After you die
- Thread starter BadGirl
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withrespect
:wr:
I have always wondered how this works... If he moves on after you have passed away and gets remarried... who does he stay with when he gets to heaven with the both of you present in heaven
Considering that neither of you is a serial killer or anything?...or does it all become some sort of free-for-all...or something.
Bay_Kat
Tropical
I have always wondered how this works... If he moves on after you have passed away and gets remarried... who does he stay with when he gets to heaven with the both of you present in heaven
...or does it all become some sort of free-for-all...or something.
You've given me a whole new vision of heaven
mamatutu
mama to two
I have always wondered how this works... If he moves on after you have passed away and gets remarried... who does he stay with when he gets to heaven with the both of you present in heaven
...or does it all become some sort of free-for-all...or something.
That is a very good question. You is smort!
I knew that about you, all along. Also, where do you pick for your final resting place, unless, you choose to be cremated. It could lead to being on that show. The Will: Secrets Revealed. 
I still think we need a :canofworms: smiley!
acommondisaster
Active Member
Trust me, once you die, you won't care what he does.
acommondisaster
Active Member
Geez, once you're dead, you don't care anymore - why pull a guilt trip on the person left behind, someone you supposedly loved? Why would anyone want someone they loved to be lonely and sad the rest of their lives, when they're no longer around to comfort them, keep them company, make their sandwiches, or care for them when they're sick? If you say that sort of thing to your spouse, you'd better be ready to live to the same standard.
Railroad
Routinely Derailed
Psychologists say not to make any major life changes for at least a year after something this major happens. But that advice is routinely ignored nowadays. The grieving process is different from person to person, and some folks take longer than others to get through it to the point when they can make the next move. Others? Who knows? One can only hope that they themselves know, but as in everything else, people make mistakes.
withrespect
:wr:
You one of those people who has died and come back?
Or have you been talking to dead people?I need some answers....
mamatutu
mama to two
It took me 3 years to date again after my x left me and the children. I grieved, even though he was still alive. Don't get me wrong; I had my fantasies of shooting him dead, but then my children would have been parentless. I chose the high road, and didn't get bogged down in 'their' depravity. Sometimes, even when there is life, their is death. Hope and faith are the key. Life can always grow from a barren landscape.
I have always wondered how this works... If he moves on after you have passed away and gets remarried... who does he stay with when he gets to heaven with the both of you present in heaven
...or does it all become some sort of free-for-all...or something.
Most guys think heaven is a three way, so......
itsbob
I bowl overhand
Something happens to me I'm okay with that.. don't want her to find some sissy metrosexual and my boy grow up to be a video game playing basement dweller.
He needs a man to grow up with, and if she can't find one you're close enough!
mamatutu
mama to two
Well, that is weird, considering how religious/convicted you claim to be on this forum.
acommondisaster
Active Member
You one of those people who has died and come back?
I need some answers....
Yes, during open heart surgery. I never gave him a thought.
Radiant1
Soul Probe
Well, that is weird, considering how religious/convicted you claim to be on this forum.
Yeah Bird Dog, you're supposed to be all stoic and ####. How dare you crack a joke!
kwillia
n/a
So true! My daughter has been raised in a family where men are men and raise their son's to be men so she expects men to be men and boys to become men. Now that she's in the dating world she's finding there are way more boys that have no clue what it means to "man-up" and be a man then their are boys that are becoming durable, dependable, manly men.
Radiant1
Soul Probe
So true! My daughter has been raised in a family where men are men and raise their son's to be men so she expects men to be men and boys to become men. Now that she's in the dating world she's finding there are way more boys that have no clue what it means to "man-up" and be a man then their are boys that are becoming durable, dependable, manly men.
Good luck to her on finding a manly man!
Attachments
:rebound: relationship ......
it was a yr or more before my mom dated after my farther passed in 1977 ... that ended badly in 83 ... mom only dated one other guy [that I knew about] in the mid to late 80's and that was it
[was off in the Army at that time]
she was born again and that ended the 'relationship' [I guess she was not getting married again] but the guy has been a close friend of the Family since .... she has been single since and is now in her 70's
kwillia
n/a
She will love this! I guess I'm not helping things when I take her to things like the Celtic Fest and she sees manly men in action.
