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:fixed:Hot N Bothered said:If she can afford to go to a home inferior party....
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:fixed:Hot N Bothered said:If she can afford to go to a home inferior party....
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Triggerfish said:I didn't see any mention of kids either......that can complicate things too.
I have been trying to go hiking with some friends of mine for over a year now. It's too hot in the summer for us, so we like to keep hiking to the colder months (Sept. - April). Between Cub Scouts and Soccer I have something just about every weekend. I have not been able to schedule a hike yet.tlatchaw said:BINGO!
Lately I find I have a busy schedule more so from the kiddies than the wife. They get involved with stuff all over and the next thing you know, each weekend is triple booked (hers, mine, kids). Since she manages the kid calendars too, it's usually wise to check with her first.
As for the "thank you" thing: Had you expressed some reluctance to let him go do whatever it was? That's about the only time I thank my wife when I'm going out - she REALLY didn't want me to for some reason, but knew whatever it was I was going to do was important to me. If he says "thank you" every time you let him go out, you may want to seek counseling to find out why.
JMHO.
If he said "thank you" all the time, why would I find it ? He thanks me on occasion, but it's usually when he manages to go out with one of these guys with the controling wives. It just makes him appreciate what he has.tlatchaw said:If he says "thank you" every time you let him go out, you may want to seek counseling to find out why.
JMHO.
In fact, sometimes I wish he'd get out and leave me alone.
So just tell him to take a hike for a few hours. I'm sure he'd enjoy the time to do his things without any guilt. When someone asks a question, the 2 possible answers are YES or NO.
Mine does that too. I tell him if he wants to blame it on me, I'm ok with that. But it's usually one of this group of guys that he's making excuses too anyway, they will just assume I'm the problem.
Seriously, as long as I don't have plans, and he gives me enough info about where he is and when he'll be home, so I don't imagine him splattered on the road somewhere. :shrug: It's not like he's out all the time or his friends are sleezeballs.
In fact, sometimes I wish he'd get out and leave me alone.
I don't think I have ever had a guy whipped... ever. But I always give the courtesy of checking if there are other plans before I commit to going out without my significant other. :shrug: They do the same.