Bay_Kat
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and this is the man you are marrying
right?
Need advice from the married women!!!
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EmptyTimCup
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EmptyTimCup
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if you have to do all this, you are in the WRONG Relationship - or in a relationship with the WRONG Attitude
Hell, I'll sell you an '03 Maxima with 204,000 miles on it for 3k, no need for financing.
What kind of shape is it in?
afjess1989
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and your financing this car that has 120K on it?
wow.
since your looking for ways to manipulate your soon to be husband, if the house was given to you by the inlaws as a "gift" and both of your names are supposedly on this, why not take out a home equity loan, and buy yourself a mercedes or jaquar. instead of whining about financing a car w/ 120K miles on it. Your husband doesn't know the real you, or can't read the forums.
Omg!!!!! He wants to buy a car outright hat has 120k on it! I want to buy one that has 25k on it!
You left a lot of the details out in your original post. If you had just presented both sides of the facts instead of asking for help to manipulate, it would have been better.
Most of the advice given here has been solid advice. It's up to you whether you decide to cull thru it and accept any of it or not.
afjess1989
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I just dont want him to blow the money we have saved up on a car with 120k miles on it. Vs the one i want with 25k miles.
MMM_donuts
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And it being a newer model convertible sports car has nothing to do with why you want it so bad?
afjess1989
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Not really. And it doesnt have to be a convertible the dealer had 2 of them one wasnt. I just think the price is good for how many miles.
nobody really
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see, now i'm really confused. you go from putting you both are putting a down payment on a car (that according to your posts has 120K mi on it), and you would make the payments, to "you've been approved for financing". now you're saying he was going to buy it outright and pay cash.
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That's not the way you presented it here.
Maybe you thought it was cute to ask for the manipulation advice, I don't know. I, personally, find nothing cute in being in a relationship where not only is someone living as man & wife (with or without the marriage certificate) sharing a home & bills, with someone who won't treat me as an equal partner & let me have my own say. :shrug: But that's just me.
nobody really
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you go girlllllllllllllllllllll you are on a roll! i couldn't have said it better myself.
afjess1989
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see, now i'm really confused. you go from putting you both are putting a down payment on a car (that according to your posts has 120K mi on it), and you would make the payments, to "you've been approved for financing". now you're saying he was going to buy it outright and pay cash.
i hope your taking common sense 101 in college. and oh, here's some advice: stay in school.
The car he wants has 120k it costs 2,000$. He wants to use the money we saved up for it and buy it out right. I want to use it as a down payment for a car that has 25k on it that costs 6,000$
nobody really
I need a nap
ok, little girl, have a seat:
if you have a house in both of your names (a "gift", i'm assuming you have no mortage payment, and a boat that is clear), perhaps you can get your bank to finance 100% at a very low interest rate, since you have a house and boat free and clear.
MMM_donuts
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Who pays your insurance and what'll be the differences in insurance costs between the two vehicles?
afjess1989
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ok, little girl, have a seat:
if you have a house in both of your names (a "gift", i'm assuming you have no mortage payment, and a boat that is clear), perhaps you can get your bank to finance 100% at a very low interest rate, since you have a house and boat free and clear.
It is. But when i say boat im talking about one.of thoes cheap-o aluminum ones. I thought about that. but i would like to have a down payment so my payments wont be so high.
afjess1989
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Im on his insurance. (Geico) its $79.86 difference. Both are 2 door cars. Both are V6s.
MMM_donuts
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$80 a month? Or $80 total for the 6 month or year? Do you reimburse him for your insurance costs or do those costs fall solely on him? I'm asking because that would potentially play a role in his decision. I've never driven a convertible but I was always told that increases your insurance costs significantly due to the lack of structure around the driver. Would you be willing to compromise if he would get the other Eclipse that's not a convertible?
nobody really
I need a nap
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why? how? why are you on his insurance and you're not married? i didn't think this was possible.