I am in shock

[cattitude]

She might, and I wouldn't hold that against her if she did. Sounds like she had a tramatic thing happen to her.

Exactly and she's not thinking rationally. That's my "heartless" point.

 

[Christy]

Whatever. You sound heartless.

What is heartless is exploiting this family in an open public forum. There was mention that he had a wife and a daughter. In your attempts to eviscerate this man, (who may or may not deserve evisceration) you are simply adding yet another layer of bull#### to what this woman and her daughter have to deal with. He may deserve it, but they certainly don't.

JMHO.

 

[camily]

Exactly and she's not thinking rationally. That's my "heartless" point.

Please, been to counseling as a child it's it's all good now. Thanks for the concern. Just because I can sympathize with what may be happening doesn't mean I need help. That's just insane.

 

[Christy]

Sounds like she had a tramatic thing happen to her.

Having something traumatic happen doesn't give one the right to exercise their own demons at someone else's expense.

And Camily, it may look like I'm singling you out, but I'm not. It just sucks that so many people don't think before they throw crap out on here.

 

[itsbob]

He gets military retirement for a chief I believe

Not for long!

 

[camily]

Having something traumatic happen doesn't give one the right to exercise their own demons at someone else's expense.

And Camily, it may look like I'm singling you out, but I'm not. It just sucks that so many people don't think before they throw crap out on here.

And I would care because...............

 

[mAlice]

And I would care because...............

You wouldn't, obviously.

 

[Masey]

I feel your pain. Litterally.

In light of this revelation, you might want to rethink your choice of AV....just a friendly suggestion.

 

[camily]

In light of this revelation, you might want to rethink your choice of AV....just a friendly suggestion.

Bettie Page was an adult.

 

[cattitude]

In light of this revelation, you might want to rethink your choice of AV....just a friendly suggestion.

 

[Masey]

Bettie Page was an adult.

Agreed and your point is?

In case you don't see it, you've been abused, counseled, can empathize and sympathize with fellow victims but use an AV that is overt in bondage and implied sexuality when the adult woman has no control.

 

[camily]

Agreed and your point is?

In case you don't see it, you've been abused, counseled, can empathize and sympathize with fellow victims but use an AV that is overt in bondage and implied sexuality when the adult woman has no control.

Oh brother. I've also used Bettie on the beach, Bettie on a motorcycle, Bettie and an Italian sub just to name a few. This one has drawn alot of responses, at least when we had karma. So I kept it for a bit.

 

[vraiblonde]

In case you don't see it, you've been abused, counseled, can empathize and sympathize with fellow victims but use an AV that is overt in bondage and implied sexuality when the adult woman has no control.

Quite Freudian, isn't it?

 

[camily]

Quite Freudian, isn't it?

Please, it's a picture.

 

[Radiant1]

Agreed and your point is?

In case you don't see it, you've been abused, counseled, can empathize and sympathize with fellow victims but use an AV that is overt in bondage and implied sexuality when the adult woman has no control.

Just a thought, and maybe I'm missing you're point, but that adult woman chose not to have control which is very different than abuse. Although for anyone just looking at the AV they may not recognize that fact. :shrug:

I :heart: camily and Bettie Page!

 

[virgovictoria]

And I would care because...............

Being passive-aggressive in your approach doesn't cut it.

No, it's not the same physically. I'm just saying that if he made her feel special, beautiful, and wanted to do with her as he wanted, this too will affect her and cause her to doubt her instincts forever. Will cause her to believe that having sex is what you do when someone makes you feel special. That this must be ok because it kind of felt good even though you had feelings that you didn't want to do it. Then, how stupid you must really be to believe that crap. You feel bad about it then and guess what you do? Go have sex with someone who makes you feel better becaus ethat's what you know. It's a vicious circle.

Herein lies the proof that you've gone beyond the scope of the issue at hand. You're projecting, not sympathizing or empathing (how could you?)

You should care because you may have lived to say you're a survivor and identify your modalities - but it feels as though you need some guidance in actively recovering yourself from the loss you experienced and the trauma you sustained.

 

[Masey]

Please, it's a picture.

Yeah, I’m sure its all purely coincidental and nothing subconscious at all.

 

[sommpd]

What is heartless is exploiting this family in an open public forum. There was mention that he had a wife and a daughter. In your attempts to eviscerate this man, (who may or may not deserve evisceration) you are simply adding yet another layer of bull#### to what this woman and her daughter have to deal with. He may deserve it, but they certainly don't.

JMHO.

The people on here are talking about this guy being arrested and likely guilty of a crime. Nobody I have seen has condemned his family, the only thing I saw was that people felt bad for his family.

Are you suggesting when someone committs a crime, we are not to judge that person because it may cause damage to their family?

That's silly!

 

[camily]

Yeah, I’m sure its all purely coincidental and nothing subconscious at all.

OMG! Yours is a rabbit. You know what they say about rabbits. Then again, it's also animated. Are you not living in the real world?
A cartoon rabbit, speaks volumes about you!
You should seek therapy.

 

[camily]

Being passive-aggressive in your approach doesn't cut it.


Herein lies the proof that you've gone beyond the scope of the issue at hand. You're projecting, not sympathizing or empathing (how could you?)

You should care because you may have lived to say you're a survivor and identify your modalities - but it feels as though you need some guidance in actively recovering yourself from the loss you experienced and the trauma you sustained.

I was just saying that because it's not physical doesn't mean it's not as painful.
For the love of God.