I am in shock

[Christy]

The people on here are talking about this guy being arrested and likely guilty of a crime. Nobody I have seen has condemned his family, the only thing I saw was that people felt bad for his family.

Are you suggesting when someone committs a crime, we are not to judge that person because it may cause damage to their family?

That's silly!

Bringing undue light on the subject and making wild raving speculations, does indeed cause damage to the family who is already reeling from a pretty devastating blow.

In the position you hold, you of all people should not be on here discussing the situation.

 

[camily]

Bringing undue light on the subject and making wild raving speculations, does indeed cause damage to the family who is already reeling from a pretty devastating blow.

In the position you hold, you of all people should not be on here discussing the situation.

How do you know? Isn't that one of those assumptions you shouldn't be making? Speculation?
Maybe they knew he was a molester.
Jumping to comclusions. Maybe they are happy he has been outed? You never know.

 

[Christy]

How do you know? Isn't that one of those assumptions you shouldn't be making? Speculation?
Maybe they knew he was a molester.
Jumping to comclusions. Maybe they are happy he has been outed? You never know.

You know what Camily, go #### yourself. You're a moron. Keep commencing with your absurd trash. I'm sure the family will thank you for your brilliant insight.

 

[camily]

You know what Camily, go #### yourself. You're a moron. Keep commencing with your absurd trash. I'm sure the family will thank you for your brilliant insight.

My work here is done.

 

[Masey]

How do you know? Isn't that one of those assumptions you shouldn't be making? Speculation?
Maybe they knew he was a molester.
Jumping to comclusions. Maybe they are happy he has been outed? You never know.

I'll go out on a limb here and say: I can guarantee to you that “happy” with or at anything is not an emotion this family is feeling!

 

[camily]

I'll go out on a limb here and say: I can guarantee to you that “happy” with or at anything is not an emotion this family is feeling!

Ok, that was a bad choice of words. I didn't mean "happy".

 

[virgovictoria]

Ok, that was a bad choice of words. I didn't mean "happy".

You're just living in the past.

 

[camily]

You're just living in the past.

No, I'm not really. But thanks for the concern.

 

[mAlice]

No, I'm not really. But thanks for the concern.

I doubt it's concern. More of an observation.

 

[Masey]

Oh brother. I've also used Bettie on the beach, Bettie on a motorcycle, Bettie and an Italian sub just to name a few. This one has drawn alot of responses, at least when we had karma. So I kept it for a bit.

Did you know that Bettie was plagued by mental problems and actually stabbed three people. She was sentenced to a long spell in a mental institution as punishment.

 

[~mellabella~]

I had someone pick my son up from their house yesterday, and I went over there when I got off work to talk to them. My heart is in pieces for his wife and her daughter. I don't know how I feel about him yet. I listened to his apologies, and I stayed quiet. It seems as though an inner struggle is going on there. I will be there to give my continued support to his family, regardless of what he did/did not do. Because in this situation now neither of them are working, and the whole family is suffering. My prayers are with them as well as the other girl.

 

[camily]

Did you know that Bettie was plagued by mental problems and actually stabbed three people. She was sentenced to a long spell in a mental institution as punishment.

I did.

 

[camily]

Maybe you should remove her name. But, you did say "his apologies". Usually people only apologize if they have done soething wrong. Has he admitted to guilt?

 

[~mellabella~]

Removed her name, please do the same.

His apology to me was centered around me having to find somewhere else to put my son for daycare. He did not say one way or the other, and I didn't ask.

 

[sommpd]

Bringing undue light on the subject and making wild raving speculations, does indeed cause damage to the family who is already reeling from a pretty devastating blow.

In the position you hold, you of all people should not be on here discussing the situation.

I'm not making wild raving speculations.

Why is it you feel I can't have an opinion about this?

I'm not discussing this particular situation. I am responding to people's post which question the authenticity of the allegation.

I am clearly stating that in these types of investigations, that people are not charged on crimes when it is a he said she said.

Someone has to speak up for the victim before the crowd begins to tear her down.

Lets not shoot the messenger! HE BROUGHT UNDUE LIGHT ON HIMSELF AND HIS FAMILY!

 

[camily]

I'm not making wild raving speculations.

Why is it you feel I can't have an opinion about this?

I'm not discussing this particular situation. I am responding to people's post which question the authenticity of the allegation.

I am clearly stating that in these types of investigations, that people are not charged on crimes when it is a he said she said.

Someone has to speak up for the victim before the crowd begins to tear her down.

Lets not shoot the messenger! HE BROUGHT UNDUE LIGHT ON HIMSELF AND HIS FAMILY!

Because she's right about everything and the only one who can speak her mind.

 

[camily]

Removed her name, please do the same.

His apology to me was centered around me having to find somewhere else to put my son for daycare. He did not say one way or the other, and I didn't ask.

Yet you said there seemed to be an inner struggle going on.

 

[theArtistFormerlyKnownAs]

Yet you said there seemed to be an inner struggle going on.

You are way past jumping on this guy's case. Let the investigators handle it. You had a bad experience in the past and are obviously not over it. I empathize with you and feel you may want to go to a counselor, if nothing else, to have someone to talk to about this who isn't some anonymous being on a website.

JMO though, you may have everything under control...but reading this thread...you still have more to get out.

 

[Christy]

Because she's right about everything and the only one who can speak her mind.

It's not about being right Camily, it's about basic human decency.

 

[camily]

You are way past jumping on this guy's case. Let the investigators handle it. You had a bad experience in the past and are obviously not over it. I empathize with you and feel you may want to go to a counselor, if nothing else, to have someone to talk to about this who isn't some anonymous being on a website.

JMO though, you may have everything under control...but reading this thread...you still have more to get out.

Please.
I swear, you guys are rediculous! This man has been arrested after three months of investigation. WTF? No one wants to admit that maybe all the facts have not been released and possibly the cops just happened to know WTH they are doing? Geez. Just because something happened many many years ago does not mean I can't think clearly now for Gods sake. What if this was your daughter? Would you be so understanding? All this crap about me is crazy. Good lord people.