Sexless relationships

Would you stay in a sexless marriage?

  • Yes. Sex isn't everything.

    Votes: 20 17.5%
  • No. It's an important part of the relationship

    Votes: 70 61.4%
  • I'm not sure.

    Votes: 17 14.9%
  • All of the above.

    Votes: 7 6.1%

  • Total voters
    114

BuddyLee

Football addict
It should be self-evident as to what I chose. I feel as if any sexual act is part of the relationship and makes the love grow.
 

SmallTown

Football season!
Originally posted by BuddyLee
It should be self-evident as to what I chose. I feel as if any sexual act is part of the relationship and makes the love grow.

you call your penis "love" :confused:
 

Chasey_Lane

Salt Life
As difficult it may be, I could do it. If an accident/handicap prevented my husband from performing, I wouldn't have any other choice.
 

sleuth

Livin' Like Thanksgivin'
Originally posted by Chasey_Lane
As difficult it may be, I could do it. If an accident/handicap prevented my husband from performing, I wouldn't have any other choice.

Oh Ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuubyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy...
I still need some company... :wink:
 

Liquidwrench

New Member
Let's say you work 14 hours a day to support lil miss high maintenance and are pretty friggin worn out by the time you get home in the evening. That big azz house and sporty SUV ain't paying for themselves ya know.

Why do you gals insist that if you aren't getting it from your man at home that he must be getting it somewhere else?

Don't laugh at this situation, either. I know too many working class men in this area that are going through this ####. The cheating accusations from their wives cut them to the bone everytime they hear it.

Something in the water around these parts killing marriages...............and lots of women that are never happy with what they have.
 

crabcake

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Originally posted by Liquidwrench
Let's say you work 14 hours a day to support lil miss high maintenance and are pretty friggin worn out by the time you get home in the evening. That big azz house and sporty SUV ain't paying for themselves ya know.

Why do you gals insist that if you aren't getting it from your man at home that he must be getting it somewhere else?

Don't laugh at this situation, either. I know too many working class men in this area that are going through this ####. The cheating accusations from their wives cut them to the bone everytime they hear it.

Something in the water around these parts killing marriages...............and lots of women that are never happy with what they have.

sounds like it's time to sell the big stinkin' house, the sporty SUV, downsize so you don't have to work so much, and spend more time together. :ohwell:
 

CMC122

Go Braves!
Originally posted by crabcake
sounds like it's time to sell the big stinkin' house, the sporty SUV, downsize so you don't have to work so much, and spend more time together. :ohwell:
OR get a new woman:jet:
 

Chasey_Lane

Salt Life
Originally posted by Liquidwrench
Let's say you work 14 hours a day to support lil miss high maintenance and are pretty friggin worn out by the time you get home in the evening. That big azz house and sporty SUV ain't paying for themselves ya know.

Why do you gals insist that if you aren't getting it from your man at home that he must be getting it somewhere else?

Don't laugh at this situation, either. I know too many working class men in this area that are going through this ####. The cheating accusations from their wives cut them to the bone everytime they hear it.

Something in the water around these parts killing marriages...............and lots of women that are never happy with what they have.
:poorbaby:

Please don't stereotype all "gals." If my man cheats, I'll eventually find out, but in the meantime, I'm not wasting a single breath worrying about it. :duh:
 
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HollowSoul

Guest
Originally posted by Liquidwrench
Let's say you work 14 hours a day to support lil miss high maintenance and are pretty friggin worn out by the time you get home in the evening. That big azz house and sporty SUV ain't paying for themselves ya know.

Why do you gals insist that if you aren't getting it from your man at home that he must be getting it somewhere else?

Don't laugh at this situation, either. I know too many working class men in this area that are going through this ####. The cheating accusations from their wives cut them to the bone everytime they hear it.

Something in the water around these parts killing marriages...............and lots of women that are never happy with what they have.
hmmmm:confused: this is a very double edged subject.
i'm sure everybody here has heard of the term that the grass is allways greener...................
not true...
marrige is about a plethra of things....and sex is only a small part.
lets have a show of hands of people who hook up wit someone and for the first few weeks its "ooga-booga" 2-3 times a day....
2 months later its "ooga-booga" 3 times a week.
4 months later it's "ooga-booga" 3-4 times a month......
soon after it's "get that ooga-booga away from me"....
don't get me wrong.....i love ooga-booga! but a long term relationship and especially marrige is not about sex...
if she was to develope some kind of problemg that prohibited her from ooga-booga well then i would have commited myself to her by then and i would have adjusted.....i.e. LOTS and LOTS of porno's:dance:
 

nomoney

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Originally posted by Chasey_Lane
:poorbaby:

Please don't stereotype all "gals." If my man cheats, I'll eventually find out, but in the meantime, I'm not wasting a single breath worrying about it. :duh:


amen sista! :clap:
 

Liquidwrench

New Member
Kept the big house for myself and let her have the greener grass that she had to get to in a big hurry.

Too bad there was cow #### hiding in the grass and it was too late for an apology.:biggrin:

The grass is not greener on the other side. Marriage is great for what it is worth but "for better or for worse" is just that. There will be good times and bad times and sticking it out for your signifigant other is the least one can do. Spousal abuse and cheating are two areas that shouldn't be forgiven under any circumstances. Just remember that it takes two to make it and one to break it.

Best of luck to all those here who have recently tied the knot here. There are so many influences out there in the world to destroy a marriage these days. The deck is most certainly stacked against you but be stubborn to beat the odds and you will prevail!
 
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vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
If something happened and Larry could no longer do his marital duty, I wouldn't leave him or anything like that - we'd just have to deal with it. But when we were dating, he had to put out. That's it. I had this huge laundry list of characteristics my future husband MUST have and burning the sheets was one of them.
 

Liquidwrench

New Member
No doubt that back in the dating stages there was lots of "ooga booga" going on. But after more than a decade of being with her, the honeymoon was certainly over. After the birth of our children, the days of tearing off a little on the kitchen table went by the wayside and the nights of screaming passion became nonexistent.

I can remember the lectures we got from the priest prior to marriage. He told us that midlife crisises were to come and that ,as sure as he was talking to us, that one of us would have a bout with the seven and fifteen year itches.

My lawyer told me not to become a woman hater as most men in my situation become. She said that she sees this all the time and that the naval base is the best thing for her practice there ever was due to the amount of affairs that happen out there. I guess she would know.
 

crabcake

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