Love Sucks

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Magnum

Should be Huntin
dems4me said:
:smoochy: personally, I can't stand someone always in my space and has to be right next to me 24/7 -- I like a zone around me of about 5 feet... :lol:
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See I like it when someone tries to be around me, or with me. Shows me they are taking interest in what I like, as well as I would do the same in turn
 
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dems4me

Guest
Magnum said:
See I like it when someone tries to be around me, or with me. Shows me they are taking interest in what I like, as well as I would do the same in turn
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Yes, but folks like me need their space sometimes and can't stand that everytime they get up to do something there's weight they need to push off of them or step around, etc... It's a hinderance, I don't care if it was Tom Cruise, I need space to get up and do things, etc...:shrug: Without it, I'd have the ball and chain feeling everytime I tried to do something, even if its something so simple as using the restroom or something.
 
M

Magnum

Should be Huntin
dems4me said:
Yes, but folks like me need their space sometimes and can't stand that everytime they get up to do something there's weight they need to push off of them or step around, etc... It's a hinderance, I don't care if it was Tom Cruise, I need space to get up and do things, etc...:shrug: Without it, I'd have the ball and chain feeling everytime I tried to do something, even if its something so simple as using the restroom or something.
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I agree, wasn't trying to imply that
 
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dems4me

Guest
Magnum said:
I agree, wasn't trying to imply that
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Thanks.... it seems like most the folks I date are like glued to me or something... space is healthy :yay: Another :smoochy: for you... are you feeling your affection deficit restored yet :shrug: :smoochy: :smoochy:
 
M

Magnum

Should be Huntin
dems4me said:
Thanks.... it seems like most the folks I date are like glued to me or something... space is healthy :yay: Another :smoochy: for you... are you feeling your affection deficit restored yet :shrug: :smoochy: :smoochy:
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Well A little, but it's not on here where I need to get it
 
CityGrl

CityGrl

Time for a nap
Great song for the moment...

"Standing at the edge of this cliff
Gravity being what it is
I'm afraid that I might stumble
'Cause I've never been this high
I'm so carried away by this place
And the simple beauty of your face
Then the walls start to crumble
And I'm helpless to fight

Chorus:
'Cause you can't ask the sun not to shine
And no one's ever found a way to stall time
Oh baby it's unstoppable
I can't resist at all
I would never try to slow down the wind
Baby it just has to be what it is
And asking me not to love you
Is like asking Niagra not to fall

I can't worry my heart with what if
Oh maybe I should just give in
And wrap myself around you
And let you take me down
Take me down

Chorus:
'Cause you can't ask the sun not to shine
And no one's ever found a way to stall time
Oh baby it's unstoppable
I can't resist at all
I would never try to slow down the wind
Baby it just has to be what it is
And asking me not to love you
Is like asking Niagra not to fall

Oooh, Yaaa

No you can't ask the sun not to shine
And no one's ever found a way to stall time
Oh baby it's unstoppable
I can't resist at all
I would never try to slow down the wind
Baby it just has to be what it is
And asking me not to love you
Is like asking Niagra not to fall

Oooh, Yaaa

Rain, rain, rain, down on me
Wash, wash, wash, over me
Fall, fall, fall, into me"
 
ylexot

ylexot

Super Genius
I always liked this one for situations like that...

You make it hard to breathe
It's as if I'm suffocating
And when you're next to me
I can feel your heartbeat through my skin
It makes me sad to think
This could all be for nothing
I wish there was a way
For you to see inside me
I've never felt this way
About anyone or anything
Tell me
What do I have to do
To make you happy?
What do I have to do
To make you understand?
What do I have to do
To make you want me?
And if I can't make you want me
What do I have to do?

I know exactly what you're thinking
But I swear this time I will not let you down
I'm not as selfish as I used to be
That was a part of me that never made me proud
Right now I think I would try anything
Anything at all to keep you satisfied
God I hope you see what losing you would do to me
All I want is one more chance, so tell me
What do I have to do
To make you happy?
What do I have to do
To make you understand?
What do I have to do
To make you love me?
And if I can't make you love me
What do I have to do
To forget about you?
 
