I agree with everything you've said here Vrai, except the magic and sparks for kids only. Having been in an on/off relationship with a man for three years (1 of which we lived together), and yes I know three years really isn't much compared to your life with hubby...but hear me out, through all the highs and lows, to this day everytime I see him I get that spark inside of me. He still makes my heart skip a beat.
