Any single parents finding it hard to date

jmom

New Member
he's 6 -- and not needy ...or breastfeeding (lol - that's sick!). hes just a kid with a working mom that he wants to spend time with. All the guys i have dated have been single with no kids...and eventually i feel like i have to choose between them and my son. no contest there.
 

jmom

New Member
thanks for the hazing...i mean welcome! now i am worn out and signing off. got a whiny breastfeeding 6 year old to take care of in the morning. :coffee:
 

aps45819

24/7 Single Dad
Just enjoy your life with your kid, develope your own interestes and when the time is right you'll meet someone that shares your interests.
 

jetmonkey

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JPC sr said:
:hot: Well you must be a snob with control issues.

Having kids is a blessing and grand-kids are even better.

If any couple would shun kids or grand-kids to be with you then that would be more snobs.

A snob convention with dogs. :buddies:
I do not think those smilies mean what you think they mean....
 

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maybe everyone who is single and looking ... should decide on a place... and everyone show up there one saturday nite!... pick date and time..
 

aps45819

24/7 Single Dad
daisycreek said:
maybe everyone who is single and looking ... should decide on a place... and everyone show up there one saturday nite!... pick date and time..
Saturday night :killingme
If single parents were free on Saturday night, this wouldn't be a problem
 
oh well... i tried.. I guess i was thinking that if they had enough notice they could plan ahead and work it into their schedule.


my only child is a crazy chow. all i have to do is give him some treats and put the baby gate up... before i go out
 
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Chain729

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aps45819 said:
Saturday night :killingme
If single parents were free on Saturday night, this wouldn't be a problem

No s*** :lol: EVERY schmuck- kids, single or otherwise- goes out during the weekend because they don't have to get up in the morning. So, it's even harder to find a sitter; hence more of a pain for us to get out.
 

vraiblonde

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onebdzee said:
It's not a turn off....what the turn off is when a single dad comes on here, or anywhere else for that matter, and openly looks for a "hook-up" and he puts his "single dad status" out there as "bait"(so to speak)
Well that was blunt. :lol:

And I agree. But I don't know what's worse: the dads who use their kids as bait, or the kidless guys who don't seem to understand that you can't just pick up and go at a moment's notice and that you have other priorities.
 

vraiblonde

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jmom said:
I am a single parent and yeah, dating is hard. I actually am not seeing how I can be a good mom and persue any other relationship, my son needs so much from me.
I don't know why they're giving you a rash for this - it's true :shrug:
 

vraiblonde

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Dye Tied said:
Date a guy with a kid or 2.
I hate OPC - they always have a Mom hovering somewhere who wants to make trouble. And the weekend Dads still don't understand that *you* have your kids full time, not just every other weekend.

But the kidless guys were still worse.
 
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kris31280

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wkndbeacher said:
due to not having alot of time to yourself?
I find it harder to date because everyone has this idea that single moms are "easy"... apparently we're so sex starved that when the opportunity to get busy presents itself we jump in head first.

Either that, or the guys seem to think that I'm looking for a daddy for my son.

In case you're wondering... neither of the above is true... I'm not looking for a daddy and I'm not looking to get off.

When did it become so hard to find someone who wanted to actually, I don't know... get to know someone before they started planning a future?
 
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