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dems4me

Guest
CityGrl said:
Great song for the moment...

"Standing at the edge of this cliff
Gravity being what it is
I'm afraid that I might stumble
'Cause I've never been this high
I'm so carried away by this place
And the simple beauty of your face
Then the walls start to crumble
And I'm helpless to fight

Chorus:
'Cause you can't ask the sun not to shine
And no one's ever found a way to stall time
Oh baby it's unstoppable
I can't resist at all
I would never try to slow down the wind
Baby it just has to be what it is
And asking me not to love you
Is like asking Niagra not to fall

I can't worry my heart with what if
Oh maybe I should just give in
And wrap myself around you
And let you take me down
Take me down

Chorus:
'Cause you can't ask the sun not to shine
And no one's ever found a way to stall time
Oh baby it's unstoppable
I can't resist at all
I would never try to slow down the wind
Baby it just has to be what it is
And asking me not to love you
Is like asking Niagra not to fall

Oooh, Yaaa

No you can't ask the sun not to shine
And no one's ever found a way to stall time
Oh baby it's unstoppable
I can't resist at all
I would never try to slow down the wind
Baby it just has to be what it is
And asking me not to love you
Is like asking Niagra not to fall

Oooh, Yaaa

Rain, rain, rain, down on me
Wash, wash, wash, over me
Fall, fall, fall, into me"
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Is there someone around you that can tell you "you're cut off"? :ohwell:
 
J

Josimmon

New Member
I have found that if you are with the wrong person then love is a pain in the arse! But I believe there is someone out there for everyone. I wanted nothing to do with men after the last failed attempt at a long term relationship. I was going to be free and wild for the rest of my life. Then I met my husband and my swinging single days were shot. I don’t think a good marriage is a lot of work. My relationship now is the easiest I have ever had because we respect, love and trust each other completely. We have been together almost 7 years and I still love holding his hand. When you least expect it, the right person will be there….in the mean time use & abuse for all of us married people!
 
Triggerfish

Triggerfish

New Member
Kizzy said:
It is just what I said. Women will harp on the littlest of things, nag to a certain degree, over analyze words/situations/feelings to death, whereas men just don't dwell on things for very long. :kiss:
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I've been told I overanalyze everything. :shrug: I think it's mostly paranoia for me.
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
CityGrl said:
Funny how life changes from December to September.
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It's because you're young. If you were older and more mature, you'd have a more philosophical outlook on life and be less likely to think that how you're feeling right now is how you'll feel for the rest of your life.
 
CityGrl

CityGrl

Time for a nap
vraiblonde said:
It's because you're young. If you were older and more mature, you'd have a more philosophical outlook on life and be less likely to think that how you're feeling right now is how you'll feel for the rest of your life.
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Probably right. I was pretty down then, and then life changed.
 
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HollowSoul

Guest
vraiblonde said:
It's because you're young. If you were older and more mature, you'd have a more philosophical outlook on life and be less likely to think that how you're feeling right now is how you'll feel for the rest of your life.
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nah...your over analyzing

she musta got laid recently :lol:
 
K

Kizzy

Guest
Triggerfish said:
I've been told I overanalyze everything. :shrug: I think it's mostly paranoia for me.
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:nono: Self-talk can be bad. It can talk you right into failure.

Why me, always me, this is never going to work :blahblah:

I'm a pleaser and well, I've had to establish my own boundaries and learn to speak up right then and there, firmly, without sugar coating it, when things do bother me, not sit there and think, am I reading this wrong, is it that big of a deal, letting things slide over and over again.

At first, this was very difficult, but I have found that once you do it the 1st few times, it gets easier.

Now, I have found my best relationships are the ones that just fall into place. :huggy:
 
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