Black man White girl

[vegmom]

I think and I am ashamed to admit it I would have a problem with anyone from the Middle East.

The Middle East is not hommogenous ...at least according to the president of Iran anyway....

It's the Not Without My Daughter effect. I once swore I'd never even consider dating a guy from THAT country.

Iranians are actually pretty cool. My sweetie finally returned from Tehran and if anyone believes old flames never die it's a Zoroastrian .

So are most Turks although I'd never want to be in a car when they were driving.

The one country I would never ever ever let my daughter date someone from is the KSA. And quite frankly, any Saudi guy who would approach a girl with a big Persian step-baba hanging about needs his butt kicked.

 

[Tigerlily]

I do not really get a say in how my kids will feel about interacial marriage. My ex wife is Dating a black man currently so what is good for mom is good enough for daughter. Grand Ma(her mother) has all but disowned bebes momma. Great Grand Mother was never told cause they are afraid she will pump a cornary. And I just

PS.
He seems like a great guy much better than my husband in law she married after her and I got divorced.

It isn't the cop she wrote to the paper about last spring is it? If it is she's probably not his only lady friend

 

[Dougstermd]

It isn't the cop she wrote to the paper about last spring is it? If it is she's probably not his only lady friend

You should be a detective

 

[Tigerlily]

You should be a detective

I know it's some sort of weird sick brain malfunction thing I have. I remember the most trivial and useless crap. I know I am getting old because I actually read the whole paper now. Anyho I still can't seem to find my keys in the morning so go figure.

 

[jessie_101]

I voted no. Does that make me prejudiced? No. Before everyone goes and calls me all kinds of names. I am educated. I have a college degree. I’m not ignorant. I’m actually a child psychologist. Lets be realistic. In a perfect world there would be no racism and there would be no issue of if you’re black, white, ect. People say that they have no problem with it but that’s not the case. I think most people have a problem with black and white people being together. You have black women who say that all the white women are taking the good black men. That’s BS. You also have many white people people who dislike white women dating black men. My parents had no problem with it. However my grandfather told us that if we dated a black person we would be disowned. For me personally I was not attracted to other races. Maybe that was because there was not a lot of minorities around me when I was growing up. I have friends who have dated different races and have had nothing but problems and heartache. I see it often in st. mary’s county that white women hook up with black men who are thugs, have five different kids and treat them like crap. They work their a** off for these men and they do nothing but sit and home with their friends. I’m a professional and work with kids on a daily basis. In my practice I see all different types of children. Its heart breaking because inter racial children really have no one to identify with. Most of the children I see have cultural identity issues. The children tell me that they have problems because they don’t act black enough. How can you act too black or how can you act too white. It’s just a no win situation for children. The children constantly feel like they are being pulled in different directions. They want to do good in school but if they are more dark skinned they are made fun of because they want to learn and want to be educated. If the child looks more like the black parent they are made to feel guilty by the family members because the family feels that they are rejecting the black culture because they want to learn about the white culture. So it’s a no win situation. . The arguments are made that that the kids can’t be who they want to be because of the pressures of both sides of the family. No one seems to understand that. That just alienates children from their families and makes them act out. It isn’t an issue of prejudice the kids feel like they have no other option but to reject one of their parents culture. Until there is no racism or prejudice this will continue to happen. I think this is why a lot of children have the problems that they have today. I just had this conversation with a child today. She was told by her grandmother that she was acting like a cracker….Her response was to me….I’m not only black. My mom is white. I don’t want to see my dads family because they make me feel bad because I love my mom and my moms family. How can you not feel for that little girl because she is torn she loves both her parents but is being made to choose what race she wants to be.

Why can't she be black and white. This is why I vote no.

 

[tommyjones]

The Middle East is not hommogenous ...at least according to the president of Iran anyway....

It's the Not Without My Daughter effect. I once swore I'd never even consider dating a guy from THAT country.

