and 2 equal 4.

 

[sommpd]

They just can't find missing persons.

That's right, had to dig deep there to find that one. What about the hundreds of missing person cases that do get solved? No comment on those I guess. I assume you are 100% perfect on your job too huh?

 

[~mellabella~]

Two questions for you....Did his wife know that he was under investigation and knowingly/willingly continue to take care of children in their home? Aren't you the least bit disconcerted that she may have known about this and still continued to watch your child? I'm not so sure I'd be praying for the wife just yet.

I have no idea if she knew. To my knowledge she didn't...but I'm not in her head so I can't say for sure. I trust her, as I've known her for a while. I don't think she would have ever intentionally put my son in dangers way.

 

[~mellabella~]

Yet you said there seemed to be an inner struggle going on.

If you were being accused of something like this, and you knew the backlash was falling on your family, wouldn't you have a battle going on inside of your head too?

 

[Tigerlily]

I just want to say thank you to Vrai for her post advice and to the many others who sent pm's offering advice. I am still quite numb about this whole situation and whether it was right or wrong of me to post the thread will remain to be seen.


I have thought alot about this the last twenty four hours and yes I most certainly feel for all people involved. Everyone involved is dealing with many emotions, confusion betrayal etc.

I will say this if by posting this on here and a parent who had a child in daycare there or who let there child go to play & or slept over there saw this or any other report and asked their child about it then I have no regrets. Children, teenagers consider adults to be role models that they hope to emmulate one day. Can children be sneeky and deceiptful? Of course. I would say it would be a very rare scenario that a teen would accuse her friends dad of misconduct because so and so wouldn't give her game back. Has it happended before I am sure somewhere out there, but is it likely?

I feel most for this mans daughter and his wife. They are good people and do not deserve this emotional upheaval. I do know they draw great strength from god and hope there faith will get them through this. Of course there is confusion at there home. His wife and child just got a look at a whole other side of lthings that will forever change their lives.

I mailed her a letter today to offer my emotional support to her and her child. I am still working on how to approach this with my younger ones.

 

[camily]

I just want to say thank you to Vrai for her post advice and to the many others who sent pm's offering advice. I am still quite numb about this whole situation and whether it was right or wrong of me to post the thread will remain to be seen.


I have thought alot about this the last twenty four hours and yes I most certainly feel for all people involved. Everyone involved is dealing with many emotions, confusion betrayal etc.

I will say this if by posting this on here and a parent who had a child in daycare there or who let there child go to play & or slept over there saw this or any other report and asked their child about it then I have no regrets. Children, teenagers consider adults to be role models that they hope to emmulate one day. Can children be sneeky and deceiptful? Of course. I would say it would be a very rare scenario that a teen would accuse her friends dad of misconduct because so and so wouldn't give her game back. Has it happended before I am sure somewhere out there, but is it likely?

I feel most for this mans daughter and his wife. They are good people and do not deserve this emotional upheaval. I do know they draw great strength from god and hope there faith will get them through this. Of course there is confusion at there home. His wife and child just got a look at a whole other side of lthings that will forever change their lives.

I mailed her a letter today to offer my emotional support to her and her child. I am still working on how to approach this with my younger ones.

You're lucky they are old enough to be able to talk to you. I'm sure they have been talked to about good touch and bad touch not only by there teacher, but also by you. At that age I would recommend a pretty straight forward approach. Let them know what's going on. Let them know that things like this can happen by people they know. Most often it is. I'm sure once you start talking the right words will come.

 

[camily]

If you were being accused of something like this, and you knew the backlash was falling on your family, wouldn't you have a battle going on inside of your head too?

Not if I were innocent. I'd just be pissed.

 

[Tigerlily]

Not if I were innocent. I'd just be pissed.

I would too. It's hard to say anything one way or the other. I spoke with my younger ones last night individually and together, They assured me as best as they could that nothing innapropriate had ever happened. I was honest and up front as best as i could be without being too descriptive.

My 9 year old said " Well mommy kids are known to lie".

So I will say that even though I feel better, The whole situation still tears at my heart.

 

[Robin]

I would too. It's hard to say anything one way or the other. I spoke with my younger ones last night individually and together, They assured me as best as they could that nothing innapropriate had ever happened. I was honest and up front as best as i could be without being too descriptive.

My 9 year old said " Well mommy kids are known to lie".

So I will say that even though I feel better, The whole situation still tears at my heart.

That is a little relieving, hearing your childs response. Good Job Mom. Great to have a great relationship with your children. I am sure that has opened the conversation door for them to speak openly with you.