Wife getting fat.....help!!!

lovinmaryland

lovinmaryland

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libertytyranny said:
I would rather my husband SAY something if it were bothering him, than not say anything and cheat on me or leave me out of the blue because he was unhappy :shrug: That way at least i have a chance to say "you know what, youre right and I am going to be healthier" or "**** off, I am going to eat this bacon covered icecream and you can get to steppin'" Now, I gained a ton of weight when I was pregnant, and am just now 9 months later back to my prepregnancy weight, and I have talked with SO on a few occasions..it didn't seem to bother him a bit. But if it did, I would certainly want to know...only NOT when I am actually pregnant, because then I would have murdered him and hid his body in the basement :coffee:
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I hear what you are saying.
BadGirl said:
:yay: Cool!


I was a chunko when I married, but dropped some weight, so now I'm not quite as chunko as I was before.
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:smack: You are NO WHERE NEAR chunko!
 
Bann

Bann

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vraiblonde said:
Dear Jerk,

She hates you and is using food to self-soothe. Do her a favor and leave her, then you can watch her transformation into a healthy happy woman, while your new chickie starts buying Ben and Jerry's by the truckload.

Love,
Vrai
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:killingme
 
kom526

kom526

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Originally posted by pseudoname:
I have called her out on being a couch potato, which greatly offended her for some reason.

Taters gonna hate.
 
twinoaks207

twinoaks207

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libertytyranny said:
I would rather my husband SAY something if it were bothering him, than not say anything and cheat on me or leave me out of the blue because he was unhappy :shrug: That way at least i have a chance to say "you know what, youre right and I am going to be healthier" or "**** off, I am going to eat this bacon covered icecream and you can get to steppin'" Now, I gained a ton of weight when I was pregnant, and am just now 9 months later back to my prepregnancy weight, and I have talked with SO on a few occasions..it didn't seem to bother him a bit. But if it did, I would certainly want to know...only NOT when I am actually pregnant, because then I would have murdered him and hid his body in the basement :coffee:
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vraiblonde said:
Tip: Don't hide bodies in your own basement. That's the first place the cops will look.
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Let your buddies help you out with that last bit... :buddies:
 
bulldog

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lovinmaryland said:
Beleive me when you are overwight you know it. You dont need someone to tell you.

I've gained a TON of weight partly from getting pregnant, not being able to go to the gym, etc... never once has my hubby said a word about it.
:yeahthat:

This exact scenario happened w/ my aunt. She used to be a size 24 when her hubby left her. About a year later she was a size 6 :lol:
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Just because he never said anything does not mean he has not thought it.
 
Bann

Bann

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bulldog said:
Just because he never said anything does not mean he has not thought it.
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Probably because it doesn't matter "in the grand scheme of things" to him and/or because he's not a dolt and realizes that a woman gains weight when she's pregnant. Some women can lose it fast - others can't. Eventually, most women have to work pretty hard to lose weight they gained in their pregnancies.

I gained 45lbs with BOTH pregnancies, (the first one I didn't watch what I ate & the 2nd one I was 35 yo & was seeing a dietician and STILL gained that much weight). While I'm not carrying that weight any longer - it isn't easy to lose that much weight. Twice. :shrug:
 
DEEKAYPEE8569

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Misfit said:
Wife getting fat.....help!!! - Topic

I've tried to get her out on hikes or walks, but it doesn't really work. We even spent $3000 on an eliptical for her which I use all the time, but she has only touched twice.
If there weren't two kids involved, I would leave her because her selfish behavior is compromising our current happiness and will surely result in major health problems in the furture. I'm embarassed to be seen with her. I don't like to even be around her because it feels so demoralizing.

I really need some help with this, if anyone has some advice. Right now, I'm just counting down to when the kids are 18 so that I can get a divorce. I didn't sign up to live with a slob when I got married. She always told me before we got married that she would never let herself go, but 4.5 years into it.....I'm really disappointed.
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1) The answer to "Do I look fat?" or "Do these pants make my butt look big?" or any variation of those questions is always "No, (insert Pet Name here), you look great!"

2) Any exercise equipment will eventually be used as a place to hang stuff. The only variable there, is how long it will take before that happens.
 
pixiegirl

pixiegirl

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I don't think he's being a jerk at all. It seems as if she's making no effort to try to lose the weight. If there's a valid excuse, like a medical condition, fine he's being a jerk, but it reads as if she's just lazy.
 
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