Iranians are actually pretty cool. My sweetie finally returned from Tehran and if anyone believes old flames never die it's a Zoroastrian .

So are most Turks although I'd never want to be in a car when they were driving.

The one country I would never ever ever let my daughter date someone from is the KSA. And quite frankly, any Saudi guy who would approach a girl with a big Persian step-baba hanging about needs his butt kicked.

its funny how easy it is for most of us to see her comment as prejudice, too bad she is too dense to get it.

Funny thing is, everybody is prejudice, you just have to recognize it and not let it affect your decisions as much as possible......

 

[jlwgirl]

I see nothing wrong with someone dating outside of their race...for race is just a color and does not define that person. Hell, if I were to be stupid and all, I never would have had my 3 beautiful children with my man!! He is white and I am Hispanic....so, yeah, all for it. It is what helps make America what it is today....the great melting pot!

 

[RadioPatrol]

I wouldn't want my daughter to marry a man with too much family/history in the Middle East, there are just too many cases of the guys grabbing the kids and running off back to Pakistan or the like if the marriage doesn’t last. You'll never get your kids back and they will never be allowed to leave the country again. The culture there is just too hostile to females, how many men raised in that environment really respect women?

yeah for sure ........ Dr Phil 2 days ago

 

[RadioPatrol]

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[somdprincess]

I voted no. Does that make me prejudiced? No. Before everyone goes and calls me all kinds of names. I am educated. I have a college degree. I’m not ignorant. I’m actually a child psychologist. Lets be realistic. In a perfect world there would be no racism and there would be no issue of if you’re black, white, ect. People say that they have no problem with it but that’s not the case. I think most people have a problem with black and white people being together. You have black women who say that all the white women are taking the good black men. That’s BS. You also have many white people people who dislike white women dating black men. My parents had no problem with it. However my grandfather told us that if we dated a black person we would be disowned. For me personally I was not attracted to other races. Maybe that was because there was not a lot of minorities around me when I was growing up. I have friends who have dated different races and have had nothing but problems and heartache. I see it often in st. mary’s county that white women hook up with black men who are thugs, have five different kids and treat them like crap. They work their a** off for these men and they do nothing but sit and home with their friends. I’m a professional and work with kids on a daily basis. In my practice I see all different types of children. Its heart breaking because inter racial children really have no one to identify with. Most of the children I see have cultural identity issues. The children tell me that they have problems because they don’t act black enough. How can you act too black or how can you act too white. It’s just a no win situation for children. The children constantly feel like they are being pulled in different directions. They want to do good in school but if they are more dark skinned they are made fun of because they want to learn and want to be educated. If the child looks more like the black parent they are made to feel guilty by the family members because the family feels that they are rejecting the black culture because they want to learn about the white culture. So it’s a no win situation. . The arguments are made that that the kids can’t be who they want to be because of the pressures of both sides of the family. No one seems to understand that. That just alienates children from their families and makes them act out. It isn’t an issue of prejudice the kids feel like they have no other option but to reject one of their parents culture. Until there is no racism or prejudice this will continue to happen. I think this is why a lot of children have the problems that they have today. I just had this conversation with a child today. She was told by her grandmother that she was acting like a cracker….Her response was to me….I’m not only black. My mom is white. I don’t want to see my dads family because they make me feel bad because I love my mom and my moms family. How can you not feel for that little girl because she is torn she loves both her parents but is being made to choose what race she wants to be.

Why can't she be black and white. This is why I vote no.

At 2:30 in the morning you were speaking to a child about this?

Sorry but I am callinig you a liar. Your posts is nothing more than a ongoing rambling mess of rants. If you had any education at all it would show in your writing.

This is total BS.

 

[toppick08]

At 2:30 in the morning you were speaking to a child about this?

Sorry but I am callinig you a liar. Your posts is nothing more than a ongoing rambling mess of rants. If you had any education at all it would show in your writing.

This is total BS.

