Dating and Spoiled Children

pixiegirl

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
vraiblonde said:
So freakin' what???

Good lord, you are such a control freak! If the kid is all tatted and pierced, you put him in the picture and who cares?? It's not like you're never going to have another family photo done ever again in your life, and it gets to be a good family laugh when the kid grows up and becomes a CPA.

Or you can submit it for his VH1 Behind the Music. :jet:
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Over react much? Funny thing is I'd picture you the type to do this. :lmao: I wasn't speaking personally at all.

Chasey_Lane said:
Why would I do that? :confused:
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I'm not saying you would. I was speaking in general terms.
 
JULZ

JULZ

BFJ
Back to the OP

It seems that in your quest to get advice you have answered your own question with what is the best thing for you and your family.

Good luck!
 
pixiegirl

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
vraiblonde said:
Geez, what happens if your kids are cute and his are ugly? Do you get separate family portraits done? Do the cute kids get the better clothes because they look better in them? Does the cute girl have to stay home and not date because the ugly girl can't catch a boyfriend?

So many decisions! :jameo:
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I'm the control freak? I offered my opinion and reasoning to kvj and was grown up enough to say that different situations work for different people. You're the one I see throwing a tantrum and spouting off personal insults to try and prove you're way is the right and only way. :killingme
 
smdavis65

smdavis65

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kvj21075 said:
so your child would just have to deal with the fact that thier step/bro or step/sis gets treated differently?

i guess if u spank them hard enough when they are kids they wont question your authority :lmao:
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With my ex and steps, I would stop the behavior, and she would discipline went she got back.
 
Beta84

Beta84

They're out to get us
So the start of this thread was about a woman who had a boyfriend with a devil child. Everyone said he wouldn't do anything, the situation is bad, so you should leave him. Now it seems to be people saying the step-parent should butt out and allow the parents to do their own parenting, no matter what the situation or result.

To me it sounds like not many people are really advocating discussion or decisions here. Sure, some people told 4d and kvj to discuss stuff, but based on the following discussions it sounds more like the suggestion might be for 4d to tell kvj his plan and then kvj has to decide whether she's OK with that or if she isn't. There's no give and take, agreements, compromises, nothing! How is that healthy, regardless of the situation? Isn't marriage all about compromise? I'd think a healthy one is, but I wouldn't exactly call a bunch of marriages I've seen healthy.

Not everything is so cut and dry as a lot of you are making it seem. It's easy to just sit on a pedestal and tell people what's definitely right and definitely wrong, but I don't think there's really an answer until you experience the situation at hand. You can get as much advice as you want, but you won't know the answer until it happens and you know what's right by you.
 
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