Mother-in law babysitting children

[sockgirl77]

Its a program through social services ,they help pay your childcare.

Sounds like you know alot about the program.

 

[itsbob]

You wouldn't catch me dead in some else's laundry...but MIL probably has no clue she's offending wifey-poo.

All it takes is for wifey-poo to grow a sack and tell MIL it bothers her....she shouldn't put her husband in the middle.

Offended or no, I think i speak for BG on this, but we would have NO problem if my mom chose to watch bubba.. and she chose to do the laundry and put stuff away.. hell, I'd ask what her favorite detergent and fabric softener was and buy it for her. I'd even buy her her very own SPECIAL custom laundry basket.. Longaberger even..

 

[cattitude]

Offended or no, I think i speak for BG on this, but we would have NO problem if my mom chose to watch bubba.. and she chose to do the laundry and put stuff away.. hell, I'd ask what her favorite detergent and fabric softener was and buy it for her. I'd even buy her her very own SPECIAL custom laundry basket.. Longaberger even..

Longaberger, huh? Hmmmmmmmm........

 

[Cowgirl]

Offended or no, I think i speak for BG on this, but we would have NO problem if my mom chose to watch bubba.. and she chose to do the laundry and put stuff away.. hell, I'd ask what her favorite detergent and fabric softener was and buy it for her. I'd even buy her her very own SPECIAL custom laundry basket.. Longaberger even..

I agree....it would be SO nice if BF's mom wanted to watch our kids and do our laundry. Crap, I would have no problem paying her to do it either.

 

[milkshake]

You basically have to live in poverty to qualify or work at Walmart full time.

Not really my niece has a decent job and they pay some of her daycare.

 

[Qurious]

Not really my niece has a decent job and they pay some of her daycare.

if she had a decent job she wouldn't need child care vouchers.

 

[vraiblonde]

All it takes is for wifey-poo to grow a sack and tell MIL it bothers her....she shouldn't put her husband in the middle.

The wife obviously doesn't have the kind of relationship with her MIL where she can just tell her to quit playing with the underpants. And I suspect it's because MIL still can't quite let go of her little boy, otherwise she wouldn't feel the need to intrude on their privacy like that.

Son is the one that needs to grow a sack and tell him Mom what the boundaries are.

 

[milkshake]

Sounds like you know alot about the program.

Not alot ,i know a little bit about it. And i'm not ashamed to admit it,like i said my niece gets help from them. so you are acting like you don't know about the program huh?

 

[vraiblonde]

To all you ladies who would be perfectly fine with your MIL doing your laundry:

(Don't listen, guys)

When you have your monthly visitor, occasionally there is a little leakage. Do you REALLY want your MIL hitting that with the stain remover? Really?

 

[sockgirl77]

Not alot ,i know a little bit about it. And i'm not ashamed to admit it,like i said my niece gets help from them. so you are acting like you don't know about the program huh?

Yes, I know about the program but I am not nor have I ever been on it. Like people said, you have to make damn near nothing to get daycare assistance.

 

[itsbob]

INCOME ELIGIBILITY SCALE

Family Size Maximum Annual Gross Income
1 18,565
2 24,277
3 29,990
4 35,702
5 41,414
6 47,127
7 48,198
8 49,269
9 50,340
10 51,411


I'd say you have to be pretty poor to qualify.. by local standards anyways..

 

[vraiblonde]

you are acting like you don't know about the program huh?

No offense, but why don't you shut up? You don't need to turn every thread into a "Pick at Socki" thread.

Tard.

 

[Qurious]

INCOME ELIGIBILITY SCALE

Family Size Maximum Annual Gross Income
1 18,565
2 24,277
3 29,990
4 35,702
5 41,414
6 47,127
7 48,198
8 49,269
9 50,340
10 51,411


I'd say you have to be pretty poor to qualify.. by local standards anyways..

LOL

A family of 4 surviving off of less than 40k is ridiculous!!! The system is made for people to stay trapped in it....

 

[BadGirl]

Not really my niece has a decent job and they pay some of her daycare.

Well, heck, how can I sign up for this program? I want to go on a cruise in November, and the daycare that I'm now paying is making it really tough to do the cruise AND pay for Christmas which is right around the corner.

 

[sockgirl77]

To all you ladies who would be perfectly fine with your MIL doing your laundry:

(Don't listen, guys)

When you have your monthly visitor, occasionally there is a little leakage. Do you REALLY want your MIL hitting that with the stain remover? Really?

:shrug:

Mine would only do our laundry because she is too damn nosey. She'd be digging in our pockets and checking under the bed.

 

[Cowgirl]

INCOME ELIGIBILITY SCALE

Family Size Maximum Annual Gross Income
1 18,565
2 24,277
3 29,990
4 35,702
5 41,414
6 47,127
7 48,198
8 49,269
9 50,340
10 51,411


I'd say you have to be pretty poor to qualify.. by local standards anyways..

BF's ex gets this for the kids's daycare. She only pays $65 every other week for a 4 year old and a 22 month old. She's a CNA and I think she only makes about $11/hr.

 

[Cowgirl]

The wife obviously doesn't have the kind of relationship with her MIL where she can just tell her to quit playing with the underpants. And I suspect it's because MIL still can't quite let go of her little boy, otherwise she wouldn't feel the need to intrude on their privacy like that.

Son is the one that needs to grow a sack and tell him Mom what the boundaries are.

That visual.........

 

[milkshake]

No offense, but why don't you shut up? You don't need to turn every thread into a "Pick at Socki" thread.

Tard.

oh but when she **picks** on people its ok ..i wasnt really *picking* on any one sorry if people took it that way.

 

[sockgirl77]

oh but when she **picks** on people its ok ..i wasnt really *picking* on any one sorry if people took it that way.

You follow my posts. How many of your 10 total posts have not been about me?

 

[pixiegirl]

To all you ladies who would be perfectly fine with your MIL doing your laundry:

(Don't listen, guys)

When you have your monthly visitor, occasionally there is a little leakage. Do you REALLY want your MIL hitting that with the stain remover? Really?

Well she's obviously a woman who bore a child... Not a huge deal. And I consider just about all clothing disposable. If I was getting free daycare and laundry service in my home I'd pitch the undies.

I have one of the worst ex MILs there is and I'd still let her do my laundry. :shrug: