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Pete said:
UMM SOMEONE SOUNDS BITTER
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UMM SOMEONE SOUNDS BITTER
concernedxdadx
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Pete said:I am fearless, not bitter.He has been sending his child support and she has been buying heroine with it. I would think a 10 pound bag of "How the eff do you like this" is in order.
yup! I really got the shaft in hawaii, I feel because I am in the military, but I know for a fact that my son is not seeing the $830 bucks a month! which, BTW I have never missed a payment on.
concernedxdadx
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cattitude said:
No priors, but included in the letter from the social worker who investigated in hawaii that she was suspeceted of "self medicating through alcohol and marijuana" and interview with day care provider that she had shown up to pick up the child smelling of marijuana on more than one occasion. Also, a TRO for a cigarrete burn to my son's face that was eventually dismissed as an accident, but docmentation nonetheless that, if anything, my son's environment has gotten drastically worse.
concernedxdadx
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Pete said:
I'm trying! haha, but the time difference is killing me! I'm going to call the attorney's again first thing in the morning and get this ball rolling, you're right, my main priority is my kid and it's been my motivation all along. I cannot stand hearing things that my child hints to me, like he is 7 yo and he is still sleeping in the same bed as his mother while I have his bed waiting for him at my house.
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julz20684
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Pete said:
Can you do this? I thought it was illegal to tape record a conversation over the phone without telling the person you are recording the conversation first.
SouthernMdRocks
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concernedxdadx said:
That is correct. And should be done right away!!
SouthernMdRocks
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concernedxdadx said:
Have you been in said childs life up to this point?
SouthernMdRocks
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concernedxdadx said:Thanks for the overwhelming support, I am going have to go back and reread all your posts, and act on all the info you have given me.
as soon as I finish posting in here, I will be contacting the numbers you have given.
answers to a few questions, yes, I am in the military, I have been to navy legal and they can only give me advice and point me in the right direction but cannot represent me in town.
the original divorce decree and custody were determined in hawaii, but since she has been living in MD I'm told that MD has jurisdiction. I contacted the social worker in hawaii that originally recommended that I be granted custody because of suspected illegal activity by the mother and he said he was going to look into it as well.
originally, she was granted custody because I am in the military and deployable, but now I am in an undeployable status and I will be rotating to shore duty soon.....
again thank you all for the info and thanks to MD for having public records!!! I am a few hours behind you all, but if I'm not in here following leads, I'm on the phone trying to "hit hard with overwhelming force!"
Good luck to you, let us know how things turn out!!
SouthernMdRocks
R.I.P. Bobo, We miss you!
SouthernMdRocks said:
Here are some numbers that might be helpful:
The Southern Maryland Center for Family Advocacy
Chesapeake Beach, MD 20732
(410) 257-7227
I hear this is one of the better attorney's in the area and that he goes for the throat.
Naji Maloof
89 Duke Street, Prince Frederick, MD 20678
(301) 855-1775
concernedxdadx
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SouthernMdRocks said:
Yes, of course, I have always been in my son's life, in fact for a long time neighbors thought I was a single parent living in navy housing. The ex was granted primary physical and we have joint legal, It was pretty much 50/50 while we were living in the same vicinity, I had to move due to PCS orders and they ended up moving to maryland. But yes, throughout my son's life I have been there.
SouthernMdRocks
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concernedxdadx said:
I do wish you the best of luck getting custody of him because obviously his mom is not good for him.
Tinkerbell
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Please let us know how this turns out. It's VERY heartwarming to see a parent trying so hard to do right by their child and protect them. Especially when it seems so many parents today don't care about their kids. I would really like to know that he came to live with you and he's safe. I hate thinking of a kid in a nasty environment. 
concernedxdadx
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Tinkerbell said:Please let us know how this turns out. It's VERY heartwarming to see a parent trying so hard to do right by their child and protect them. Especially when it seems so many parents today don't care about their kids. I would really like to know that he came to live with you and he's safe. I hate thinking of a kid in a nasty environment.
Thank you! it's also VERY comforting that there ARE concerned parents out there that are willing to help someone they hardly know.
so, this is where I'm at as of this morning, the lawyer (which I got numerous PMs and recommendations) has my intake form and all the "amplifying" material, I'm waiting on her to review the info and go from there. When I spoke to the secretary, she was like "woah! they had what in the car?" and she said she was gonna try and push it up faster.
