Dye Tied
Garden Variety Gnome
It's very creepy that you remembered that. ICK.
It's very creepy that you remembered that. ICK.
unixpirate
Pitty Party
Radiant1
Soul Probe
I think it's more along the lines of...
"Hey, she's hot. Oh look she has kids. Hi there, I'm Larry and your name is? Hi Vrai nice to meet you!"
Now, Larry, you can't honestly say you didn't want to eventually eff that mother just because she had kids, can you?
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Isn't...
...a relationship a little different than this whole 'milf' hunting thing?
Do you hear these guys discussing their role as potential stepfathers? Are they talking in terms of what they bring to the relationship?
Mom I'd like to ####.
That's it.
I'm not naive. I'm just getting a little tired of Viagra commercials at all hours and talk of what to do if your erection lasts longer that 4 hours when I'm trying to watch TV with the kids.
The race to the cultural bottom is not something I applaud.
I think it's more along the lines of...
"Hey, she's hot. Oh look she has kids. Hi there, I'm Larry and your name is? Hi Vrai nice to meet you!"
Now, Larry, you can't honestly say you didn't want to eventually eff that mother just because she had kids, can you?
...a relationship a little different than this whole 'milf' hunting thing?
Do you hear these guys discussing their role as potential stepfathers? Are they talking in terms of what they bring to the relationship?
Mom I'd like to ####.
That's it.
I'm not naive. I'm just getting a little tired of Viagra commercials at all hours and talk of what to do if your erection lasts longer that 4 hours when I'm trying to watch TV with the kids.
The race to the cultural bottom is not something I applaud.
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Kain99
Guest
I haven't read the thread but I must address the original question. Darlin, your husband just left you. You need a good solid two years alone time, to reconnect.
It's insane, to go on the hunt now. Disaster is looming.
It's insane, to go on the hunt now. Disaster is looming.
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shiki
Guest
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toppick08
Guest
Elephant Memory...:shrug:
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shiki
Guest
I'm not on the hunt. I don't wanna leave the house...that's why I'm on the internet messin with ya'll< not cuz i'm tryin to meet people over the internet. I am chillin out at home, amusing myself, just bought some undoubtedly crappy horror movies that I'm gonna watch and I'm going to hang out with my kid and my dogs.
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Radiant1
Soul Probe
Yes and no. Casual sex is casual sex whether it be with "milfs" "cougars" "hawks" or those who don't designate themselves as such and it's been going on since the dawn of mankind so I wouldn't expect it to stop anytime soon. Just because we put a name to something doesn't mean it never existed.
Specifically speaking for Chain, He's not really a milf hunter, He just likes sarcastic jokes and happens to love me, and older woman who has children. When He calls me a milf, I take it as a compliment. :shrug:
"Cultural bottom" is subjective and could be debated for centuries on end, in fact I believe it already has been.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Ok...
...you are free to take it any way you please and ou completely miss my meaning. It's still coarse. It's still a vulgar way to describe someone and it's no different than the 'ho's' and '#####es' misogynistic mindset of way too much of our culture and none of that has anything to with affection or a happy love life which I am all for. And for your kids sake, if you're just some mom someone would like to ####, then that's what you're teaching them; it's just fine to have that attitude and that mindset.
I'm just not going to be talked into 'milf' being a term of endearment in a public sense.
...you are free to take it any way you please and ou completely miss my meaning. It's still coarse. It's still a vulgar way to describe someone and it's no different than the 'ho's' and '#####es' misogynistic mindset of way too much of our culture and none of that has anything to with affection or a happy love life which I am all for. And for your kids sake, if you're just some mom someone would like to ####, then that's what you're teaching them; it's just fine to have that attitude and that mindset.
I'm just not going to be talked into 'milf' being a term of endearment in a public sense.
Radiant1
Soul Probe
I understand where you're coming from you have a sense of propriety that perhaps others do not and that's very noble of you in and of itself. I'm not trying to talk you into accepting the term; however, I think you err when making judgments on people who do by calling them morons or grouping it as misogynistic. As I said before, such things and what one considers "cultural bottom" is all very subjective.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Radiant1
Soul Probe
Chain729
CageKicker Extraordinaire
Step outside the box, take the blinders off, and take a good look. Is terminology really THAT important? Is it really that important to hide the natural, the obvious, the humanity behind words that in all honesty mean the same thing? Is it really that important to say the same thing "X" way rather than "Y" because everyone says you should?
