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Elle

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Originally posted by PFgal
:shutup:

Again I say, Anger Management

And Vari, I think that the gift my be his way of saying sorry so I would forgive him, after all make-up nook is usually really good!
 
Originally posted by cmcdanal
YOU got a card? Last time that happened to me, he punched a hole in a door. (I had to fix the door)
Atleast I only hit doors/concrete block walls/trees when I get beyond ####ed off. Coulda been worse if I wasn't such a loving guy. Therefore, my punching an inantimate object that is VERY hard could be considered an apology by some, i.e. I needed to vent my anger, and didn't want to hurt you, therefore I was trying to protect you and show my love for you.
 

vraiblonde

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Originally posted by huntr1
Therefore, my punching an inantimate object that is VERY hard could be considered an apology by some, i.e. I needed to vent my anger, and didn't want to hurt you, therefore I was trying to protect you and show my love for you.
There's some guy logic for ya. :rolleyes:
 

mainman

Set Trippin
Originally posted by huntr1
Atleast I only hit doors/concrete block walls/trees when I get beyond ####ed off. Coulda been worse if I wasn't such a loving guy. Therefore, my punching an inantimate object that is VERY hard could be considered an apology by some, i.e. I needed to vent my anger, and didn't want to hurt you, therefore I was trying to protect you and show my love for you.
so wait... you are saying its better that you hit the door rather than her? you want recognition for that?
 

Sharon

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I always wonder about people who break their own stuff on purpose.

As a teen, I remember watching a friend of mine (just after a phone call from her mother) take all the dishes out of the cabinet and start throwing them on the floor.
 
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Dymphna

Loyalty, Friendship, Love
Originally posted by vraiblonde
There's some guy logic for ya. :rolleyes:

Ain't that the truth. Nevermind the fact that his azz would be in jail to this day if he'd tried.
 

citysherry

I Need a Beer
Don't get me wrong, because I enjoy getting presents as much as the next person, but IMO, the giving of a gift before the apologies are spoken and the argument settled, represents a tendency to consider material possessions as more important than the relationship -- its essentially an attempt to persuade you to act in his favor by paying you off.:shocking:
 

vraiblonde

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Originally posted by Sharon
I always wonder about people who break their own stuff on purpose.
I used to do stupid stuff like that. Sometimes I still do. :angel:

Breaking things when you're mad FEELS GOOD! And I didn't like to break someone else's things so that left mine. :shrug: I broke my toe once kicking a wall when I was pizzed.
 

Dymphna

Loyalty, Friendship, Love
Originally posted by cariblue
I was with a guy like this for about 5 years. I never thought he'd hit me, and I was too stupid to see that as an indication that he wasn't in control...until I completely lost control and missed the wall, smashing my face instead.

It only happened once.

He only busted the door once, I wasn't even in the same room. He's rarely outta control.

I'm sorry I mentioned it. Now he's gonna get all defensive and ####ed over something that happened years ago. The only reason I even thought about it was it was the only time he made me mad enough to sleep in the other room.
 

vraiblonde

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Originally posted by citysherry
Don't get me wrong, because I enjoy getting presents as much as the next person, but IMO, the giving of a gift before the apologies are spoken and the argument settled, represents a tendency to consider material possessions as more important than the relationship -- its essentially an attempt to persuade you to act in his favor by paying you off.:shocking:
That was worth a repeat. :clap:

And everyone, I'm sure Huntr was just being facetious about the "apology" scenario. You were, right, Huntr? :lol:
 

vraiblonde

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Originally posted by cariblue
until I completely lost control and missed the wall, smashing my face instead.
You missed the wall and smashed your own face, or he missed the wall? :confused:
 

Pete

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Re: Well...

Originally posted by Larry Gude
...did he apologize?

(Larry ducks and runs!!!!)
Larry, what would your avitar do? "What fight, there was no fight. There wasn't a fight within 200 kilometers of here."
 
Originally posted by cmcdanal
Now he's gonna get all defensive and ####ed over something that happened years ago.
Nope. Figured if it was important, you would email me or call the cell.
 

Mountain MaMa

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Alright you two..play nice..Vrai, How many times do I have to tell you..It's not worth fighting over..Just a waste of energy..forgive him and get on with the lovin!!!
 
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