Spousal abuse
- Thread starter TurboK9
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ArkRescue
Adopt me please !
ArkRescue
Adopt me please !
struggler44
A Salute to all on Watch
If your "talk" with your husband is anything like your posts on here, he should be nominated for the Noble Peace prize...... or he is deaf
Baja28
Obama destroyed America
I know you said this to get a reaction ..... so here ya go
Wenchy
Hot Flash
In hindsight, I wish I realized being beaten for no reason was not normal. F all of you who are making fun of domestic abuse.
You are the abusers.
annemayer
New Member
My husband is white - I'm being sarcastic. He also had children with me,not someone else,unlike yours.
And by saying that is all that would have me,you are saying that a black man isn't as good as a white one,I presume? Meh,no point debating,you are behind the keyboard,so you'll keep going - the only thing that stops women like you is being face to face,then you don't have much to say. 
I'm not going to be nasty,it's the holidays,so have a good one, I hope you got a lot of Nascar memorabilia for Christmas,and that you were able to get your sheets nice and white for the upcoming new year rallies and such. 
Make sure you tell that daughter of yours (do you call her yours since your husband had her with another woman?) best wishes on her surely impending teen pregnancy and trailer. Oh,I saw your other post about how you gave blowjobs for Christmas. Glad to see you are working again.
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smdavis65
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Dang, he must have beat the sense of humor out of you.
Either that, or you not realizing being beaten wasn't normal, means you are a moron.
n0n1m0us3
why so serious
I decidied after his first attempt to beat me that I did not like it. I beat the crap out of him with my fists. I hit him like a man would hit him. I balled up my fists and punched him 3 times, it was a right-left-right, and it was over. We were in a pool, and he had been messing with a teenage girl. I was a teen myself, but I knew he was a pervert by then, so I had warned him, "touch that girl one more time and I will beat the crap out of you". He smiled and did it again. Anyway there was a large audience of fellow appartment dwellers, so he was more embarrased. I gave him a huge black eye. It was followed by him hitting me on the head while I dried my hair, and then again the next night, He was embarrased and was trying to get me for it. I knew I was going to kill him, so I dumped him. The next man in my life, I lived with for a year before I married him. He has never laid a hand on me in anger. He is my teddy bear. Men who beat weaker smaller people should never get to be with a woman, or have kids. I chose not to live my life that way, or allow my child to witness that crap like I did throughout my childhood. I did consider my Mom a coward, and didn't want to be like her.
Did you hit him first and he hit back? or did he start with the physical stuff, because the way you are explaining it seems like you hit him because he was flirting with some poon in the pool. Guys should not hit girls but girls shouldn't hit guys either, it goes both ways.
Still guys in general are bigger and badder and should not lay hands on females out of anger. Period. Provoked or not, a real man should walk away before he clocks a woman that isn't attempting to kill him in earnest.
Beta84
They're out to get us
Not necessarily the way to handle a woman, but it's probably about control. When these guys were young they probably got smacked around by their parents for misbehaving. If they think they should be the Alpha male then they'll revert back to behavior that established other people as their Alpha.
TurboK9
New Member
Did you hit him first and he hit back? or did he start with the physical stuff, because the way you are explaining it seems like you hit him because he was flirting with some poon in the pool. Guys should not hit girls but girls shouldn't hit guys either, it goes both ways.
Still guys in general are bigger and badder and should not lay hands on females out of anger. Period. Provoked or not, a real man should walk away before he clocks a woman that isn't attempting to kill him in earnest.
He beat her up. This was the third time. I drove up there to 'talk' to him (family and all). He starting mouthing off and called her a b*tch for no reason, as she was basically welcoming me at the door. So I hit him. It was all I needed to see (hear).
He has anger issues. That much is obvious. So do I, but I didn't beat HIM up, even though I had reason (family rights
). By his own admission he hit her, she never hit him.After the pop in the kisser he settled down and got right nice and open about everything over a couple cups of coffee. I didn't entirely by the 'poor me and my inability to control myself' speach though...
libertytyranny
Dream Stealer
My SO has weaknesses and shortcmings just like everyone else on the planet..but I know for a fact he would never lay a hand on me..as much as I push his buttons sometimes. In fact, he is the kind of person that would see a chick getting handled rough by a guy and intervene. He hates it. I, by the same token would never lay a hand on him..as much as I would love to whack him sometimes
if I hit him, he would be well within his rights to hit me back, and then he would die. we know that, and understand that about each other. So, instead we just yell and scream the way God intended.
if I hit him, he would be well within his rights to hit me back, and then he would die. we know that, and understand that about each other. So, instead we just yell and scream the way God intended.
Baja28
Obama destroyed America
Now, that makes sense.If you hit him, he would have a right to hit you back, but you would kill him for doing so. That flawed logic is exactly why I have very few female friends.
Seems unanimous that it is a control factor, I feel like whooping some azz now, come here ANNEYMAYER and HAZYCLOUD you to need two learn to get along ha ha, hold on let me get my white T, uuma learn ya
I saw plenty abuse growing up, the stair throwing, screams, mom gone for days spending nights in a state home with a Nanny. Years ago, but no man should ever hit a lady. I would intervene if I saw this happening also, ut sad the women will stick up for the man though. But what gets me is that most women stay after the first Tyson punch I LUV HIM, geeeesh. There is something about that first punch that seems to turn a lady on I guess.
I saw plenty abuse growing up, the stair throwing, screams, mom gone for days spending nights in a state home with a Nanny. Years ago, but no man should ever hit a lady. I would intervene if I saw this happening also, ut sad the women will stick up for the man though. But what gets me is that most women stay after the first Tyson punch I LUV HIM, geeeesh. There is something about that first punch that seems to turn a lady on I guess.
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ArkRescue
Adopt me please !
Wenchy
Hot Flash
This whole thread makes me very sad.
Yes. I am a moron for putting up with it, still loving him and for God's sake, I protected him and never pressed charges even when the police had him in public after smacking me down.
He's a good man in so many ways and he took his anger out on me. Great father, etc...
I was a punching bag.
He's also a good "ol local boy and he knew he had me.
He apologized each time and I chose to believe him. We had a nice life...BUT
I finally got out of it, but I needed help.
To this day he refuses to get counseling but admits he has a major anger problem. Xanax has helped to an extent. His doctor prescribes it for "anxiety".
If you know anybody in this situation, please help them.
TMI, but it might help somebody or get somebody to help a person in this situation.
Yes. I am a moron for putting up with it, still loving him and for God's sake, I protected him and never pressed charges even when the police had him in public after smacking me down.
He's a good man in so many ways and he took his anger out on me. Great father, etc...
I was a punching bag.
He's also a good "ol local boy and he knew he had me.
He apologized each time and I chose to believe him. We had a nice life...BUT
I finally got out of it, but I needed help.
To this day he refuses to get counseling but admits he has a major anger problem. Xanax has helped to an extent. His doctor prescribes it for "anxiety".
If you know anybody in this situation, please help them.
TMI, but it might help somebody or get somebody to help a person in this situation.
Well how do you keep your wife in line? Oh maybe she keeps you in line .... ?
j/k
Girl don't make me, some people call me "Big Ike" I have been known to slap a hoe for not buttering my bread right, not saying you a hoe so don't take it personal beetch
It's really just crazy how women put up with it, insecurity, they want to be loved and feel that is the best they can do. Surley a phsycological thing with women who take this sheit. Someone mentioned at one point in time the man has to go to sleep, that abused spouse just might make sure he never wakes up again. Some women are just phsycologicly weak minded, very beautiful or ugly and they still will put with it. Ark you be good the rest of the day or else.
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