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Roughidle said:
Do I understand you correctly, that you see abortion as murder but not starving your child to death as the same?
...trying to emphasize is that if you tell people they can do something and describe it as perfectly legal, a celebrated right no less, but only up to a certain point, then it is difficult for me to see a moral reason to forbid what amounts to the same thing, or even less so if they had no intent to starve the child, condemn them and send them off to jail.
There is death in abortion. It is legal. You do not go to jail for it.
This child starved to death. I have no idea if they meant to kill it, which, if they did, can't possibly be argued as any different than aborting it a mere six weeks earlier and, if they didn't mean to, it is certainly not as bad as an abortion.
Re-reading your post, I'm not sure I understood clearly, so, if you could clarify a bit or did I answer your question?