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Pasofever said:
You up too?? I can't sleep either..

Mom is the same Hospice is talking about not coming to see her for now. I hope they continue to have the nurse come in but not sure if they can.

Hubby is still up the road..still in restraints and diapers etc...Its a mess. He is still in the first rehab from when he was moved from shock trauma..They will be moving him to another rehab in Balt..Still no one here will take him. He is not progressing much at this time.. He has a very short attention span and short memory and is out to lunch..when I was there last week he cried the whole time..he said someone killed a puppy in the parking lot (his room boarders woods so he saw no parking lot) and he was cried because of his Antelope and Deer never could catch that one..so I told him they were fine Inkpen was feeding them..He is really out to lunch..He says the nurses are drug dealers. He most of the time does not know he is in a hospital. Sometimes he cries and says he is really Frucked up. He seems to not know he had a motorcycle or remember the accident..sometimes he says his head is messed up and if you ask why he will say an accident or he does not know.. So we are at 3 months..so I guess time will tell. Daughter has moved back in to help me.
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It may not seem like it, but maybe him remembering the accident might be a good sign. Maybe he's not as frucked up as they think he is. It may take months but he may come back to you somewhat. I can't imagine how this is for you. I pray for you and Bill all the time. I hope soon they will find him a place closer to you. :huggy:
 
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Pasofever said:
You up too?? I can't sleep either..

Mom is the same Hospice is talking about not coming to see her for now. I hope they continue to have the nurse come in but not sure if they can.

Hubby is still up the road..still in restraints and diapers etc...Its a mess. He is still in the first rehab from when he was moved from shock trauma..They will be moving him to another rehab in Balt..Still no one here will take him. He is not progressing much at this time.. He has a very short attention span and short memory and is out to lunch..when I was there last week he cried the whole time..he said someone killed a puppy in the parking lot (his room boarders woods so he saw no parking lot) and he was cried because of his Antelope and Deer never could catch that one..so I told him they were fine Inkpen was feeding them..He is really out to lunch..He says the nurses are drug dealers. He most of the time does not know he is in a hospital. Sometimes he cries and says he is really Frucked up. He seems to not know he had a motorcycle or remember the accident..sometimes he says his head is messed up and if you ask why he will say an accident or he does not know.. So we are at 3 months..so I guess time will tell. Daughter has moved back in to help me.
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I've been thinking about you and your family. I'm glad your daughter moved back in to help you out - too much for one person to deal with on their own! I know how you feel about the issues with trying to get him into a rehab close by. We're dealing with the whole "no rehabs in this area covered under Cigna healthcare" crap with my Dad (on all of Long Island, a very populated area full of rehab centers?). Long story but it's so frustrating dealing with insurance companies sometimes. I'm praying for a miracle for you and your family. :huggy:
 
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I am praying for you also. I know that alot of accident victims begin to have flashes of memory around 2 years after the event. They have detailed memories of the actuall accident and the pain and the sound they experienced. I still think from seeing the pics of the accident scene and bike, that it was a result of the rear bracket coming loose an rolling under the rear wheel. Keep talking to him an reasuring him, keep him calm. If he is on pain meds, he may be having bad side effects. Take care of yourself Passo, your horsees need you lots too.
 
Pasofever

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Mousebaby said:
It may not seem like it, but maybe him remembering the accident might be a good sign. Maybe he's not as frucked up as they think he is. It may take months but he may come back to you somewhat. I can't imagine how this is for you. I pray for you and Bill all the time. I hope soon they will find him a place closer to you. :huggy:
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He does not remember the accident or that he had a bike even he just gets puzzled when you tell him..but he knows the nurses tell him he had an accident and hurt his head he remembers that..

craberta said:
I am praying for you also. I know that alot of accident victims begin to have flashes of memory around 2 years after the event. They have detailed memories of the actuall accident and the pain and the sound they experienced. I still think from seeing the pics of the accident scene and bike, that it was a result of the rear bracket coming loose an rolling under the rear wheel. Keep talking to him an reasuring him, keep him calm. If he is on pain meds, he may be having bad side effects. Take care of yourself Passo, your horsees need you lots too.
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We have not showed him pics yet ....you just cant talk to him in person or phone or he crys and crys and gets very upset..they have physic now with him and he is on (or will be getting soon) antidepressents..
 
belvak

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Paso, just wanted to let you know I've still got you, Bill, and your Mom in my thoughts and prayers. :huggy:
 
mamissa3

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My uncle was in an accident years ago and i rember him being in rehab and crying often as well. you are in my thought though:)
 
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Paso, so glad to hear your daughter has moved back to help. With your Mom staying stable Hospice will probably be forced to stop their help for now. Although Bill's not making any sense, the fact that he is communicating at all is actually positive. Like your doctors have said, this is not a race. I keep you all in my prayers.
 
sn315on

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I'm sorry to hear about this. I just read a few posts on the first page. We're praying for your family. *HUGS*
 
EmnJoe

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Paso, You are a strong woman and you daughter is great for moving back. I had a friend who was in an accident and in Baltimore a few years ago. It took a 2-3 months for him to wake up completly. He recovered and is doing great now. You are all in everyones thought and prayers.
 
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EmnJoe said:
Paso, You are a strong woman and you daughter is great for moving back. I had a friend who was in an accident and in Baltimore a few years ago. It took a 2-3 months for him to wake up completly. He recovered and is doing great now. You are all in everyones thought and prayers.
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EmnJoe, for the love of GOD change your AV it gives me the friggen creeps! :faint:
 
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Pasofever said:
You up too?? I can't sleep either..

Mom is the same Hospice is talking about not coming to see her for now. I hope they continue to have the nurse come in but not sure if they can.

Hubby is still up the road..still in restraints and diapers etc...Its a mess. He is still in the first rehab from when he was moved from shock trauma..They will be moving him to another rehab in Balt..Still no one here will take him. He is not progressing much at this time.. He has a very short attention span and short memory and is out to lunch..when I was there last week he cried the whole time..he said someone killed a puppy in the parking lot (his room boarders woods so he saw no parking lot) and he was cried because of his Antelope and Deer never could catch that one..so I told him they were fine Inkpen was feeding them..He is really out to lunch..He says the nurses are drug dealers. He most of the time does not know he is in a hospital. Sometimes he cries and says he is really Frucked up. He seems to not know he had a motorcycle or remember the accident..sometimes he says his head is messed up and if you ask why he will say an accident or he does not know.. So we are at 3 months..so I guess time will tell. Daughter has moved back in to help me.
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Keeping you and your family in my thoughts. Hope things are working out with your daughter back home...could be a great help or a hinderance.
 
Pasofever

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We went up there on Monday....they had been planning to move him on Monday to another rehab...BUT he now has a bowel infection and the other place will not take him till it is gone...gives diarrhea and with being bed ridden that is not good...Physical therapy said he has not progressed any he will sometimes stand at the bars for a few seconds will not try to walk though. He is now eating mushed foods not sure if he is feeding himself yet he had not .... I have gone to calling once a day or ever other..He has no attention span and wants to hang up as soon as you call.. He is still restrained with mittens on. He would not even talk to us on Monday very few words..not sure if it was his medicine or his mood..They say he fights them most of the time.. He is hard to work with. That is just him. It took them 4 days to draw blood for an HIV test and it drove me nuts I was worried for a week but it was NEG. This happened the 6th of June so we are pretty far along and getting no where I think..thanks for all the prayers...Hospice has dropped mom..our last visit from them will be on Friday....
 
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