When Should Sex Occur?

[sockgirl77]

Is it okay if they don't love you?

No.

 

[Dye Tied]

I don't know, I am pretty hungry and don't want to miss lunch.

You're trying to bait me

 

[Pete]

You're trying to bait me

Will you bring me a sandwich?

 

[LexiGirl75]

First date.

Unless you're/she's on the rag.

 

[LexiGirl75]

I couldn't pick just one, so I picked all of them

I picked the two that said first dates.

 

[Dye Tied]

Will you bring me a sandwich?

Whew, I was afraid you were going to ask for a tossed salad.

 

[Pete]

Whew, I was afraid you were going to ask for a tossed salad.

Pancakes?

 

[Dye Tied]

Pancakes?

I'll hop on over across the street

 

[camily]

I'll hop on over across the street

 

[LexiGirl75]

That was a real knee slapper


If the girl puts out before the 3rd date then you toss her, if she doesn't, she's a keeper.

You're in my age range, though married... I won't hold that against you. How many men your age -/+ 5yrs still react according to your post? If anyone knows the answer please share.

 

[sockgirl77]

You're in my age range, though married... I won't hold that against you. How many men your age -/+ 5yrs still react according to your post? If anyone knows the answer please share.

Alot of men nowadays want a quality woman with values. There are still men out there that are looking for something more meaningful than casual sex. Its called maturity.

 

[nobody really]

Whew, I was afraid you were going to ask for a tossed salad.

ewwwwwwwwwwww

 

[missperky]

Anytime, anyplace.

 

[LexiGirl75]

My last relationship, (grand opening, grand closing, yeahyeah) I was on my rag when I went over his crib. Not that I would have slept with him the same day or not, ok, yeah I would have... But, we didn't and he shared how badly he wanted to inspite of knowing that I was on.

So I thought that by the next weekend he would have tried to get some but we had no plans for that weekend and slowly but surely his attention level went south. I think he got it somewhere else.

I know I did nothing wrong but I was so shocked to be on this end of things for once. So, now I know that not giving it up gets you kicked to the curve just as quickly as giving it up.

I have always been a believer that you can do whatever you want since no one was born here for anyone else and I promised dude he could cut the ribbon in 7 days. Guess he wasn't that in to me.

Nothing gained, nothing loss.

 

[LexiGirl75]

Alot of men nowadays want a quality woman with values. There are still men out there that are looking for something more meaningful than casual sex. Its called maturity.

Yeah, I don't have the time nor consistent energy to give to that type of thing. It will have to happen naturally. So for now I just flow and I expect a man to be able to roll with it.

 

[Dye Tied]

Alot of men nowadays want a quality woman with values. There are still men out there that are looking for something more meaningful than casual sex. Its called maturity.

You can be mature and have casual sex. It's a choice. It's not like your giving your cherry

 

[Mrgaritavill]

You're in my age range, though married... I won't hold that against you. How many men your age -/+ 5yrs still react according to your post? If anyone knows the answer please share.

Most of my friends, both male and female, live by the 3 date rule. If theres no action by date 3, then its over. Some will count oral or other forms of "hooking up" as enough to pass date 3.....but really, if you dont want to get it on after the 3rd date, where is it really going?

 

[BlackSheep]

I'm curious, because I know the general society trends are changing... when is it appropriate to have sex when you're dating someone if you want the dating to turn in to a relationship?

Just curious-what were the trends in Minnesota?

 

[Chain729]

Alot of men nowadays want a quality woman with values. There are still men out there that are looking for something more meaningful than casual sex. Its called maturity.

Yeah. I'm gonna believe a man is gonna stop a chick they're attracted to from unzipping him and havin' at it.

 

[Chain729]

Most of my friends, both male and female, live by the 3 date rule. If theres no action by date 3, then its over. Some will count oral or other forms of "hooking up" as enough to pass date 3.....but really, if you dont want to get it on after the 3rd date, where is it really going?

So you'll put out on the first date, but won't say if you have big boobs or not. Anybody else see the irony here?