 

[USWWarrior]

I love how idiots hiding behind a key board leave trash like that, you know damn well they don't have the balls to say it to your face.

Another spineless yellow-bellied chicken-sh*t....

I voted no. Because I do not agree with it. Doesn't mean I won't accept it. There are severeal things in life I don't agree with but accept.

I don't agree with slow drivers in the left lane. I don't agree with non-smokers imposing their rights onto me. I don't agree with screaming kids in the restaurant when I am eating dinner or even worse at the movies. I don't agree with tree-huggers telling me how I am destoying the world, etc. But, I have come to accept them.

I believe the skin color truly does not matter, but I do worry about cultural differences, etc.

I also worry about the friends that develop because of the relationship and that can be said whether they are white, black, purple, green or rainbow.

As a single father, I deal with this issue head on, give my point of view and then listen to hers. We then come to an agreement. But then I do that with most issues that our children must learn to deal with in life.

I agree with nicole about certain men in the world do not seem to have any respect for the female. Not based on race but based on culture. Of course this country was like that and we have quite a few around today.

Bottom line, when she dates, if he shows up with his jeans down at his knees, 45 piercings, 300 tattoos etc, the young man is going to meet my best friend, the 12 gauge shotgun as I escort him off the property, no matter what his color is.

Now, let the attacks begin.

 

[MMDad]

I voted no. Does that make me prejudiced? No. Before everyone goes and calls me all kinds of names. I am educated. I have a college degree. I’m not ignorant. I’m actually a child psychologist.

What college gave you a degree without teaching you how to write? You might want to ask for a refund. They did a pretty poor job of educating you.

Paragraphs are your friend. Use them.

 

[FerretRescue]

What college gave you a degree without teaching you how to write? You might want to ask for a refund. They did a pretty poor job of educating you.

Paragraphs are your friend. Use them.

Maybe they can return their internet degree back for something else.

 

[Fishn Guy]

What college gave you a degree without teaching you how to write? You might want to ask for a refund. They did a pretty poor job of educating you.

Paragraphs are your friend. Use them.

What education do you have?

 

[MMDad]

What education do you have?

I aren't edumacated like the kiddie shrink is, but I do know how to use paragraphs.

 

[Fishn Guy]

I aren't edumacated like the kiddie shrink is, but I do know how to use paragraphs.

So, you can devote the time to smash someones use of punctuation and paragraphs.... without having any qualifications to do so?

Being from that area, and looking at some of your prior posts... I wouldn't lash out at folks if I were you... maybe you should get a personalized "Peyton's peptalk" or something...

 

[MMDad]

So, you can devote the time to smash someones use of punctuation and paragraphs.... without having any qualifications to do so?

I'm just as qualified as anyone on the intarweb is. We don't need no steenkin' badges.....

 

[jessie_101]

Where in my post did I say I was talking to a child at 2:30 am? I would be more than happy to provide links to support my views. I wish that I was making this stuff up. Children shouldn't have to feel that they have to chose to be black or white. Thats why I don't agree with interracial dating. No matter how well your intentions are, there will always be people out there who make children feel like crap because they can't be both black or white. They are made to feel they have to choose one race over the other. Just like children from divorced families. The child acts like a different child when they are with the mother versus the father. Look... this is my opinion If you don't agree with it fine. Just because you don't agree doesn't make me a liar or make what I am trying to say bs. Seriously... because I didn't type a certain way means that I'm uneducated... Whatever.

At 2:30 in the morning you were speaking to a child about this?

Sorry but I am callinig you a liar. Your posts is nothing more than a ongoing rambling mess of rants. If you had any education at all it would show in your writing.

This is total BS.

 

[jessie_101]

University of North Carolina - Chapel Hill. Where did you get your degree ?

What college gave you a degree without teaching you how to write? You might want to ask for a refund. They did a pretty poor job of educating you.

Paragraphs are your friend. Use them.