When Should Sex Occur?

Relationship Sexual Progression

  • 1 - 3 dates is ok to have sex

    Votes: 27 40.3%
  • 4 - 6 dates is ok to have sex, not before

    Votes: 17 25.4%
  • 6 - 10 dates is ok to have sex, not before

    Votes: 14 20.9%
  • 10+ Dates is ok to have sex, not before

    Votes: 9 13.4%
  • When exclusivity is discussed is ok to have sex, not before

    Votes: 14 20.9%
  • Making out is ok dates 1 - 3

    Votes: 23 34.3%
  • Making out is ok dates 4 - 6, not before

    Votes: 8 11.9%
  • Making out is ok dates 6 - 10, not before

    Votes: 7 10.4%
  • Messing around/oral sex is ok on dates 1 - 3

    Votes: 12 17.9%
  • Messing around/oral sex is ok on dates 4 - 6, not before

    Votes: 11 16.4%
  • Messing around/oral sex is ok on dates 6 - 10, not before

    Votes: 8 11.9%
  • Messing around/oral sex is ok after 10 dates, not before

    Votes: 7 10.4%
  • I don't know/No Opinion

    Votes: 9 13.4%

  • Total voters
    67

LexiGirl75

100% Goapele Head!
Mrgaritavill said:
Most of my friends, both male and female, live by the 3 date rule. If theres no action by date 3, then its over. Some will count oral or other forms of "hooking up" as enough to pass date 3.....but really, if you dont want to get it on after the 3rd date, where is it really going?

I don't get enough sex to even try and mess with that. Every time I get to know a man that I decide I want sexually, I want them instantly.

If no dates have occured before then (which is possible because I usually don't even give a dude any space until he intrigues me) it's a given that I can't/won't wait til the 3rd date.

Usually I don't get tossed after sex with a man so maybe the men are just really mature. I'm usually the one who pushes them away.
 

LexiGirl75

100% Goapele Head!
Chain729 said:
So you'll put out on the first date, but won't say if you have big boobs or not. Anybody else see the irony here? :lol:

Thanks for quoting to cause me to re-read her post. I so thought she meant the 3 date rule was no sex before the 3rd date. Me tinks I may have a new hanging partner. :cool:
 
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wkndbeacher

Guest
Mrgaritavill said:
:lmao:

If there is no action by date 3, then its a waste of time. That doesnt mean it has to be on the very first date though.



:flowers:
 

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
Sex is an emotional thing with me. I've never been much on casual sex. I don't care who screws who. There are just alot of consequences to think about when going out screwing casually. I just know what is right for me and that's how I voted. :yay:
 

LexiGirl75

100% Goapele Head!
sockgirl77 said:
Sex is an emotional thing with me. I've never been much on casual sex. I don't care who screws who. There are just alot of consequences to think about when going out screwing casually. I just know what is right for me and that's how I voted. :yay:

If I was a casual screwer then you and I both know I wouldn't have the status I do now. :huggy:
 
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wkndbeacher

Guest
LexiGirl75 said:
If I was a casual screwer then you and I both know I wouldn't have the status I do now. :huggy:


Oh whats your status now?
 

Larry Gude

Strung Out
I agree...

sockgirl77 said:
Sex is an emotional thing with me. I've never been much on casual sex. I don't care who screws who. There are just alot of consequences to think about when going out screwing casually. I just know what is right for me and that's how I voted. :yay:


...no more of this casual screwing. People should not be relaxing during sex. You need to be concerning yourselves with consequences; Will she call me tomorrow? What if I get a rash? Was that a 'no' body reaction or a 'yes'? When was the last time that thing got any sun? Did I take my pill(s)? I wish people would quit with the onions. I told her I prefer natural ones, but, damn. What did he say he had when he was younger that almost always goes away?
What, exactly, is 'Greek'? Why would she use perfume...all over? Why did the doctor give me that look last check up? My clock is ticking! What if I lose pressure? Again? Did she just queef?

Come on, people! Let's get serious about sex!
 

Pete

Repete
Larry Gude said:
...no more of this casual screwing. People should not be relaxing during sex. You need to be concerning yourselves with consequences; Will she call me tomorrow? What if I get a rash? Was that a 'no' body reaction or a 'yes'? When was the last time that thing got any sun? Did I take my pill(s)? I wish people would quit with the onions. I told her I prefer natural ones, but, damn. What did he say he had when he was younger that almost always goes away?
What, exactly, is 'Greek'? Why would she use perfume...all over? Why did the doctor give me that look last check up? My clock is ticking! What if I lose pressure? Again? Did she just queef?

Come on, people! Let's get serious about sex!
Heh, Larry said "queef". It would be funny anyway but Larry saying it makes it even funnier. :pete:
 
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