Beelzebaby666
Has confinement issues..
I don't think that Chain or Radiant need to stand here defending their lifestyle...
It is a lifestyle you know. Not really a relationship, IMO. I think what Sockgirl's gripe is, is that they publicly display their brand of affection when in her mind, its not something she wants to hear about because it strays from the 'norm' and we know she's as normal as they come.
Let me change "norm" to the word "conventional".
What two people do behind closed doors is their business. While I don't dig it, I can respect the openmindedness of it.
Was that a word?
It is a lifestyle you know. Not really a relationship, IMO. I think what Sockgirl's gripe is, is that they publicly display their brand of affection when in her mind, its not something she wants to hear about because it strays from the 'norm' and we know she's as normal as they come.
Let me change "norm" to the word "conventional".
What two people do behind closed doors is their business. While I don't dig it, I can respect the openmindedness of it.
Was that a word?
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
I don't think that Chain or Radiant need to stand here defending their lifestyle...
It is a lifestyle you know. Not really a relationship, IMO. I think what Sockgirl's gripe is, is that they publicly display their brand of affection when in her mind, its not something she wants to hear about because it strays from the 'norm' and we know she's as normal as they come.
Let me change "norm" to the word "conventional".
What two people do behind closed doors is their business. While I don't dig it, I can respect the openmindedness of it.
Was that a word?
Exactly, I do not want to hear about it. It disgusts me. One day, I'll just put them on iggy. I happen to like some of their posts and that is why I have not bothered to do it.
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shiki
Guest
but you're not hearing about it, you're reading about it, in a thread that is clearly marked as being a subject that apparently disgusts you???
I guess I'm missing something.
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Larry Gude
Strung Out
I'm not...
...the one in a box.
Our baser natures will, of course, always be there. That does not mean that our public behavior need be base. Manners, consideration for others, controlling our nature and not being controlled by that nature are facets of civilization and dignified behavior. It is entirely up to the individual as to how mannerly, how considerate and how dignified one chooses to be just as it it up to the individual to object when one thinks some consideration and some manners and some dignity may be lacking.
What is the benefit to society in the race to the bottom in terms of, as you put it, not hiding the 'natural' and the 'obvious'? Shall we be 'natural' and 'obvious' and celebrate our 'honesty' by also refering to one another as miltnf, moms I'd like to not ####? How about some other categories? The coarser, the baser the more 'obvious and natural' the better, eh?
It is an easy thing to walk around following only your own desires and urges, especially if you are the strongest or most ruthless which are, absent blinders, simply natural things after all, yes? It takes a little more effort to see a larger world that you are a part of and see not only the benfit of others, including your own kids, to have a more polite, more considerate society, but that benefits to you as well through the manners and considerations of others.
So, yes, what we call things matters, especially as a matter of public behavior which is to say it matters insofar as it matters to the individual in terms of the type of society they want to leave to their kids. Closed doors and privacy are another matter; feel free to tap that ass and #### the hell out of the mom you like! Assuming, of course, you are a couger hunter or hawk or whatever the hell it is that she'd like to #### as well.
...the one in a box.
Our baser natures will, of course, always be there. That does not mean that our public behavior need be base. Manners, consideration for others, controlling our nature and not being controlled by that nature are facets of civilization and dignified behavior. It is entirely up to the individual as to how mannerly, how considerate and how dignified one chooses to be just as it it up to the individual to object when one thinks some consideration and some manners and some dignity may be lacking.
What is the benefit to society in the race to the bottom in terms of, as you put it, not hiding the 'natural' and the 'obvious'? Shall we be 'natural' and 'obvious' and celebrate our 'honesty' by also refering to one another as miltnf, moms I'd like to not ####? How about some other categories? The coarser, the baser the more 'obvious and natural' the better, eh?
It is an easy thing to walk around following only your own desires and urges, especially if you are the strongest or most ruthless which are, absent blinders, simply natural things after all, yes? It takes a little more effort to see a larger world that you are a part of and see not only the benfit of others, including your own kids, to have a more polite, more considerate society, but that benefits to you as well through the manners and considerations of others.
So, yes, what we call things matters, especially as a matter of public behavior which is to say it matters insofar as it matters to the individual in terms of the type of society they want to leave to their kids. Closed doors and privacy are another matter; feel free to tap that ass and #### the hell out of the mom you like! Assuming, of course, you are a couger hunter or hawk or whatever the hell it is that she'd like to #### as well.