Move over JPC - Meet super-duper deadbeat

[Sharon]

I think he's going to get a monkey.

 

[harleygirl]

I think he's going to get a monkey.

I hope that monkey does not have kids......

 

[Too Hot 4u]

I have thought about this and it is not humor to me. I am considering getting married again (after the election) and any woman that has children and a missing father then I will not marry her and if I know ahead of time then I will not even date such a woman. She already has a husband and those children need their real father and there is always a chance their family might get back together so I will not put myself in the middle of such a broken relationship. I do know others jump at such things but I feel certain that if I do it then God will strike me down being that I do know better then to do such a thing.

God what a tard, you just threw everything that you have said out the window with that one. Might as well throw in the towel now buddy.

 

[Too Hot 4u]

LOL... I think I have calmed down. BUT if I start up again kick me in the rear.... It just does not make any sense. How can someone go so against everything that sounds normal to everyone else? NOW
I understand some of the posts in here a lot better.

ohh little miss cutie pie is in here too. hun I can only guess how big your rear is so maybe you should pick something a little smaller. Who are you to judge what is normal? Have you looked in a mirror lately? What are those curls? or what???

 

[Too Hot 4u]

JPC, please humor me and answer a hypothetical question for me......

I would assume that you are single. Let's say you meet a younger woman with two small kids and fall madly in love, and get remarried. New wife has little to no income, maybe even lives on disability. The two new step-children's natural father is traveling around the country running his very wealthy business, and does not see his children that much, but earns a six figure income. Do you ask for child support or not, or do you financially support these children?

You are a very smart women I would not waste anymore time on this one.

 

[somd whisper]

ohh little miss cutie pie is in here too. hun I can only guess how big your rear is so maybe you should pick something a little smaller. Who are you to judge what is normal? Have you looked in a mirror lately? What are those curls? or what???

So you think I am cute?? LOL, well my rear is a little on the well endowed side but hey I am working on that. I am not anyone to judge what is normal I will leave that up to society for the most part as and far as picking something smaller, any suggestions? Why so much hate???

 

[camily]

So you think I am cute?? LOL, well my rear is a little on the well endowed side but hey I am working on that. I am not anyone to judge what is normal I will leave that up to society for the most part as and far as picking something smaller, any suggestions? Why so much hate???

Because she is a hater. Don't sweat it.

 

[JPC, Sr.]

The Preacher!

I still think you are dodging the questions........okay, here is another scenerio....for some unknown reason, you are given custody of a grandchild because the natural parents are not interested in raising a child. Both parents work, but do not see the child that you have custody of. Do you then ask for child support?

I would not ask for child support and I would not reccommend it to any one else to seek that ill-gotten money. But I do know that the State does force many custodial parents to sign the child support papers and betray their children's other parent and I understand that.

If it were up to me then I would get some property and invite all my family with nieces and nephews and granddaughter too and all the family could live with me for free. Like an ashram.

I like the story of the "Walton's" of Walton's Mountain, where the grandpa and grandma owned the Walton's Mountain and they let their son and his wife and five children live with them and the grandparents slept downstairs in the old section of the house by the kitchen. They were "great depression" poor and no welfare system and that tale made one of America's greatest family stories with book and movie and T.V. series and it was based on a true family story.

In today's mixed up culture such grandparents would sell the mountain and get a moble home Winnebego trailer and then travel, or else use the money on a fancy retirement and screw their grown kids.

If the Walton's son and his wife were alive today then they would be told to get abortions and take birth control after the first baby "John-boy" was born and they sure would be condemned for being poor and having five children. Because our present society has its values in the wrong places.

In that Walton's story it shows that family and children are the first and foremost in value, while today people claim the children are a burden as child support claims, and that is just plain wrong and I say it is foolish too as I would love to have the kids and their families with me.

On another note, good luck finding a g/f that was never divorced with no children...... It is a shame your choices are limited because of your prejudiced view on things.

I do not want to personally participate in adultery, and yes I know it is widespread in our present society. She could be a widow and have children.

 

[RoseRed]

 

[harleygirl]

I see.......then if she were a widow with children, then I am sure you would hand back over those social security checks that the children receive in lieu of child support from the deceased daddy.......

