When Should Sex Occur?

[MMDad]

When he's drunk enough?

Shouldn't that be "When she's drunk enough?" Or are you coming out of the closet?

 

[meme]

I say it's okay now a days to do it on the first date. I've married everyone I've screwed on the first date.

 

[LexiGirl75]

Dear karma giver,

By your illogical, irrational "reasoning" maturity can go in reverse. At one point, not all that long ago, I was extremely picky about who I let in my bed. So picky in fact, I went a few years without. Then, I went through Hell. Upon reaching the other side, I reflected on why I deprived myself. I couldn't come up with a logical answer and actually felt that by doing so, I cheated myself out of quite a bit and put myself in a position where it was easy to wind up in the Hell that I did. Of course, I doubt that you could possibly understand this. Until recent events, I didn't see it either.

-Chain

I wonder if I will have an epiphany.

 

[kris31280]

I wonder if I will have an epiphany.

Yeah, I've had an epiphany... basically from what I've read on here today, apparently the sexual revolution has come to about half the population and forgotten the other half.

If you look at the poll it's slightly larger on dates 1-3, but there's still a large number that says wait until you're exclusive.

 

[mAlice]

Yeah, I've had an epiphany... basically from what I've read on here today, apparently the sexual revolution has come to about half the population and forgotten the other half.

If you look at the poll it's slightly larger on dates 1-3, but there's still a large number that says wait until you're exclusive.

How do you know when you're exclusive?

 

[Mrgaritavill]

How do you know when you're exclusive?

you have "the talk."

But I dont know anyone who had ever agreed on exclusivity before getting some.....well not since middle school anyway.

 

[SamSpade]

How do you know when you're exclusive?

My guess is when she tells you she's called it quits with everyone else.

 

[itsbob]

Shouldn't that be "When she's drunk enough?" Or are you coming out of the closet?

i was answering the question for HER!

 

[Pete]

How do you know when you're exclusive?

I have an answer but I don't want to be banned

 

[LexiGirl75]

Yeah, I've had an epiphany... basically from what I've read on here today, apparently the sexual revolution has come to about half the population and forgotten the other half.

If you look at the poll it's slightly larger on dates 1-3, but there's still a large number that says wait until you're exclusive.

Wasn't me, in fact I forgot to vote for one of the 1-3. But I got the 2 important ones so it doesn't matter since the opinion is out there loud and clear.

 

[sunflower]

Never

 

[MMDad]

i was answering the question for HER!

Of course you were. We believe you.

 

[kris31280]

i was answering the question for HER!

Who said I was asking the question for personal use?

It's a general question... I'm college student, conducting research on changing trends.

Way to be a jerkoff though... do you specialize in that?

 

[MMDad]

Way to be a jerkoff though... do you specialize in that?

Since he goes both ways, and gets them dunk enough, he doesn't need to do that.

 

[Chain729]

How do you know when you're exclusive?

That doesn't happen.

Oh crap, that assumes you're "normal" and it does happen. Uh... ask?

 

[Dye Tied]

Do you just make up your info? More people over 50 are shacking up and don't believe in sex until after marriage Baby boomers were the 60's generation of sex, drugs and rock and roll. Talk to baby boomers. You'll see...

Our society does not just consist of twenty-somethings. The vast majority of those over 50 still believe in waiting for marriage. You can ignore them if you like, but they are still part of our society.

It's not like there were only two choices. Waiting for marriage could easily have been a choice. Why exclude the traditional and only list what's popular today?

You are discounting the beliefs of almost all religions as being irrelevant to the discussion.

By the way, my answer was first date. Just because I don't believe in waiting for marriage does not invalidate that opinion. Personally, I don't think you should have to wait until after the first date, but some people are just too uptight.

 

[Caroline]

as early as one
as many as never.

depends on the guy and the situation.

 

[SamSpade]

How do you know when you're exclusive?

My guess is when she tells you she's called it quits with everyone else.

 

[Nickel]

you have "the talk."

I never had "the talk" with my husband. BRB.

 

[MMDad]

Do you just make up your info? More people over 50 are shacking up and don't believe in sex until after marriage Baby boomers were the 60's generation of sex, drugs and rock and roll. Talk to baby boomers. You'll see...

You're missing my point: there are still people who believe that waiting until marriage is the only correct choice. That option was ignored.

I know that people do not practice what they preach. Go to any catholic church and listen to the rhetoric and you would think the pre-marital sex rate among catholics is zero. Then look at how many people celebrating their second wedding anniversary have four year old kids.