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nomoney

nomoney

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okay dude, had posted that I had done some snooping but when I went to dble check names I lost it. Re-found it all. Her court date is jan 12th. They are both addicted to drugs and are in counseling for it. I'm curious why you're not here yet fighting for your child?
 
Pete

Pete

Repete
aps45819 said:
Contact the State's Attorney Office for St. Mary's County
301-475-4590
That's who handles stuff like support and custody

the investigator is Daniel Morris 301-475-5621

This is assuming the mother is a resident here. If not, you'll need to contact a similar official wherever the original custody decree came from. That court would have jurisdiction.
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Actually if the child and the custodial now reside here ST. Mary's has jurisdiction.

What I would do.

Obtain an original (with raised seal) of your divorce and judgement.

I would contact a local lawyer here in MD, send him the divorce judgement and discuss with them filing for an emergency modification of the custody judgement, including permission for you to take the child back to California.


Once the judge signs it and awards you temporary custody, be sure the court date for the hearing for custody is after her criminal court date if possible. That was the findings in that court will be usable in civil court.

Once back in California with your kid, petition the California court with a modification of custody (assuming they are the original jurisdiction). You will also make a motion in ST. Mary's court for them to release jurisdiction in the case to California due to "inconvenient jurisdiction" because the kid now is in California with you and you have a California court date (unless ST Mary's is the original jurisdiction).

If you can pull that off she will have to come to you to fight it. worst case you will have to fly back here for the custody hearing.

Go all out, do not flinch and show no mercy what so ever. Go for the throat and do not under any circumstances listen to any "but she is the kids mother, you can't take a kid away from its mother" bullchit.

Also, do not tell her crap about what is going on. Act like you don't even know. Strike fast, hard and with overwhelming force.
 
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pixiegirl

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
Pete said:
Actually if the child and the custodial now reside here ST. Mary's has jurisdiction.

What I would do.

Obtain an original (with raised seal) of your divorce and judgement.

I would contact a local lawyer here in MD, send him the divorce judgement and discuss with them filing for an emergency modification of the custody judgement, including permission for you to take the child back to California.


Once the judge signs it and awards you temporary custody, be sure the court date for the hearing for custody is after her criminal court date if possible. That was the findings in that court will be usable in civil court.

Once back in California with your kid, petition the California court with a modification of custody (assuming they are the original jurisdiction). You will also make a motion in ST. Mary's court for them to release jurisdiction in the case to California due to "inconvenient jurisdiction" because the kid now is in California with you and you have a California court date (unless ST Mary's is the original jurisdiction).

If you can pull that off she will have to come to you to fight it. worst case you will have to fly back here for the custody hearing.

Go all out, do not flinch and show no mercy what so ever. Go for the throat and do not under any circumstances listen to any "but she is the kids mother, you can't take a kid away from its mother" bullchit.

Also, do not tell her crap about what is going on. Act like you don't even know. Strike fast, hard and with overwhelming force.
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I :love: you.
 
itsbob

itsbob

I bowl overhand
Pete said:
Actually if the child and the custodial now reside here ST. Mary's has jurisdiction.

What I would do.

Obtain an original (with raised seal) of your divorce and judgement.

I would contact a local lawyer here in MD, send him the divorce judgement and discuss with them filing for an emergency modification of the custody judgement, including permission for you to take the child back to California.


Once the judge signs it and awards you temporary custody, be sure the court date for the hearing for custody is after her criminal court date if possible. That was the findings in that court will be usable in civil court.

Once back in California with your kid, petition the California court with a modification of custody (assuming they are the original jurisdiction). You will also make a motion in ST. Mary's court for them to release jurisdiction in the case to California due to "inconvenient jurisdiction" because the kid now is in California with you and you have a California court date (unless ST Mary's is the original jurisdiction).

If you can pull that off she will have to come to you to fight it. worst case you will have to fly back here for the custody hearing.

Go all out, do not flinch and show no mercy what so ever. Go for the throat and do not under any circumstances listen to any "but she is the kids mother, you can't take a kid away from its mother" bullchit.

Also, do not tell her crap about what is going on. Act like you don't even know. Strike fast, hard and with overwhelming force.
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AMEN!!
 
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julz20684

Guest
nomoney said:
her attorneys name is david densford out of leonardtown just for your fyi
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that was one of my ex's many attorneys...he's a creep
 
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julz20684

Guest
Pete said:
Actually if the child and the custodial now reside here ST. Mary's has jurisdiction.

What I would do.

Obtain an original (with raised seal) of your divorce and judgement.

I would contact a local lawyer here in MD, send him the divorce judgement and discuss with them filing for an emergency modification of the custody judgement, including permission for you to take the child back to California.


Once the judge signs it and awards you temporary custody, be sure the court date for the hearing for custody is after her criminal court date if possible. That was the findings in that court will be usable in civil court.

Once back in California with your kid, petition the California court with a modification of custody (assuming they are the original jurisdiction). You will also make a motion in ST. Mary's court for them to release jurisdiction in the case to California due to "inconvenient jurisdiction" because the kid now is in California with you and you have a California court date (unless ST Mary's is the original jurisdiction).

If you can pull that off she will have to come to you to fight it. worst case you will have to fly back here for the custody hearing.

Go all out, do not flinch and show no mercy what so ever. Go for the throat and do not under any circumstances listen to any "but she is the kids mother, you can't take a kid away from its mother" bullchit.

Also, do not tell her crap about what is going on. Act like you don't even know. Strike fast, hard and with overwhelming force.
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She's been released on her personal recognizance and has Demsford for an attorney...you can bet he's going to use the she's the custodial parent and Dad lives in CA so she can't serve time bit
 
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julz20684

Guest
aps45819 said:
You have to wonder why "Personal Recognizance" is offered to addicts and thugs
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Because of jail overcrowding, first offense, etc. etc.
 
Pete

Pete

Repete
julz20684 said:
She's been released on her personal recognizance and has Demsford for an attorney...you can bet he's going to use the she's the custodial parent and Dad lives in CA so she can't serve time bit
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Unless he has a motion pending for custody modification and the DA has knowledge of it.
 
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bresamil

wandering aimlessly
Pete said:
Actually if the child and the custodial now reside here ST. Mary's has jurisdiction.

What I would do.

Obtain an original (with raised seal) of your divorce and judgement.

I would contact a local lawyer here in MD, send him the divorce judgement and discuss with them filing for an emergency modification of the custody judgement, including permission for you to take the child back to California.


Once the judge signs it and awards you temporary custody, be sure the court date for the hearing for custody is after her criminal court date if possible. That was the findings in that court will be usable in civil court.

Once back in California with your kid, petition the California court with a modification of custody (assuming they are the original jurisdiction). You will also make a motion in ST. Mary's court for them to release jurisdiction in the case to California due to "inconvenient jurisdiction" because the kid now is in California with you and you have a California court date (unless ST Mary's is the original jurisdiction).

If you can pull that off she will have to come to you to fight it. worst case you will have to fly back here for the custody hearing.

Go all out, do not flinch and show no mercy what so ever. Go for the throat and do not under any circumstances listen to any "but she is the kids mother, you can't take a kid away from its mother" bullchit.

Also, do not tell her crap about what is going on. Act like you don't even know. Strike fast, hard and with overwhelming force.
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Pete again.

:love:
 
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julz20684

Guest
Pete said:
Unless he has a motion pending for custody modification and the DA has knowledge of it.
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See this is why I adore you, you are SO smart. When I grow up I wanna be just like you.
 
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