Oh My... I am so Livid

lovinmaryland

lovinmaryland

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A male customer of mine called me yesterday (to discuss buisness issues) during the converstation he said that he had just bought his wife a new convertible, and earlier that day she showed up at his work and they went and had S*X in the car :shocking: (wait it gets worse) then he proceeds to say it wasn't as good if it would have been me he was having S*X with in the convertible :barf:

Can you believe the nerve of this guy! I was so :yikes: I got off the phone as quick as I could and left work for the day.(basically scared this whack job would come by)

any suggestions how to handle this?

I never in any way gave him the impression I was interested in him what so ever.
 
hotmomma

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tell him your flattered he is interested but no thanks or tell him this is inappropiate and you will have to pass him to another girl
 
migtig

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lovinmaryland said:
A male customer of mine called me yesterday (to discuss buisness issues) during the converstation he said that he had just bought his wife a new convertible, and earlier that day she showed up at his work and they went and had S*X in the car :shocking: (wait it gets worse) then he proceeds to say it wasn't as good if it would have been me he was having S*X with in the convertible :barf:

Can you believe the nerve of this guy! I was so :yikes: I got off the phone as quick as I could and left work for the day.(basically scared this whack job would come by)

any suggestions how to handle this?

I never in any way gave him the impression I was interested in him what so ever.
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I feel your pain. I deal with a lot of vendors and similar things have come up a time or two. I tried going to my boss and that didn't really work, he told me to handle it. Best approach I have discovered is to be a cold biyatch when they start in, and shoot them down early, or ignore it, etc :shrug: And if they get really out of hand, I say something smart like, My SO Bubba, really wouldn't like that. Ya know he just got out of prison for putting a guy in the hospital who tried to buy me a drink. I feel so bad about that...and then change the subject. I've been blessed to have Smooth as my pimp, so i know I got back up if I ever need it. :lol:

Good luck.
 
lovinmaryland

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CableChick said:
Not it if you're talking about Sam Elliott. :yum: He's a bit rough now, but man was he something to look at back in the day.
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like when he ws in road house with patrick swayze yummy :drool:

no he didn't look like that at all. i am just so shocked, the balls on this guy :banghead:
 
migtig

migtig

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Mikeinsmd said:
:yeahthat:

If you get this worked up BC some guy flirts with ya, you have issues. :lmao:
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Speaking as a woman, it's shocking when it's unexpected and in a work setting and completely unwarranted. It can be upsetting and then you get angry and upset because they not only are harassing you in your workplace - a supposed safe place, but they are intimidating you as well. If it happens in a bar or club, it's expected, but not when you are at work and told you HAVE to be nice to customers, vendors, etc.
 
BS Gal

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lovinmaryland said:
A male customer of mine called me yesterday (to discuss buisness issues) during the converstation he said that he had just bought his wife a new convertible, and earlier that day she showed up at his work and they went and had S*X in the car :shocking: (wait it gets worse) then he proceeds to say it wasn't as good if it would have been me he was having S*X with in the convertible :barf:

Can you believe the nerve of this guy! I was so :yikes: I got off the phone as quick as I could and left work for the day.(basically scared this whack job would come by)

any suggestions how to handle this?

I never in any way gave him the impression I was interested in him what so ever.
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Why didn't you say something to him like "That will never happen?" Or "keep wishing." I mean, stand up for yourself, girl. If he gives you the creeps, TELL HIM HE GIVES YOU THE CREEPS.
 
vraiblonde

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nachomama said:
I'd tell him to go buy me a convertible and we'll see how things go.
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This, in my opinion, is the correct retort. :yay:

Getting #####y isn't the answer. They just want to flirt a bit and it doesn't hurt you to let them. Granted, this guy is a little more boorish than most, but should still be handled with a light touch.
 
vraiblonde

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migtig said:
Speaking as a woman, it's shocking when it's unexpected and in a work setting and completely unwarranted.
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Only the first time. Do outside advertising sales and you become a pro at sidestepping the come-on without offending your client.
 
lovinmaryland

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BS Gal said:
Why didn't you say something to him like "That will never happen?" Or "keep wishing." I mean, stand up for yourself, girl. If he gives you the creeps, TELL HIM HE GIVES YOU THE CREEPS.
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i was in the middle of working up a quote for him and he just started talking. i am a single mom who gets no child support i have a mortgage, car payment the list goes on, i need my job

i was so shocked i didn't know how to respond (with other customers in ear shot) with out flipping out on him
 
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nachomama said:
I'd tell him to go buy me a convertible and we'll see how things go. :yay:
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:confused: Do you hang out with Catt alot?

Just wondering, because that sounds like something she might say. :lmao:
 
BS Gal

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lovinmaryland said:
i was in the middle of working up a quote for him and he just started talking. i am a single mom who gets no child support i have a mortgage, car payment the list goes on, i need my job

i was so shocked i didn't know how to respond (with other customers in ear shot) with out flipping out on him
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I can understand that, especially about being shocked.
 
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