 

[kwillia]

In today's mixed up culture such grandparents would sell the mountain and get a moble home Winnebego trailer and then travel, or else use the money on a fancy retirement and screw their grown kids.

So parents are responsible for leaving a nest egg for their kids upon their passing... what will you be leaving your son...

 

[camily]

In today's mixed up culture such grandparents would sell the mountain and get a moble home Winnebego trailer and then travel, or else use the money on a fancy retirement and screw their grown kids.

What's wrong with that? That's exactly what I want to do. Maybe not sell the "mountain" but befinitely buy a camper and travel. Maybe come home every few weeks, say hi, then off again.

 

[RoseRed]

What's wrong with that? That's exactly what I want to do. Maybe not sell the "mountain" but befinitely buy a camper and travel. Maybe come home every few weeks, say hi, then off again.

Is he trying to say that married parents of grown children are responsible for their grown childrens wellbeing and upkeep after their job as prents for 18 years has been done?

Interesting...

 

[Sharon]

If it were up to me then I would get some property and invite all my family with nieces and nephews and granddaughter too and all the family could live with me for free.

In today's mixed up culture such grandparents would sell the mountain and get a moble home Winnebego trailer and then travel, or else use the money on a fancy retirement and screw their grown kids.

If the Walton's son and his wife were alive today then they would be told to get abortions and take birth control after the first baby "John-boy" was born and they sure would be condemned for being poor and having five children. Because our present society has its values in the wrong places.

In that Walton's story it shows that family and children are the first and foremost in value, while today people claim the children are a burden as child support claims, and that is just plain wrong and I say it is foolish too as I would love to have the kids and their families with me.

You're delusional and your past speaks volumns about what you actually did. You can't change it by creating some comfy fantasy while sitting in the library all day.

 

[harleygirl]

What's wrong with that? That's exactly what I want to do. Maybe not sell the "mountain" but befinitely buy a camper and travel. Maybe come home every few weeks, say hi, then off again.

Exactly, Camily. Unlike JPC, some people do not constantly play the victim role, and expect something for nothing. My parents owe me nothing, and when my son is grown I will owe him nothing. The Waltons mountain story is a sweet one, but again they supported each other, something JPC knows nothing about. If he supported his kid, he would have sucked it up, paid the money, and stayed around to be a partner in raising his son.

 

[camily]

Is he trying to say that married parents of grown children are responsible for their grown childrens wellbeing and upkeep after their job as prents for 18 years has been done?

Interesting...

Exactly. Ironic that he says you should support them when they are grown and should be supporting themselves, but not while they are young and need the support most.

 

[RoseRed]

Exactly. Ironic that he says you should support them when they are grown and should be supporting themselves, but not while they are young and need the support most.

UFB.

 

[camily]

Exactly, Camily. Unlike JPC, some people do not constantly play the victim role, and expect something for nothing. My parents owe me nothing, and when my son is grown I will owe him nothing. The Waltons mountain story is a sweet one, but again they supported each other, something JPC knows nothing about. If he supported his kid, he would have sucked it up, paid the money, and stayed around to be a partner in raising his son.

Yeah, the Waltons is a sweet story. My kids can if they think I'm gonna support them when they're grown.

 

[somd whisper]

Because she is a hater. Don't sweat it.

Hi Camily!

how are you doing? Hot enough for you? I was thinking about leaving to go work off my fat bu** but it is too hot outside.

 

[hvp05]

I know this is an "old" post by now, but I can not resist...

I am considering getting married again...

Helpful tip, JPC: These modern, fancy women do not appreciate being clubbed and dragged back to the cave like the ladies of your youth.

... those children need their real father...

And this is different from your case how? James, Jr. needed you, but you felt fine to unload him completely on your ex and eventually her new husband.

I do know others jump at such things but I feel certain that if I do it then God will strike me down being that I do know better then to do such a thing.

James, Jr. is rather fortunate that he did have a step-father, since his biological father was - and is - a limp POS.

Oh, and are you subtly implying that your ex-wife was "struck down" with cancer because she remarried? Again I say that no god of yours would ever receive my praise.