If A Guy Knows How To Cook

[DEEKAYPEE8569]

.....is that an alternative to going out? Say you thought he was taking you out somewhere one night, but instead he shows up at your door with a bag of groceries and heads toward the kitchen, saying something like, "How 'bout SPAM sammiches?" Or....."I brought dinner." "How do you like your steak?"

 

[kwillia]

.....is that an alternative to going out? Say you thought he was taking you out somewhere one night, but instead he shows up at your door with a bag of groceries and heads toward the kitchen, saying something like, "How 'bout SPAM sammiches?" Or....."I brought dinner." "How do you like your steak?"

If it is a first date or early in the dating process and you hardly know each other I think that is just plain creepy. If you've established a solid dating relationship then you wouldn't need to ask us this question... so again... creepy.

 

[migtig]

Are we dating or married?

Dating - if he asked me out, he'd better take me out. If he wants to cook, he should invite me over and cook at his house. He better not be coming to my house, making a mess in my kitchen, burning up my frying pan and leave me dirty dishes to wash and expect anything.

Married - TY sweet baby Jesus for saving my soul from cooking every damn meal every damn day of the week.

 

[DEEKAYPEE8569]

If it is a first date or early in the dating process and you hardly know each other I think that is just plain creepy. If you've established a solid dating relationship then you wouldn't need to ask us this question... so again... creepy.

Who said anything about "first date"?

 

[kwillia]

Who said anything about "first date"?

I assumed you meant first date or early in the dating process. If you had an established relationship you would already know if she would be okay with it.

 

[DEEKAYPEE8569]

Are we dating or married?

Dating - if he asked me out, he'd better take me out. If he wants to cook, he should invite me over and cook at his house. He better not be coming to my house, making a mess in my kitchen, burning up my frying pan and leave me dirty dishes to wash and expect anything.
Married - TY sweet baby Jesus for saving my soul from cooking every damn meal every damn day of the week.

Any guy that does that is a tool.

 

[migtig]

Any guy that does that is a tool.

So there's your answer. Don't do it.

 

[libertytyranny]

I would like to know that in advance..if I am expecting you to take me out..and I get all dressed up and shove my feet into shoes that arent chucks..you better be taking me somewhere

but if you call and say hey..how about i bring some stuff over and cook you dinner? ima ll about that. but i will be wearing yoga pants, fair warning.

 

[DEEKAYPEE8569]

I assumed you meant first date or early in the dating process. If you had an established relationship you would already know if she would be okay with it.

Well, we all know what happens when you asume.
I should've included that this was an established relationship.
But since you brought it up, ejumuhkate me please. What is your idea of an 'established':ie: relationship? And don't say 'married.' I'm talking about working up to that point.

 

[DEEKAYPEE8569]

I would like to know that in advance..if I am expecting you to take me out..and I get all dressed up and shove my feet into shoes that arent chucks..you better be taking me somewhere

but if you call and say hey..how about i bring some stuff over and cook you dinner? ima ll about that. but i will be wearing yoga pants, fair warning.

As long as you can shoehorn everything into those yoga pants, I'm okay with it. :shrug:

 

[thurley42]

Well, we all know what happens when you asume.
I should've included that this was an established relationship.
But since you brought it up, ejumuhkate me please. What is your idea of an 'established':ie: relationship? And don't say 'married.' I'm talking about working up to that point.

dude, you don't know what being in a relationship means?

 

[DEEKAYPEE8569]

So there's your answer. Don't do it.

But see.....not only do I know how to cook; I know how to clean up afterward. Believe it or not, there are lotsa guys who know that leaving a mess ain't cool.

 

[DEEKAYPEE8569]

dude, you don't know what being in a relationship means?

Sure I do. I just want to hear Kwillia's take on it.

 

[kwillia]

Sure I do. I just want to hear Kwillia's take on it.

An established dating relationship to me means you would be asking her if you can bypass taking her out and cook at her house rather than asking us.

 

[aps45819]

.....is that an alternative to going out? Say you thought he was taking you out somewhere one night, but instead he shows up at your door with a bag of groceries and heads toward the kitchen, saying something like, "How 'bout SPAM sammiches?" Or....."I brought dinner." "How do you like your steak?"

Be flexible, he might be a great cook.
If he isn't, kick his ass out after he washes the dishes

 

[DEEKAYPEE8569]

An established dating relationship to me means you would be asking her if you can bypass taking her out and cook at her house rather than asking us.

But.....but.....your opinions matter to me.

 

[kwillia]

But.....but.....your opinions matter to me.

And I already gave you my serious answers.

 

[DaisyDuke]

But see.....not only do I know how to cook; I know how to clean up afterward. Believe it or not, there are lotsa guys who know that leaving a mess ain't cool.

are you well hung?

 

[mydoghasfleas]

I assumed you meant first date or early in the dating process. If you had an established relationship you would already know if she would be okay with it.

'member that nanner & peanut butter sammich I made you that your ruined with ketchup?

 

[kwillia]

'member that nanner & peanut butter sammich I made you that your ruined with ketchup?