THIS is the point I'm trying to make, that these Mommies don't seem to be getting. IF the restaurant patrons complained to the manager, I DO NOT believe this woman was being discrete. I can only assume, given the details of the story, that she was flopping the old boob out there for the world to see, in order to cause a problem and not just to feed the baby.
Geek, apparently, was a boob flopper who did not give a damn whether she made those around her uncomfortable or not - she was going to whip out the tit whether they liked it or not. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, Geek, but that's how you come off.
Boob flopping is socially unacceptable. And if you say to hell with everyone else and do it anyway, people will think you're a low-rent redneck. Those are the consequences you face when you behave in a socially unacceptable manner.
Deal with it and get over it.