Tell me, was I that wrong in my response?
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MMDad
Lem Putt
Esprix said:
"business type lunch that was set up for like type business concerns as mine, sort of a meet and greet share ideas type of thing."
Maybe you could read first? This wasn't a happy hour, let's get goofy over frilly drinks situation. In a business situation, you don't have to hide who you are, but to introduce a business partner as "my wife" emphasizes both the traditional sexual and subservient aspects of the relationship.
Let's look at this from a purely hetero situation. I go to the same lunch, and I'm talking to this same homophobe (bcp). Regardless of our business situation, I introduce my wife as "my wife". By doing so, even if she were the senior business partner, I have relegated her position to one that is traditionally subservient.
If I respect my wife, and value any business relationship that may develop, I would introduce her by name, and if appropriate, title. I'm sure someone would notice the huge one carat Cubic Zirconium (I went all out) on her finger, and some may assume she was my wife, but for all anyone knows she could be someone elses wife, or even my sister (if we were in St. Mary's, deed by god.)
Once again, I ask, why would someone want to cripple a business oppurtunity in order to emphasize their orientation?
bcp
In My Opinion
Not really hate. I would call it more a non acceptance.camily said:bcp, usually I'm lovin' you. What's up with the hate?Also, you think anal is not right for a man and woman also? Personally, it's not my cup of tea but I'd be lyin' if I said I never did it. Does that mean I'm a member of the "non normal" community? I have had no damage occur.
I dont hate Esprix, but I certainly have a great dislike for the lifestyle that he has chosen. I dont think it is normal.
I do have a great dislike for being labled homophope simply for the reason that I do not agree with the lifestyle. The term as I suggested denotes a certain fear of the homosexual. or of mankind in general to be more exact.
Homo = mankind Phobe = Fear of.
I have extreme reservations in any special right that is searched out for any group. ex.. hate crime laws, changing the marriage laws, workplace protection that becomes excessive such as affirmative action has. etc...
Even if it is a trait that is genetically hardwired and they have no choice, this makes it no more normal than someone born with any other brain disorder. We have programs to help almost all groups born with disorders, yet we ignore the homosexual groups.
The issue with the priests in the catholic church is by far a gay issue, even though the gays will claim it is pediphile and has nothing to do with gay... Im not gay, and if (would never happen) I were to molest a child, Im pretty damn sure it would not be a boy. the priests are Gay Pedophiles.
Why so many? simple, society does nothing to try and help them.
And if anyone suggests that help is needed,, what are they? thats right, a homophobe.
now down to the final issue.
your anal sex admission
Um,,,, no its not a normal use of that part of the body. Just because you didnt have damage does not mean that it is meant to be. Perhaps your partner at the time was underdeveloped in that region?
If you and whom ever you are with choose to do that, I have no say in the matter. unless you are doing it on a street corner next to a crossing guard during the school hour.
for me, Never have and never will, I aint putting mr winky into any cave that he has a chance to come back out with a butterbean stuck to his helmet... just would not be fair to him.
camily
Peace
Butterbean!bcp said:Not really hate. I would call it more a non acceptance.
I dont hate Esprix, but I certainly have a great dislike for the lifestyle that he has chosen. I dont think it is normal.
I do have a great dislike for being labled homophope simply for the reason that I do not agree with the lifestyle. The term as I suggested denotes a certain fear of the homosexual. or of mankind in general to be more exact.
Homo = mankind Phobe = Fear of.
I have extreme reservations in any special right that is searched out for any group. ex.. hate crime laws, changing the marriage laws, workplace protection that becomes excessive such as affirmative action has. etc...
Even if it is a trait that is genetically hardwired and they have no choice, this makes it no more normal than someone born with any other brain disorder. We have programs to help almost all groups born with disorders, yet we ignore the homosexual groups.
The issue with the priests in the catholic church is by far a gay issue, even though the gays will claim it is pediphile and has nothing to do with gay... Im not gay, and if (would never happen) I were to molest a child, Im pretty damn sure it would not be a boy. the priests are Gay Pedophiles.
Why so many? simple, society does nothing to try and help them.
And if anyone suggests that help is needed,, what are they? thats right, a homophobe.
now down to the final issue.
your anal sex admission
Um,,,, no its not a normal use of that part of the body. Just because you didnt have damage does not mean that it is meant to be. Perhaps your partner at the time was underdeveloped in that region?
If you and whom ever you are with choose to do that, I have no say in the matter. unless you are doing it on a street corner next to a crossing guard during the school hour.
for me, Never have and never will, I aint putting mr winky into any cave that he has a chance to come back out with a butterbean stuck to his helmet... just would not be fair to him.
That's why you never look when you pull it out! Rule number one: Always in the dark!
Dougstermd
ORGASM DONOR
bcp said:
ANALPHOBE
Dougstermd
ORGASM DONOR
bcp said:
BROWNEYE PEAS
bcp
In My Opinion
some women like be slapped around during sex,, I cant go there either.camily said:.
If you dont both agree on what is acceptable and if you both can not agree on mutual respect, then the chance that your marriage will last is reduced.
I stand on my theory of the one way street.
I dont want no moving violations.
bcp
In My Opinion
Maybe you slapped him to hard,, or in the wrong placecamily said:I agree, I'm not into the slapping around either. My husband cried last time I did it.
I've been married for 13 years (almost 14) and together three years before that so I guess we fit.
And of course you fit,, you already said you dont play the butt bumping game....
now, if he suggests anal, I suggest you purchase the biggest strap on you can find,, then consent to it.. I bet he see's it in a different light when you walk into the room with a 12 inch winky strapped on and a bottle of KY in your hand. before you can say roll over, hes going to be out the window.
camily
Peace
I said I didn't like it so much, but that we hadn't done it. It's a rare occurance, but once in a blue moon I let him, but he has to be VERY nice, and me very drunk!!bcp said:Maybe you slapped him to hard,, or in the wrong place
And of course you fit,, you already said you dont play the butt bumping game....
now, if he suggests anal, I suggest you purchase the biggest strap on you can find,, then consent to it.. I bet he see's it in a different light when you walk into the room with a 12 inch winky strapped on and a bottle of KY in your hand. before you can say roll over, hes going to be out the window.
