"My Ring is Bigger than Yours"

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Redskinsmama

New Member
CRoyal said:
It's all about priorities. In many people's head's, things like jewelry should come AFTER stability with a home, car, and other things. I guess your family taught you that jewlery is a priority
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i have stability without a man. and yes, jewelry is a priority to me.
 
Cowgirl

Cowgirl

Well-Known Member
This ring thing brings up another good question. If you break up before the wedding, do you give the ring back to him?

I say YES, always give it back.

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K_Jo

K_Jo

Pea Brain
PREMO Member
Cowgirl said:
This ring thing brings up another good question. If you break up before the wedding, do you give the ring back to him?

I say YES, always give it back.

:popcorn:
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Yes, unless you broke up because he cheated on you. Then you get to keep it and burn all his stuff.
 
pixiegirl

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
Cowgirl said:
This ring thing brings up another good question. If you break up before the wedding, do you give the ring back to him?

I say YES, always give it back.

:popcorn:
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I did. I tried to give my ex husband his back as well but he wouldn't take it.
 
MDTerps

MDTerps

Back in the saddle
Cowgirl said:
This ring thing brings up another good question. If you break up before the wedding, do you give the ring back to him?

I say YES, always give it back.

:popcorn:
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Depends on what the break up is over. Lets say he cheated. HELL no he don't get #### back.
If we break up b/c it just isn't there any more, then yes he can have the ring back.
 
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Redskinsmama

New Member
CRoyal said:
It's true. I agree.
It's the emphasis on the ring that I saw that really set me off.. I just find it impossible to see the importance of it. There are materialistic people out there, no doubt..We all want a nice car and something to show off, but to make it over a symbol of love and commitment just seems so wrong. No matter how much you like jewlery.
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seriously? why would you care that someone wants a big engagement ring? You don't mind that people buy mansions and drive hummers to show off, but a woman with a big engagement ring means she doesn't take love and commitment seriously? I don't want a huge house...give me enough room to lay my head and i'm set...don't need a new car...just something to get me from point A to B.....but since i've picked a materialistic item that doesn't fit in your realm of what's ok, that's wrong?
 
Toxick

Toxick

Splat
CRoyal said:
What the hell is going on? Why is this huge burden put on the man to get some amazing piece of jewelry that is already overpriced?
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Since women don't have penises, this is what they've settle on to compare sizes amongst themselves to see who is the better person.




That, and who has more shoes.
 
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Redskinsmama

New Member
Cowgirl said:
This ring thing brings up another good question. If you break up before the wedding, do you give the ring back to him?

I say YES, always give it back.

:popcorn:
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of course...i'm in agreeance with the ladies though....you cheat and it's mine FOREVER!!! i'd have that ring melted into something fabulous.
 
Cowgirl

Cowgirl

Well-Known Member
Redskinsmama said:
of course...i'm in agreeance with the ladies though....you cheat and it's mine FOREVER!!! i'd have that ring melted into something fabulous.
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Yeah, but if he cheated, I wouldn't want that stupid ring anyways. Well, maybe I'd sell it and use the money to buy something nice for myself.
 
MDTerps

MDTerps

Back in the saddle
Toxick said:
Since women don't have penises, this is what they've settle on to compare sizes amongst themselves to see who is the better person.




That, and who has more shoes.
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"My Ring is Bigger... 08-15-2007 02:40 PM your a ho

I must have more shoes then my karma giver. :lol:
 
MDTerps

MDTerps

Back in the saddle
Cowgirl said:
Yeah, but if he cheated, I wouldn't want that stupid ring anyways. Well, maybe I'd sell it and use the money to buy something nice for myself.
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That's why he wouldn't get it back! I could go buy a nice pair of shoes.
 
CRoyal

CRoyal

Infinite Impetus
Redskinsmama said:
seriously? why would you care that someone wants a big <a style='text-decoration: none; border-bottom: 3px double;' href="http://www.serverlogic3.com/lm/rtl3.asp?si=24&k=engagement%20ring" onmouseover="window.status='engagement ring'; return true;" onmouseout="window.status=''; return true;">engagement ring</a>? You don't mind that people buy mansions and drive hummers to show off, but a woman with a big engagement ring means she doesn't take love and commitment seriously? I don't want a huge house...give me enough room to lay my head and i'm set...don't need a <a style='text-decoration: none; border-bottom: 3px double;' href="http://www.serverlogic3.com/lm/rtl3.asp?si=24&k=new%20car" onmouseover="window.status='new car'; return true;" onmouseout="window.status=''; return true;">new car</a>...just something to get me from point A to B.....but since i've picked a materialistic item that doesn't fit in your realm of what's ok, that's wrong?
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It's about what it symbolizes. Like Christmas.. totally material now. An engagement ring is about everything but how much and how big. Clearly we have opposite views on the issue. . I just hope your future/current man sees yours so that you get the ring you lust after.
 
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