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Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
:huggy: Though I may not post it often, you all are constantly in my thoughts!

Thank you it is getting really hard... :huggy: I really do not think he will ever come home.. and I know mom will not live forever too...I am used to having the kids and all home..gunna be hard to be all alone..
 

KingFish

Nothing to see here
Thank you it is getting really hard... :huggy: I really do not think he will ever come home.. and I know mom will not live forever too...I am used to having the kids and all home..gunna be hard to be all alone..

:huggy: You are in my prayers as well. If I can ever be of any help, just send me a pm.
 

CheriAnn

Biker Chick
:huggy: Though I may not post it often, you all are constantly in my thoughts!

Me too! I think about everything you are going through and pray for your mother and Bill. I just don't post very often.

How are the repairs and upgrades going in your home?
 
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jp2854

Guest
Mom is doing well...Bill does not seem to be improving any...still will not even feed himself and will not even sit at the side of the bed...he has almost quit talking too...will say a few words but not many just wants to sit and be quiet and that is NOT like him..thanks for asking..

Paso

Do you think bill could be depressed since you don't see him that often? Maybe if you went to see him every day or every other day or so maybe that might help him get better if you help him out by being there and cheering him on to getting better.

I am glad to hear your mom is doing good :).
 

Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
Me too! I think about everything you are going through and pray for your mother and Bill. I just don't post very often.

How are the repairs and upgrades going in your home?

Thanks....house is coming along great...

Paso

Do you think bill could be depressed since you don't see him that often? Maybe if you went to see him every day or every other day or so maybe that might help him get better if you help him out by being there and cheering him on to getting better.

I am glad to hear your mom is doing good :).

Yeah right I am going to be able to afford to drive to BALT and back daily or every other day...220 miles round trip at 10 MPG is expensive (22 X $3 is $66 without any food etc $66 X even 5 is $330 a week and I have not even been making that lately...that is $1320 for a month! Before bills..and I pay all the bills myself and take care of mom/animals...) ...plus daughter is working and neighbor is in school so I do not have a sitter for mom..there is no way I can do it that often...and MIL is sick and FIL has to take care of her so I would have to go myself and I am not doing that..We go up this Wed..He does not seem to care if we are there or not..he has NO attention span at all...I talked yesterday with them in length..he is still not even trying to feed himself. Plus if it was me he would not be heading up there every day :lmao:
 

mygoldnhorse

Cowgirl Up
Yeah right I am going to be able to afford to drive to BALT and back daily or every other day...220 miles round trip at 10 MPG is expensive


You are doing your best...everyone that knows you, knows that. It would be unrealalistic to try to visit if he was in St Mary's let alone in Baltimore. :huggy:
 

persimmoncf

Persimmon Creek Farm
Paso

Do you think bill could be depressed since you don't see him that often? Maybe if you went to see him every day or every other day or so maybe that might help him get better if you help him out by being there and cheering him on to getting better.

I am glad to hear your mom is doing good :).

That was a real POS thing to say. Dayum with friends like you...
 

Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
You are doing your best...everyone that knows you, knows that. It would be unrealalistic to try to visit if he was in St Mary's let alone in Baltimore. :huggy:

When mom was both in the nursing home and in the hosp in Leonardtown I would see her 2-3 X day....I would run over and feed her lunch..come come..go over and feed her dinner then I would usually head back over at night to say good night to her..
 

persimmoncf

Persimmon Creek Farm
When mom was both in the nursing home and in the hosp in Leonardtown I would see her 2-3 X day....I would run over and feed her lunch..come come..go over and feed her dinner then I would usually head back over at night to say good night to her..
Hey Paso, you dont have to defend yourself...screw the previous poster
 

PrepH4U

New Member
That was a real POS thing to say. Dayum with friends like you...

I do not ever recall Paso calling her a friend :shrug: Hey even in a perfect relationship I would be darned if I would even drive up there everyday. Some people just don't have a clue. She's young and :crazy:
 

Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
:huggy: Though I may not post it often, you all are constantly in my thoughts!

Besides the cost of gas you know what a sitter runs for an 88 yr old woman in diapers with Alzheimers for 8 or so hours.. :jameo: AND miss work when you are the only one paying bills...
 
Ignore the stupid remarks from people that don't know what your dealing with. Your friends know your doing the very best you can and that's all anyone can do...hang in there and keep on keeping on...you remain in my prayers.
 
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Mousebaby

Guest
JP is a psycho Paso, I know this first hand. Do not pay any attention to her, not to mention she might have the mentality of a 10 yr. old. Heck I think my 11 yr. old daughter is more mature than this person has ever tried to be.

Your one heck of a woman to be doing as well as your doing on your own with so much going on. I don't see how you do it! :huggy:
 

belvak

Happy Camper
Paso, keep on hanging in there! You are one of the strongest people I think I have ever had the honor to meet (even if just over the internet). Remember, you are always in my thoughts!! :huggy:
 

PrepH4U

New Member
Ignore the stupid remarks from people that don't know what your dealing with. Your friends know your doing the very best you can and that's all anyone can do...hang in there and keep on keeping on...you remain in my prayers.

:yeahthat:
Besides maybe JP should stick with what she knows! Oh wait nevermind.... :killingme
 

Baja28

Obama destroyed America
Paso

Do you think bill could be depressed since you don't see him that often? Maybe if you went to see him every day or every other day or so maybe that might help him get better if you help him out by being there and cheering him on to getting better.

I am glad to hear your mom is doing good :).
Don't you have a cat to water torture?? :smack:
 

nana

Nana
I just lost my grandma at 96 after 12 years of Alzheimers the last 8 severe the last 2 in a nursing home
My husban dis also ill
yesterday is over today is new and tomorrow hasn't happen enjoy and embrace each new day
 
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toppick08

Guest
Paso, keep on hanging in there! You are one of the strongest people I think I have ever had the honor to meet (even if just over the internet). Remember, you are always in my thoughts!! :huggy:

:yeahthat:

:huggy:, Paso.
 
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