punjabigyrl
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I think you should tell her. It will be bad if she finds out that you knew and kept shut. He might/will not be friends with you....which is OK.
No, butCableChick said:I saw a truck w/ a license plate of "RJO III" ... I was going to snap a pic, but didn't get back before dark and didn't want to get beat up. Anyone you know?
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Tinkerbell said:Maybe your BF should talk to the hubby and tell him what he knows. Tell him that he needs to come clean with his wife or stop the affair immediately, or, as a friend, you'll be forced to go to his wife with the info? :shrug:
I'm not sure this is best either....You're risking losing friendships on this one.
Kissing the lips period is too friendly. No one has any business doing this. No one kisses on the lips, and those that do are considered weird. If you are kissing an opposite gendered (hell, even same), it's already gone too far and you know it and anything else is just excuses. You know you wouldn't do that when your partner was there.kwillia said:No problemo with this.
This crosses the line in my book. I consider the neck to be too stimulating of an area to be considered just 'friendly'.
ruckus said:I blame the "victim" who had a child and married a less than reputable guy. There were warning signs undoubtedly before any of this and she chose to ignore them.
What is your obsession with Pixie? :shrug:Roberta said:Are you related to Pixie?
Well, don't worry - you'll certainly have other opportunities because she's going to "make up" with him and everything will continue as it was.Qurious said:I finally get my girl to come with me and leave...we do a couple shots at her house while we both wait. OMG when her husband walked through the door all hell broke loose...I had to get out of there ASAP....
but i felt so guilty for not telling her what I already know about the "kiss" .....
vraiblonde said:Well, don't worry - you'll certainly have other opportunities because she's going to "make up" with him and everything will continue as it was.
And again, and again, and again. Until she's finally had enough.imma just tell her, im gettin sick of the guilt and her babbling about if he's cheating on the daily....vraiblonde said:Well, don't worry - you'll certainly have other opportunities because she's going to "make up" with him and everything will continue as it was.
You're definately not in a good position. Good luck!Qurious said:imma just tell her, im gettin sick of the guilt and her babbling about if he's cheating on the daily....
she's gonna stop talkin to me, im sure of it *sigh*

Good idea. Take a bad situation and add a couple of shots. That always helps.Qurious said:We do a couple shots at her house while we both wait.
Yup, yup, yup!BadGirl said:And again, and again, and again. Until she's finally had enough.
You never know. I think if it were me, I'd not only want to hear it from you, I'd NEED to hear it from you. I'd rather get that kind of news from someone who will be there to pick up the pieces, rather than some ditzball at a bar.Qurious said:imma just tell her, im gettin sick of the guilt and her babbling about if he's cheating on the daily....
she's gonna stop talkin to me, im sure of it *sigh*
nachomama said:I think if it were me, I'd want to hear it from you, rather than some ditzball.
I was using "you" in a rhetorical sense...meaning, I'd rather hear it from my friend, than some random qurious, I mean ditzball, in a bar.aps45819 said:please explain the difference between Qurious and a ditzball

Stud.Larry Gude said:.
If kissing is cheating, then I've cheated with half the women on these forums and right in front of my wife too.
No obsession, just a " twit" kind of awnser.Tinkerbell said:What is your obsession with Pixie? :shrug:
definitely tell. she's been asking, and you know the answer. does she need to be diagnosed with AIDS or get cervical cancer from HPV because of his cheatin ways before you say something? He was stupid enough to carry on his affair in public, where he was seen. busted. She may stop talking to you but at least you'll know you did the right thing.Qurious said:imma just tell her, im gettin sick of the guilt and her babbling about if he's cheating on the daily....
she's gonna stop talkin to me, im sure of it *sigh*
aps45819 said:I wouldn't trust the observations of a man that can't pay attention well enough to change the wheel on a mini van
