SamSpade
Well-Known Member
NOT to bust on women - but data shows that women DO tend to overestimate their attractiveness, at least, superficially.Yeah so many of these younger women think they are the prize .... and bring NOTHING else to the relationship
Dating apps and surveys show that while men might consider themselves a five or a six, a very lopsided portion of the women consider themselves much higher. When asked about men in general, women grade men as below average.
Recently, Bumble had to change their rules - originally, only women could initiate. But it wasn't going anywhere. All of the women were swiping on the same tiny portion of men, and regarding the other 95% as below average. Well, you're going to lose male subscribers if all the women are only interested in the top 2 percent.
And that comes out in these videos. Women have been angry that these top guys are nailing all of the women swiping on them - whatever "number" they are - but - they aren't interested in a relationship with any of them. And it stems from - at least, from the women SUBSCRIBERS - that they rate THEMSELVES much higher than they rate the men. They consequently state they believe they're entitled to royal treatment from "mids" (I had to ask my kids what that meant).
Gonna be a lotta unhappy campers. You know, I hate that life is set so that when you finally figure stuff out - you're old and life is nearing the end.
But truth is, a lot of stuff doesn't matter. If they make you happy, treat you well, MAKE YOU LAUGH - you can love someone no matter what their "number" is. Thank God my wife and I learned that.