But, those memories are tough to get past. I imagine many in this country are just unable to look at that flag without being 'triggered' into some form of PTSD about their ancestors being brutally enslaved.
Damn right they're tough to get past, especially when folks are constantly reminded of what was done to them in it's name AND other folks do plenty of stuff to make them feel like things haven't changed much.
Make America Great Again
To a 70 year old white guy, that means when white men were the boss, white men, up and down the socio economic reality, were always above a ###### or a woman or some damn queer.
To a 70 year old black guy or 70 year old woman or 70 year old queer, it means back to the time when, up and down the socio-economic reality, they were under any white man.
Louis CK does a brilliant bit about this, that every year white people add 100 years to how long ago slavery ended. That it was 400 years ago or longer, not 150. "Come on! Can't be get over it all NOW?" Then he illustrates that it was only two 75 year old ladies ago.
He says white people are allowed to complain but black people get to complain more. The kicker is that blacks had it really tough and it's gonna take time but that whites suffered, too, that they took away all our slaves.
It's hilarious but it makes the point; none of us white boys had a grandpa who knew what it was like as a boy to need to be aware all the time, to try and not stand out. We didn't have grandpas who knew people, as a child, who were slaves or whose parents were. Who were SLAVES. That's two generations removed. In contrast, Sons of the Confederacy revere and fondly remember the lost cause that, at core, it's central feature, was a social system centered around slavery. I know a dude who told me he wants to retire to Corinth, Mississippi. Now, for a Civil war buff, Corinth is notable as the collection point before and after Shiloh. It was also noted as a #### hole back then, swampy, malarial, just a nasty place. So, knowing of it, I asked why.
He said "Because ######s still know to cross the street when a white man is coming" Blacks may well complain too much and, certainly, there is a race grievance industry that profits off of things NOT being good. However, it's not without reason.