Opinions, please

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

Well-Known Member
Everyone's sense of humor is great, but I have a serious issue & was hoping for some good advice. Got some, but not much. Guess this isn't the forum for me.
BTW, the ring is from G&H Jewlers & I'm CERTAIN it's not CZ. He didn't skimp on this one. 2 carat center w/ 64 surrounding diamonds, totaling 3.6 carats. Came with an appraisal that was sent to the insurance company. I'm NOT materialistic by any means, but if he's steppin out & I find out, I think I DESERVE to keep it for all my troubles.
PETER - Thanks for the private message, but if you're looking to hook up....NOT INTERESTED!! I could, however, use a friend

So, am I the only one who's thinking she should get married..
prove that he cheats and thus get a divorce and half of whatever the other 2 women didn't get?

(and keep the ring)

:coffee:

:lmao:
 

aps45819

24/7 Single Dad
BTW, the ring is from G&H Jewlers & I'm CERTAIN it's not CZ. He didn't skimp on this one. 2 carat center w/ 64 surrounding diamonds, totaling 3.6 carats. Came with an appraisal that was sent to the insurance company. I'm NOT materialistic by any means, but if he's steppin out & I find out, I think I DESERVE to keep it for all my troubles.

If a 3.6 carat ring is the price for 3 years worth, how much is one night?
 

ashliekay711

New Member
My BF of 3 yrs. has been acting strange lately and I can't quite put my finger on it. He got a text last weekend & quickly deleted it and acted like he didn't know what I was talking about when I asked him who was texting him. He then kissed by a** the rest of the day, which to me spelled G U I L T (for something....can't figure out what). Sex is almost a chore for him and it makes me feel very unattractive (which I'm not) & undesireable when I have to just about beg for it. I have NEVER in my life had to ask a man that I was involved with, for sex. I'm lucky if I get it twice a week, but I'd rather have it every day. When we go to a bar, he is so busy looking around & trying to catch eye contact with other women, he completely ignores me. What gets me more than anything....THEY'RE U G L Y!! which, again, makes me feel ugly. When I ask him about the way he acts, he gets defensive. Actually, whenever I ask him ANY questions, he gets defensive. GUYS, Am I just a jealous person, or is this something I should be concerned with? All the fingers point to CHEATER CHEATER PUMPKIN EATER, but I have no proof. I do, however, have a gut feeling and I'm not liking it very much.

I was dating my ex for 4 years and it got to the point where he was acting the same way, no sex, no attention the while 9 yard... turns out he honestly wasn't cheating on me, he was just tired of being in the relationship.
 
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HouseCat

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:rolleyes: It's probably CZ anyway.
no kidding.. they're cheap. Guy probably has a pocket full of them, giving them to every gullible poptart he finds. Any gal with sense will get her rings checked out to see if they're legit. Not to be materialistic...but to see if the guy is a liar or not.
 
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shiki

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preciousness said:
That is what therapists are for, not forums.

Seriously tho kick his ass to the curb.

SHIKI- Sounds like you're going through the same thing now. Let me know if you find a good therapist

i do know some xcellent therapists in md. pm me if ur serious.
 
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