acommondisaster
Active Member
Larry why do you continually state that neither of you would have talked to the other years ago? Why is that important now when you are talking to each other and appear to enjoy doing so? Is the past so relevant on the new relationship that it needs to compare to the old you? I understand lessons learned My thought is when you meet new people, move forward from there, bringing lessons learned.
Dating is hard enough without the past.
They both have huge egos and that's how they stroke them.
"I've always known how beneath me you were, but now I'm magnanimous enough to accept your idiosyncrasies and date you!"
"And I've improved and grown as person - now I don't hiss and growl at people and I am better than I ever was before! I know it because you'll date me!"
"I know! We're so wonderful and unique!"
And it gives them something to talk about, about their amazing blossoming relationship. Not a bad thing, really.