My freakin' car quit

camily

camily

Peace
bresamil said:
Camily-

I totally understand you wanting to be with the children and considering Celie's condition, it is the best choice for now.

What I don't understand is why there is no checking account, why you need to ask for money every day, why there isn't a household budget in place with you having equal access to the funds as you are doing work within the home that is equal to his on the outside. And when something unexpected like this car repair comes up, you sit down as partners and figure out how it can be handled.

You are way too smart to be in this situation. I generally only find these situations in relationships that are unhealthy and sometimes abusive.

I am concerned.
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Awhile back we had alot of problems and the account was closed. There is no reason now, just that he/we haven't done it yet. Believe me, it will be done soon. I know what your saying though.

Maybe it is slightly unhealthy, but not abisive. He is just inconsiderate I guess. He does give me money when I ask (or tell) him I need it, but it is degrading to have to say "I need deodorant" or whatever.
 
Pete

Pete

Repete
camily said:
Beat his ef'n ass. :killingme
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Was it you that said Socialism wasn't so bad?

Sounds like that is what you have. He is in charge and only give you what he thinks you need. you are not starving, you have clothes, you sleep inside, yup sounds like socialism to me. :shrug:
 
camily

camily

Peace
Pete said:
Was it you that said Socialism wasn't so bad?

Sounds like that is what you have. He is in charge and only give you what he thinks you need. you are not starving, you have clothes, you sleep inside, yup sounds like socialism to me. :shrug:
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I didn't say that but that DOES sound like it. :lmao:
 
B

bresamil

wandering aimlessly
camily said:
Awhile back we had alot of problems and the account was closed. There is no reason now, just that he/we haven't done it yet. Believe me, it will be done soon. I know what your saying though.

Maybe it is slightly unhealthy, but not abisive. He is just inconsiderate I guess. He does give me money when I ask (or tell) him I need it, but it is degrading to have to say "I need deodorant" or whatever.
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you shouldn't have to itemize down to that level. He should trust you to handle the groceries/necessities fund and hand over the amount the two of you agree upon in your budget every payday.

I'm really curious now - how do you pay your bills with no checking account? :confused:
 
camily

camily

Peace
bresamil said:
you shouldn't have to itemize down to that level. He should trust you to handle the groceries/necessities fund and hand over the amount the two of you agree upon in your budget every payday.

I'm really curious now - how do you pay your bills with no checking account? :confused:
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I'll pm you in a bit.
 
SeaRide

SeaRide

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:flashback of my ex:
Wow .. thanks for bringing back the nightmares with my first wife. If your hubby can't get his priorities straighten out, are you really going to stuck it out with him?
I don't mean to be nosy or anything.

Just a suggestion.. ask your hubby to get you four blocks. If he ask what it's for, tell him it's for your car to be on the blocks in the front yard since he can't get his sh!tty priorities straighten out.
Tinted windows? oh please .. :rolleyes:
 
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