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aps45819

aps45819

24/7 Single Dad
preciousness said:
My BF of 3 yrs. has been acting strange lately and I can't quite put my finger on it. He got a text last weekend & quickly deleted it and acted like he didn't know what I was talking about when I asked him who was texting him. He then kissed by a** the rest of the day, which to me spelled G U I L T (for something....can't figure out what). Sex is almost a chore for him and it makes me feel very unattractive (which I'm not) & undesireable when I have to just about beg for it. I have NEVER in my life had to ask a man that I was involved with, for sex. I'm lucky if I get it twice a week, but I'd rather have it every day. When we go to a bar, he is so busy looking around & trying to catch eye contact with other women, he completely ignores me. What gets me more than anything....THEY'RE U G L Y!! which, again, makes me feel ugly. When I ask him about the way he acts, he gets defensive. Actually, whenever I ask him ANY questions, he gets defensive. GUYS, Am I just a jealous person, or is this something I should be concerned with? All the fingers point to CHEATER CHEATER PUMPKIN EATER, but I have no proof. I do, however, have a gut feeling and I'm not liking it very much.
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Isn't this the story line from Brokeback Mtn.?
 
onebdzee

onebdzee

off the shelf
preciousness said:
My BF of 3 yrs. has been acting strange lately and I can't quite put my finger on it. He got a text last weekend & quickly deleted it and acted like he didn't know what I was talking about when I asked him who was texting him. He then kissed by a** the rest of the day, which to me spelled G U I L T (for something....can't figure out what). Sex is almost a chore for him and it makes me feel very unattractive (which I'm not) & undesireable when I have to just about beg for it. I have NEVER in my life had to ask a man that I was involved with, for sex. I'm lucky if I get it twice a week, but I'd rather have it every day. When we go to a bar, he is so busy looking around & trying to catch eye contact with other women, he completely ignores me. What gets me more than anything....THEY'RE U G L Y!! which, again, makes me feel ugly. When I ask him about the way he acts, he gets defensive. Actually, whenever I ask him ANY questions, he gets defensive. GUYS, Am I just a jealous person, or is this something I should be concerned with? All the fingers point to CHEATER CHEATER PUMPKIN EATER, but I have no proof. I do, however, have a gut feeling and I'm not liking it very much.
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YouTube - If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life - with Gant.

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bresamil

wandering aimlessly
preciousness said:
My BF of 3 yrs. has been acting strange lately and I can't quite put my finger on it. He got a text last weekend & quickly deleted it and acted like he didn't know what I was talking about when I asked him who was texting him. He then kissed by a** the rest of the day, which to me spelled G U I L T (for something....can't figure out what). Sex is almost a chore for him and it makes me feel very unattractive (which I'm not) & undesireable when I have to just about beg for it. I have NEVER in my life had to ask a man that I was involved with, for sex. I'm lucky if I get it twice a week, but I'd rather have it every day. When we go to a bar, he is so busy looking around & trying to catch eye contact with other women, he completely ignores me. What gets me more than anything....THEY'RE U G L Y!! which, again, makes me feel ugly. When I ask him about the way he acts, he gets defensive. Actually, whenever I ask him ANY questions, he gets defensive. GUYS, Am I just a jealous person, or is this something I should be concerned with? All the fingers point to CHEATER CHEATER PUMPKIN EATER, but I have no proof. I do, however, have a gut feeling and I'm not liking it very much.
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He's just not that into you. :shrug:
 
Penn

Penn

Dancing Up A Storm
shiki said:
don't waste any more of your time with a guy who you have to question his affections or you will end up a bitter old lonely heartbroken hag like myself :bawl:
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I'm no Dr. Phil, but reading your account, it seems fairly obvious that he thinks the relationship is getting old, and he's looking for something newer.

It happens..........

Ditch his azz before he ditches you; at least you'll be able to smile.
 
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punjabigyrl

Active Member
preciousness said:
My BF of 3 yrs. has been acting strange lately and I can't quite put my finger on it. He got a text last weekend & quickly deleted it and acted like he didn't know what I was talking about when I asked him who was texting him. He then kissed by a** the rest of the day, which to me spelled G U I L T (for something....can't figure out what). Sex is almost a chore for him and it makes me feel very unattractive (which I'm not) & undesireable when I have to just about beg for it. I have NEVER in my life had to ask a man that I was involved with, for sex. I'm lucky if I get it twice a week, but I'd rather have it every day. When we go to a bar, he is so busy looking around & trying to catch eye contact with other women, he completely ignores me. What gets me more than anything....THEY'RE U G L Y!! which, again, makes me feel ugly. When I ask him about the way he acts, he gets defensive. Actually, whenever I ask him ANY questions, he gets defensive. GUYS, Am I just a jealous person, or is this something I should be concerned with? All the fingers point to CHEATER CHEATER PUMPKIN EATER, but I have no proof. I do, however, have a gut feeling and I'm not liking it very much.
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Your post tell me that he is that comitted to you and the relationship that he has with you. Ask him to come clean if not the cellphone bill will have the phone number of the person sending him the text.
 
Baja28

Baja28

Obama destroyed America
sockgirl77 said:
And you are too. It's okay Mikey. Deny it all you want. One day it'll hit you. The day you go to your doc and ask for the little blue pill. :poorbaby: Let us know how it's working next year. :yay:
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Do they make a pill that makes it stay down? I need that one.
 
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