too young for spaying?????

[sleuth]

Originally posted by nomoney
so your wedding gift to her is "letting" her bring a cat into your newly carpeted home? won't it be her home as well

See my reply to Pete.

 

[sleuth]

Originally posted by PFgal
Thanks for telling us your life story. I feel so sorry for all your hardship.

Hey, no problem. I'll be sure to let you know when the book comes out.

 

[Pete]

Originally posted by sleuth14
Sheesh... beg your pardon for not posting tons of smilies with the comment. I was using the word "allow" in a loose, funny, jocular sort of way. Playing my macho, "I am King of My Castle" card

No need to beg, my reply was also meant in a "jocular sort of way". asfarasyouknow

 

[nomoney]

when are you getting married?

 

[JabbaJawz]

Originally posted by nomoney
when are you getting married?

After she gets divorced, I guess. Is she, yet?

 

[crabcake]

guys guys guys ... cut Sleuth some slack; he's doing what he can with what he has. No one except Smalltown was born with a gold spoon shoved up our azzes!

 

[Pete]

Originally posted by tatercake
guys guys guys ... cut Sleuth some slack; he's doing what he can with what he has. No one except Smalltown was born with a gold spoon shoved up our azzes!

 

[JabbaJawz]

Originally posted by tatercake
guys guys guys ... cut Sleuth some slack; he's doing what he can with what he has. No one except Smalltown was born with a gold spoon shoved up our azzes!

As you sit and eat popcorn you want us to cut slack?

 

[crabcake]

Originally posted by Pete

I ain't gotta kiss C's azz for nuthin' ... I don't even have his digits, to demonstrate we ain't that close of friends ... I just remember hearing about a certain someone getting upset when a joke on him was taken too far not long ago.

 

[sleuth]

Originally posted by PFgal
After she gets divorced, I guess. Is she, yet?

She was divorced in January. We both decided to hold off for awhile while she pays down some of her lawyer debts and I save up money to get us started.

 

[crabcake]

Originally posted by PFgal
As you sit and eat popcorn you want us to cut slack?

I dint eat NOOOOOOO popcorn ...

Originally posted by tatercake
pardom me ... excuse me ... sorry for stepping on your foot, sir.

*sitting down* alright ... please continue.

it was snacks!

I just think a few are gettin' a little personal ... and meam. and that's cari's job.

 

[Pete]

Originally posted by tatercake
I ain't gotta kiss C's azz for nuthin' ... I don't even have his digits, to demonstrate we ain't that close of friends ... I just remember hearing about a certain someone getting upset when a joke on him was taken too far not long ago.

And this is the same how?

 

[JabbaJawz]

Originally posted by kwillia
Smart... if you two are meant to be... there's no rush and getting your ducks in a row ahead of time relieves a lot of unnecessary stresses later.

Agreed. I always get my ducks in a row before making any major moves/decisions. I'm all about planning and preparedness.

 

[crabcake]

Originally posted by Pete
And this is the same how?

not saying it's the same ... just saying cut the guy some slack. he's trying to do the RIGHT thing by save money vs. blow it on something that can wait ... and while I'm an animal loving person myself, a cat CAN wait! and it's not that it makes him cheap ... it makes him smart and shows his priorities are in line. if I were his wife to be, I'd rather he save the benji's he would've spent on the cat and put it toward something else that would help "US" out now vs spend it on some cat that will (as his luck has it) run away anyway.

and I gotta say, if I just recarpeted my house, the LAST thing i'd want to bring into it is a newborn pet that is likely to scratch and pizz all over the carpet!

 

[sleuth]

Originally posted by kwillia
Smart... if you two are meant to be... there's no rush and getting your ducks in a row ahead of time relieves a lot of unnecessary stresses later.

Thanks Kwill.

now I have two best friends.

 

[sleuth]

Originally posted by kwillia
I've always been impressed with how you handle your life....

 

[JabbaJawz]

Good lord....

 

[JabbaJawz]

Kwillia and Sleuth sittin' in a tree....

 

[JabbaJawz]

Originally posted by kwillia
You don't think he's done well for someone who is mid-twenties and pulling himself up by his own boot straps...

Why should I kiss his butt for it? He's the same age as me and I don't go around asking for props. :shrug:

 

[crabcake]

I didn't see him asking for 'recognition' of his accomplishments ... I saw him having to defend himself against the assumptions of others that he was cheap cause he wouldn't buy a cat.