Another Bridge Jumper this Early Tuesday Morning

[BlondRo]

Yes his family is reading this...

Another Bridge Jumper t... 03-16-2007 06:24 PM Nice job- the family is reading this


this Karma was in response to my comments earlier in the fread.

I responded to someone elses comment before I read the entire fread. I had considered deleteing the post but decided not to. I appoligize to those who were offended and my comments were no way intended to diminish the Life of the man who tragically ended his life.

~Dougster

Some on here can be so THOUGHTLESS, MEAN, HEARTLESS and so on!!!! IT SUCKS TO HAVE LOST SOMEONE SO DEAR, TRUE, LOVING, CARING, SPECIAL & MORE, IN THE GOD AWEFUL WAY WE HAVE I pray that he is at peace in GODS LOVING CARE NOW

 

[BS Gal]

Some on here can be so THOUGHTLESS, MEAN, HEARTLESS and so on!!!! IT SUCKS TO HAVE LOST SOMEONE SO DEAR, TRUE, LOVING, CARING, SPECIAL & MORE, IN THE GOD AWEFUL WAY WE HAVE I pray that he is at peace in GODS LOVING CARE NOW

The people on here really are good people, for the most part. They would do anything for a fellow forumite in need.

 

[BlondRo]

Not all, but SOME...

The people on here really are good people, for the most part. They would do anything for a fellow forumite in need.

I din't say all, but I did say some and some have had made comments that just SUCK, ESPECIALLY because of HOW EXTREMELY CLOSE I am to the man that they want to talk so poor of! Have U been able to find out how the co-workers girlfriend is actually related to him? Reason I ask is I and another are a bit thrown off by that.

 

[BS Gal]

I din't say all, but I did say some and some have had made comments that just SUCK, ESPECIALLY because of HOW EXTREMELY CLOSE I am to the man that they want to talk so poor of! Have U been able to find out how the co-workers girlfriend is actually related to him? Reason I ask is I and another are a bit thrown off by that.

No. I'll ask him tomorrow if I see him. I don't see him every day unless I make an effort.

 

[Angel]

To the Family and Friends of Paul... I lost a loved one to suicide this weekend. I don't care how selfish that person may have been, it hurts, none the less. I pray, that with time, we will get through this, and I pray that we will meet them at the Pearly Gates.

 

[AK-74me]

I came across the bridge at 410a.m. this morning and there was a maroon minivan parked on the top. I stopped behind it then decided to procede around. For all I know, the individual could've thrown me off and furthermore I could be tied to a crime scene. When I arrived at work my coworker stated that he contacted MSP and a Search and Rescue Team was notified and enroute. I hear sirens going down 4 now...

You're a real turd for not doing more.

 

[BlondRo]

The Search for Paul

Does anyone reading through this know if the search is on or off for Pauls body? With me being in NY it is hard to keep the daily tabs on the status & well it is eating me up inside to think that no one is looking . If anyone knows anything further please provide me with the updates.

Thanks a bunch
~Rho~

 

[AK-74me]

Does anyone reading through this know if the search is on or off for Pauls body? With me being in NY it is hard to keep the daily tabs on the status & well it is eating me up inside to think that no one is looking . If anyone knows anything further please provide me with the updates.

Thanks a bunch
~Rho~

I think what happens is that after the intial search rescue/recovery attempt it is just a waiting game unless the family or other intrested party wants to hire a search team with their own funds. No more public resources are going to be used for a search.

 

[BlondRo]

I think what happens is that after the intial search rescue/recovery attempt it is just a waiting game unless the family or other intrested party wants to hire a search team with their own funds. No more public resources are going to be used for a search.

Yeah well waiting SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[bresamil]

Yeah well waiting SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Weather is going to warm up again this weekend. If he's to be found, that would be the time.

 

[Dougstermd]

Yeah well waiting SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

actually the bodies usually pop up down the bay near the potomac river if they surface ever:shrug:

 

[Inkpen]

Yeah well waiting SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am sorry for your agony and frustration over Paul's death.
But many people here are right. The channel under the bridge has a swift current and the channel is the deepest in the area.
Heck, Navy sank a sub and on top of that another ship and those are very deep.
Usually, if a body is brought down below the thermal layer, it may never be recovered.
However, warmer weather can bring the body back upto the surface, but not likely.
I would offer this suggestion while you are in NY: Find a good "grief" counseling program ( Hospice has them) and talk about these feelings you have with others who have been deeply hurt by a suicide of a dear loved one.

People here can be cruel, as in real life, but many here would walk the extra distance to help someone else. Honest!!
Hang in there find find peace in your heart and celebrate the joy of knowing Paul and all the many ways he made your life better for knowing him...

 

[BlondRo]

Thanks guys...I guess it is just that not knowing feeling, and well I'll always have these un-answered questions.
It is just a shame that such a wonderful guy opted for the way out of life like he had. Well I know and believe in my heart & mind that Paul is now in good, loving care he is at peace now. Atleast so I have been told and I have had a LOT of people tell me NOT to worry that he is cold, wet and so on because it is not him that is in the water. They say that his spirit is NOW in a better place and he is not feeling the pain that he once was. Not that I want to except he is no longer here, but...

Once again thank you all that have been so positive and supportive.

An for all of you that have been mean or full of nasty and/or negative coments, I pray for you that is all I can do.

God Bless
~Rho~

 

[Geek]

To the Family and Friends of Paul... I lost a loved one to suicide this weekend. I don't care how selfish that person may have been, it hurts, none the less. I pray, that with time, we will get through this, and I pray that we will meet them at the Pearly Gates.

So sorry to hear that Angel

 

[BlondRo]

Any current updates on this that may have been in the News there in MD?

 

[DawnK]

No, but you'll be happy to know that the MSP in Waldork hasn't yet realized of his untimely demise and they have an arrest warrant out for him for indecent exposure back in Jan. They are brilliant, huh?

 

[PrchJrkr]

No, but you'll be happy to know that the MSP in Waldork hasn't yet realized of his untimely demise and they have an arrest warrant out for him for indecent exposure back in Jan. They are brilliant, huh?

You would close an active warrant because a van and note are found on a bridge? You're brilliant, aren't you?

 

[DawnK]

Why yes I am .... I am A FRICKEN Genuis.. didn't you know?

 

[DawnK]

Thanks for the RED karma.. Did I hit a nerve? You should just change your name to JERK instead of trying to put all of that fancy crap before it..

 

[Ponytail]

Never thought of a Perch as being fancy before. Hmmm. Might have to re-think my uncles status when ice fishing comes around next season and join him for a spot of tea perhaps.