My friend, the pig

[aps45819]

I went out Saturday night with a man who not only took the time to walk around the car to open the door for me, but also said he won't have sex with anyone he does not love..

That's not the norm?

 

[Pandora]

That's not the norm?

I can see the point. Why put yet another notch in the ole bed post with somebody you have no intensions of being with long term?

There comes a point where the "bang bang" on some casual basis gets old and great sex really comes with getting to know somebody not only physically but emotionally.

And haven’t you heard, that you sleep with everyone they have ever slept with?

Not all men think with the little head.

 

[sushisamba]

That's not the norm?

 

[fttrsbeerwench]

He's gotta be gay, then.




j/k fttrs

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You are too much!!
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And Aps, I have a feeling you are from a different school of dating.. Where men actually had manners and class.
I'm somewhat old fashioned when it comes to certain things.. I think that men have a role to play in dating that most guys just don't have a clue about unless they are over 40. I have dated three men who were younger than myself, I was not impressed. So no, it's not the norm for alot of guys to be chivalrous(sp) since they haven't a clue. Or they only do it until they bed you then they become lax.

 

[aps45819]

So no, it's not the norm for alot of guys to be chivalrous(sp) since they haven't a clue. Or they only do it until they bed you then they become lax.

Most of the women here win't wait for me to get around to open the car door. At least if it's locked when you come back they have to wait till you unlock it. I was taught that you ALWAYS hold the door open for your date. (or any other woman) Kids today don't have any manners.

 

[fttrsbeerwench]

Most of the women here win't wait for me to get around to open the car door. At least if it's locked when you come back they have to wait till you unlock it. I was taught that you ALWAYS hold the door open for your date. (or any other woman) Kids today don't have any manners.

I think that shows a great deal of consideration and would happiliy let any man hold a door for me, or take me coat or ask for my hand to assist me in getting on a bike or in a boat. I think it's nice. Good for you, Aps.

My last BF was an Andy Griffith fan and spoke often of the Barney Fife Test.. If she leans over and opens your door after you let her in the car.. Then she's a keeper..
Unfortunatly, I was so asounded by my friends actions, I can't even remember if I did that or not..


Don't do anything you don't want to keep on doing fellas!

 

[Pete]

I think that shows a great deal of consideration and would happiliy let any man hold a door for me, or take me coat or ask for my hand to assist me in getting on a bike or in a boat. I think it's nice. Good for you, Aps.

My last BF was an Andy Griffith fan and spoke often of the Barney Fife Test.. If she leans over and opens your door after you let her in the car.. Then she's a keeper..
Unfortunatly, I was so asounded by my friends actions, I can't even remember if I did that or not..


Don't do anything you don't want to keep on doing fellas!

Does helping her find her panties in a dark room so she can get dressed to go home count as courtesy?

 

[bresamil]

I have GOT to stop reading this at night.

 

[fttrsbeerwench]

Does helping her find her panties in a dark room so she can get dressed to go home count as courtesy?

What panties?:shrug:


Come to beerwench ...

 

[Pete]

What panties?:shrug:


Come to beerwench ...

Ooooo la la

 

[MMDad]

I know this guy - single and has had very few steady relationships. He complains all the time that he can't find a decent woman to date.

This guy is also a pig. He refers to women's breasts as "hooters", right in front of them, possibly on the first date.

He goes off about how long it's been since he's been laid (in front of his date).

He burps and farts indiscriminately.

He tells his date that she should forgo dessert because her ass is huge.

Do you think there is a connection between his "approach" and his lack of repeat dates? Because he says that's not it - he says there are just "no women in St. Mary's County".

Sorry to get the thread back on topic but.....

This is actually a defensive tactic. He's afraid of failing in a relationship, so he guarantees it will never get that far. He dates for two reasons: so people don't think he's gay, and there's always a chance he might get a piece. He is obnoxious because he is sure he will eventually fail, so he sabotages it early. He sounds so much like my brother that I feel like I know him.

The fact is there are plenty of good women in St. Mary's, just as there are plenty of good men. People who say otherwise are just making up excuses. If the women you are looking for don't hang out at your local dive, maybe you need to look elsewhere?

 

[vraiblonde]

Most of the women here win't wait for me to get around to open the car door.

That's because they're not used to it. On mine and Larry's first date, we walked to my car because he was parked a ways away and I was going to drive him to his vehicle. We get to the car and he walks around to the driver's side - I was like, "Oh...did...you want to drive?"

He says, "Well, no - I was going to open your door for you." (you redneck idiot )

But I hadn't had a man open my door for me in YEARS. Larry also tried to pull out my chair, only to have me assume he wanted to sit in that seat. St. Mary's guys don't do things like that. They also won't hold the door for you.

 

[fttrsbeerwench]

That's just what I said,

I assumed he wanted me to drive his truck... I was astounded.

:laughing:

 

[aps45819]

He says, "Well, no - I was going to open your door for you." (you redneck idiot )

That's exactly what I thought

 

[vraiblonde]

I assumed he wanted me to drive his truck... I was astounded.

When I was newly single, there was this guy who had been chasing me like I don't know what. Sent roses to my office, enlisted my female co-workers - really put the rush on me.

So I agree to go out with him. We get the the restaurant and he blasts past me, whips open the door...



...walks through and lets it slam in my face.

 

[jazz lady]

When I was newly single, there was this guy who had been chasing me like I don't know what. Sent roses to my office, enlisted my female co-workers - really put the rush on me.

So I agree to go out with him. We get the the restaurant and he blasts past me, whips open the door...



...walks through and lets it slam in my face.

First and LAST date, I assume?

I guess I come from the old-fashioned school. I find it extremely attractive when a man has manners: holding open the door, pulling my chair out, helping me with my coat, and a thousand other little touches that totally endear him to me.

 

[vraiblonde]

I guess I come from the old-fashioned school. I find it extremely attractive when a man has manners: holding open the door, pulling my chair out, helping me with my coat, and a thousand other little touches that totally endear him to me.

That's how Larry caught me - pure and simple manners and courtesy.

I am proud to say that the only thing on the initial list that Larry does is he occasionally will say "hooters" - but he only does it in play because he knows it aggravates me.

 

[Pandora]

First and LAST date, I assume?

I guess I come from the old-fashioned school. I find it extremely attractive when a man has manners: holding open the door, pulling my chair out, helping me with my coat, and a thousand other little touches that totally endear him to me.

Which is why Airgasm is so damn He has the best manners of any forum male.

Sorry guys but credit should be given where credit is due.

 

[Agee]

Adter bartending all those years. Most of the guys I have met and dated have been just like him...

I went out Saturday night with a man who not only took the time to walk around the car to open the door for me, but also said he won't have sex with anyone he does not love..

It was so shocking that I nearly fainted beside the car.. I think this man is amazing ....

Good on you!

Although, It's curious for a man to launch his intentions of passion, or lack there of early in the game. Is that not the wonderful part of the ritual? Not to know, but to see...

Ummm

 

[jazz lady]

Although, It's curious for a man to launch his intentions of passion, or lack there of early in the game. Is that not the wonderful part of the ritual? Not to know, but to see...

Ummm

It is indeed. To explore each other, find out the other's nuances, and see where it will lead. That is the thrill and excitement of the game.