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Toxick

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preciousness said:
My BF of 3 yrs. has been acting strange lately and I can't quite put my finger on it. He got a text last weekend & quickly deleted it and acted like he didn't know what I was talking about when I asked him who was texting him. He then kissed by a** the rest of the day, which to me spelled G U I L T (for something....can't figure out what). Sex is almost a chore for him and it makes me feel very unattractive (which I'm not) & undesireable when I have to just about beg for it. I have NEVER in my life had to ask a man that I was involved with, for sex. I'm lucky if I get it twice a week, but I'd rather have it every day. When we go to a bar, he is so busy looking around & trying to catch eye contact with other women, he completely ignores me. What gets me more than anything....THEY'RE U G L Y!! which, again, makes me feel ugly. When I ask him about the way he acts, he gets defensive. Actually, whenever I ask him ANY questions, he gets defensive. GUYS, Am I just a jealous person, or is this something I should be concerned with? All the fingers point to CHEATER CHEATER PUMPKIN EATER, but I have no proof. I do, however, have a gut feeling and I'm not liking it very much.
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I know exactly how you feel. I, too, am hot stuff, but my GF suddenly stopped being interested in ess-ee-ex. On the rare occasions that we do enjoy relations with one another, she closes her eyes and whispers something that I can't quite understand. It almost sounds like "this is Jim... this is Jim... pretend this is Jim..." And there were a couple of times I went "downstairs" (if you know what I mean), and it was all salty and kind of gooey. I've also noticed that she often has strange stains on her clothes, and she gets these odd stiff patches in her hair from time to time. It's never been like that before, which makes me kind of suspicious. On several occasions, she has said things like "I'm cheating on you and I'm sleeping with other men", but she's always had a weird sense of humor.

I just don't get it. I'm beginning to suspect that she has something going on the side.
 
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Toxick said:
I know exactly how you feel. I, too, am hot stuff, but my GF suddenly stopped being interested in ess-ee-ex. On the rare occasions that we do enjoy relations with one another, she closes her eyes and whispers something that I can't quite understand. It almost sounds like "this is Jim... this is Jim... pretend this is Jim..." And there were a couple of times I went "downstairs" (if you know what I mean), and it was all salty and kind of gooey. I've also noticed that she often has strange stains on her clothes, and she gets these odd stiff patches in her hair from time to time. It's never been like that before, which makes me kind of suspicious. On several occasions, she has said things like "I'm cheating on you and I'm sleeping with other men", but she's always had a weird sense of humor.

I just don't get it. I'm beginning to suspect that she has something going on the side.
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You need to break out the peanut butter pterodactyl on her ass!
 
morningbell

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Toxick said:
I know exactly how you feel. I, too, am hot stuff, but my GF suddenly stopped being interested in ess-ee-ex. On the rare occasions that we do enjoy relations with one another, she closes her eyes and whispers something that I can't quite understand. It almost sounds like "this is Jim... this is Jim... pretend this is Jim..." And there were a couple of times I went "downstairs" (if you know what I mean), and it was all salty and kind of gooey. I've also noticed that she often has strange stains on her clothes, and she gets these odd stiff patches in her hair from time to time. It's never been like that before, which makes me kind of suspicious. On several occasions, she has said things like "I'm cheating on you and I'm sleeping with other men", but she's always had a weird sense of humor.

I just don't get it. I'm beginning to suspect that she has something going on the side.
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Oh, please, sometimes girls just get this way, you're going to have to accept it or change your ways. Have you been asking her if she is ok and tell her I love you every 10 minutes? If not start, this works wonders :yay:
 
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preciousness said:
thing is.... he put a beautiful ring on my finger on Christmas Eve. I honestly think this is just the way he is & this is why he's been divorced 2 times. I just need to figure out if I can live the rest of my life with him being this way. He's so hot & cold, when he's good he's great & when he's an azz, he's a BIG AZZ. I think he might be bi-polar :)
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RUN

hold on here...I think maybe you're dating my husband
 
Toxick

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morningbell said:
Oh, please, sometimes girls just get this way, you're going to have to accept it or change your ways.
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Thank goodness. I thought I was going to have to do some sort of peanut butter pterodactyl thing. (I assume that I can find out what that means in the urban dictionary?)


morningbell said:
Have you been asking her if she is ok and tell her I love you every 10 minutes? If not start, this works wonders :yay:
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Of course I do, and I hang on her and hug and fondle her non-stop every chance I get. Usually she answers with a "Pfft!" or a terse "#### you", but like I said, she's always had an odd sense of humor. I'll crank up the clinginess factor a little, and see if that works. Although most evenings lately, she's not home. (Coincidentally, these are the evenings she comes home with her panties and/or stockings missing or torn, and with wet patches on her back, and stiff hair, and her breath tastes like ball-sweat).

