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Then Dont B/S Me there Pixie. Just say it. Your in love with me arent ya. lol
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KaZamm1061
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I knew you loved me. 
Man i feel special now
Man i feel special now
Christy
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Originally posted by pixiegirl
Shame on you all for having a conversation like this without me! Geez, take a day off and look what happens.Ok, here is my "expert" opinion. As most of you know I'm legally still married for another month. Technically I guess I'm cheating on my husband, but not really. I put him out and filed for divorce and am just waiting for my 12 month seperation period to be up. Anyway, I'll be completely honest here. Dating and marrying my ex taught me a ton about love and relationships. We got together when I was 18 and he was 20. He was the biggest jerk to me. The first year and a half that we dated I was too busy trying to prove myself to him to even look at another guy. After some really ridiculous stunts on his part we started the break up get back together game. I never technically cheated on him but on our temporary break ups I'd do whatever the hell I pleased with whoever the hell I pleased. Then we got to the point when I really didn't care for him or the relationship anymore. But he wouldn't leave or leave me alone for that matter. I'd try to break up with him and he'd turn into stalker boy and it was easier to just be with him then deal with him interfearing in my life so much. On and off, on and off; then I get pregnant. We get married even though I didn't want to at all. I had my son December of last year and I was so miserable and I knew I was capable of cheating on him so I just put him out. Thankfully I was staying with my parents and he couldn't harass me nearly as much as he would have liked to and I've made it 11 months without feeling pressured to go back.
The bottom line is I don't think I ever really loved my husband. Maybe I did? But I question it a lot. Now since I've left my husband I've had one serious boyfriend. But he and I go off and on a lot. This one I do love. His last serious girlfriend cheated on him and left him for another guy which has made him totally emotionally unavailable. Instead of being in a relationship and being unhappy and straying I've left him several times too. Do I date in between break ups? Sure I do. Why sit and wait for someone to come around who may never come around. Who knows what you might miss. Mind you, I think we'll probably end up together but in the mean time I live by the mentality that if I'm not getting what I want or need out of a relationship I will leave and find it elsewhere. I don't cheat nor would I, it's just not right. But I am a no b/s kinda girl.
You go girl!
Larry Gude
Strung Out
We both do...
I do it probably more than is good for me though.
Usually, it's when she's asleep or hasn't come home yet. Especially on weekends. Sometimes I do it right after we've been, ahem "together". THAT one is often the best anyway. I've been know to sneak a little taste in at lunchtime as well.
I know, I know, but it's hard, damn hard to resist, especailly when it's so available. I mean, it's right there, 24/7.
Look at all the different flavors too. I love 'em all.
She's a bit better about her "thing". All I ask is that she doesn't do it in the house, especially the bedroom, but she's human to, right? I come in and you can just TELL what's been going on. I don't mean to be crude, but you can smell it. Usually she sneaks out in the garage, even has a little heater for those "winter urges". It's not to bad. Some times I even join in.
I guess I can't blame her. We both like what we do and it makes us happier.
Still, though, one day I'm gonna quit or at least cut way back. She says she'll never stop.
Besides, really, we're adults. What's the big deal?
Ice cream and cigarettes are still legal last time I looked.
I do it probably more than is good for me though.
Usually, it's when she's asleep or hasn't come home yet. Especially on weekends. Sometimes I do it right after we've been, ahem "together". THAT one is often the best anyway. I've been know to sneak a little taste in at lunchtime as well.
I know, I know, but it's hard, damn hard to resist, especailly when it's so available. I mean, it's right there, 24/7.
Look at all the different flavors too. I love 'em all.
She's a bit better about her "thing". All I ask is that she doesn't do it in the house, especially the bedroom, but she's human to, right? I come in and you can just TELL what's been going on. I don't mean to be crude, but you can smell it. Usually she sneaks out in the garage, even has a little heater for those "winter urges". It's not to bad. Some times I even join in.
I guess I can't blame her. We both like what we do and it makes us happier.
Still, though, one day I'm gonna quit or at least cut way back. She says she'll never stop.
Besides, really, we're adults. What's the big deal?
Ice cream and cigarettes are still legal last time I looked.
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Flo
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Flo
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Trying to be "Good" in the new year, but the temptation is sometimes hard to resist....Ice Cream that is!! :razz2:
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Kizzy
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@ LarryMy husband and I are just dying over your post.
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Kain99
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OMG in Heaven! Larry Gude has a great sense of humor! I never knew.....:razz2:
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Kain99
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Still reeling!
Yes, you all just laugh it up! Ha ha. Ha ha. When I got married it never occurred to me that I'd have three men in my bed - Larry, Ben & Jerry.
I just voted and said "Never". I didn't see the results before that.
You da woman!!
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Sense of humor?
...about what? Did I miss something???
...about what? Did I miss something???