Wife getting fat.....help!!!

[pixiegirl]

Would he be allowed to be upset if she was drunk every night? Not violent, and perhaps even a happy drunk, but drunk nonetheless. Would he be allowed to say he can't wait to get out of that situation?

Ding ding ding, whinnah! You married the person you married, not some version of that person. Putting on a crapload (not just a few pounds) of weight is not some "minor" thing. If I married some guy and he put on a ton of weight, started drinking daily, quit showering, what have you, I'd be peeved off too.

 

[DaisyDuke]

Ding ding ding, whinnah! You married the person you married, not some version of that person. Putting on a crapload (not just a few pounds) of weight is not some "minor" thing. If I married some guy and he put on a ton of weight, started drinking daily, quit showering, what have you, I'd be peeved off too.

Well of course, but it never said this lady stopped showering, etc. Weight can be lost.

I don't know why I'm getting so spun up about this.

 

[warneckutz]

Ding ding ding, whinnah! You married the person you married, not some version of that person. Putting on a crapload (not just a few pounds) of weight is not some "minor" thing. If I married some guy and he put on a ton of weight, started drinking daily, quit showering, what have you, I'd be peeved off too.

 

[pixiegirl]

Well of course, but it never said this lady stopped showering, etc. Weight can be lost.

I don't know why I'm getting so spun up about this.

My point was it was something that is completely in control. I'm no toothpick anymore after baby #2. I have 5 vanity pounds that I struggle with but I'm well within normal weight. This lady has gained a significant amount of weight and is doing nothing about it. If it was under 20 pounds I'd agree that the guy is an arse but it's more than double that.

 

[warneckutz]

My point was it was something that is completely in control. I'm no toothpick anymore after baby #2. I have 5 vanity pounds that I struggle with but I'm well within normal weight. This lady has gained a significant amount of weight and is doing nothing about it. If it was under 20 pounds I'd agree that the guy is an arse but it's more than double that.

Large Marge...

 

[pixiegirl]

Large Marge...

You wanna piece of me sparkle boy?