But your post has reassured me that nothing is going on, and this is probably all my fault.
 
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preciousness said:
thing is.... he put a beautiful ring on my finger on Christmas Eve. I honestly think this is just the way he is & this is why he's been divorced 2 times. I just need to figure out if I can live the rest of my life with him being this way. He's so hot & cold, when he's good he's great & when he's an azz, he's a BIG AZZ. I think he might be bi-polar :)
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Sounds as if you already know the answer to your question.
Divorced twice and your not even married and are having second thoughts.
Move on!
By the way - the ring, you should get to have it. I think when it's given at xmas it's considered a gift. :whistle:
 
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By the way - the ring, you should get to have it. I think when it's given at xmas it's considered a gift. :whistle:
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If it was given solely as a gift I'd agree with you. If it was given as a promise of marriage she should give it back no matter who breaks off the relationship. If she's smart it'll be her. :lol:

Originally Posted by preciousness
My BF of 3 yrs. has been acting strange lately and I can't quite put my finger on it. He got a text last weekend & quickly deleted it and acted like he didn't know what I was talking about when I asked him who was texting him. He then kissed by a** the rest of the day, which to me spelled G U I L T (for something....can't figure out what). Sex is almost a chore for him and it makes me feel very unattractive (which I'm not) & undesireable when I have to just about beg for it. I have NEVER in my life had to ask a man that I was involved with, for sex. I'm lucky if I get it twice a week, but I'd rather have it every day. When we go to a bar, he is so busy looking around & trying to catch eye contact with other women, he completely ignores me. What gets me more than anything....THEY'RE U G L Y!! which, again, makes me feel ugly. When I ask him about the way he acts, he gets defensive. Actually, whenever I ask him ANY questions, he gets defensive. GUYS, Am I just a jealous person, or is this something I should be concerned with? All the fingers point to CHEATER CHEATER PUMPKIN EATER, but I have no proof. I do, however, have a gut feeling and I'm not liking it very much.
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preciousness

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Everyone's sense of humor is great, but I have a serious issue & was hoping for some good advice. Got some, but not much. Guess this isn't the forum for me.
BTW, the ring is from G&H Jewlers & I'm CERTAIN it's not CZ. He didn't skimp on this one. 2 carat center w/ 64 surrounding diamonds, totaling 3.6 carats. Came with an appraisal that was sent to the insurance company. I'm NOT materialistic by any means, but if he's steppin out & I find out, I think I DESERVE to keep it for all my troubles.
PETER - Thanks for the private message, but if you're looking to hook up....NOT INTERESTED!! I could, however, use a friend
 
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preciousness said:
Everyone's sense of humor is great, but I have a serious issue & was hoping for some good advice. Got some, but not much. Guess this isn't the forum for me.
BTW, the ring is from G&H Jewlers & I'm CERTAIN it's not CZ. He didn't skimp on this one. 2 carat center w/ 64 surrounding diamonds, totaling 3.6 carats. Came with an appraisal that was sent to the insurance company. I'm NOT materialistic by any means, but if he's steppin out & I find out, I think I DESERVE to keep it for all my troubles.
PETER - Thanks for the private message, but if you're looking to hook up....NOT INTERESTED!! I could, however, use a friend
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That is what therapists are for, not forums.

Seriously tho kick his ass to the curb.
 
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preciousness said:
Everyone's sense of humor is great, but I have a serious issue & was hoping for some good advice. Got some, but not much. Guess this isn't the forum for me.
BTW, the ring is from G&H Jewlers & I'm CERTAIN it's not CZ. He didn't skimp on this one. 2 carat center w/ 64 surrounding diamonds, totaling 3.6 carats. Came with an appraisal that was sent to the insurance company. I'm NOT materialistic by any means, but if he's steppin out & I find out, I think I DESERVE to keep it for all my troubles.
PETER - Thanks for the private message, but if you're looking to hook up....NOT INTERESTED!! I could, however, use a friend
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You deserve to keep it for all your troubles? It's your fault you're staying with this ass. :rolleyes: You can leave at any time. And you really should give the ring back (Ms. Materialistic).
 
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