first date advice

[justhangn]

Originally posted by Sharon
Why bother yourself? If he's not interested, let it go. Move on and find someone else.

Pokeybutt!

 

[EvilDruidTalena]

Originally posted by justhangn
:shrug: Why sweat it at all?? Move on, there will be other victims.

: smoochy: Yay! Hmm... these guys are a year older than me...... This whole ordeal with the letter is part of the reason why I'm depressed and cranky right now lol

 

[RoseRed]

Originally posted by EvilDruidTalena
I'll give you a tip- I hate it when I fall totally in love with a guy, tell him I like him a lot by sending a letter, his best (and cute!) friend calling me asking me stuff, then never hearing a response. GUYS- what does it mean when ur best freind calls the girl, asks questions, and the girl never gets an answer back?

Don't send mushy letters to a guy who may be showing them to all his buddies and having his friends call you.

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by RoseRed
Don't send mushy letters to a guy who may be showing them to all his buddies and having his friends call you.

STOP THAT!! You will ruin all our fun.

 

[vraiblonde]

Good Lord, Talena! Please tell me you're not wasting your karma on some tacky, immature male-kid.

Snub him.

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by vraiblonde
Good Lord, Talena! Please tell me you're not wasting your karma on some tacky, immature male-kid.

Snub him.

Should she be working more towards hooking up with some older guy and getting him locked up??

 

[vraiblonde]

Originally posted by justhangn
Should she be working more towards hooking up with some older guy and getting him locked up??

No. She should be working toward finding a young man who respects her and doesn't want to play silly games with her feelings.

My advice? Remove the facial piercings, fix your hair and buy yourself a nice pair of khakis - you'll attract a better class of male.

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by vraiblonde
No. She should be working toward finding a young man who respects her and doesn't want to play silly games with her feelings.

Guys 14 to ......a..... death usually are just out to grease the willing.

 

[migtig]

Originally posted by justhangn
Guys 14 to ......a..... death usually are just out to grease the willing.

Not true. I went out with an absolute gentleman on Saturday, which surprised the heck out of me.

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by migtig
Not true. I went out with an absolute gentleman on Saturday, which surprised the heck out of me.

Some are just a little more tactful than others.

 

[Oz]

I'm with JH on this one... He may have been a gentleman for 1 evening. We can do that for a short period of time, when we think it will lead to the conquest. All guys want one thing, period and we'll do anything to get it, including being gentleman. Guys who say they aren't after that are liars! And, girls who believe them will find themselves chewing on a fan belt sooner or later.

 

[RoseRed]

Originally posted by migtig
Not true. I went out with an absolute gentleman on Saturday, which surprised the heck out of me.

Yes she did! Surprising after the "introduction" and first impressions! Nice guy he was

 

[migtig]

Originally posted by Oz
I'm with JH on this one... He may have been a gentleman for 1 evening. We can do that for a short period of time, when we think it will lead to the conquest. All guys want one thing, period and we'll do anything to get it, including being gentleman. Guys who say they aren't after that are liars! And, girls who believe them will find themselves chewing on a fan belt sooner or later.

But after letting me sleep unmolested for a few hours, he drove me back up the road to my car, and I offered to take him home. And he said he shouldn't, not on our first date at least!
And Rose is right, after how our conversation got started I really didn't expect a gentleman the whole night!

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by RoseRed
Yes she did! Surprising after the "introduction" and first impressions! Nice guy he was

Yeah buddy……..as long as us men can keep pulling the wool over the eyes of the women, we’ll keep plowing new ground.

 

[RoseRed]

Originally posted by justhangn
Yeah buddy……..as long as us men can keep pulling the wool over the eyes of the women, we’ll keep plowing new ground.

She started it!

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by RoseRed
She started it!

Works for us.......there are those that we have and those that we haven't yet.

 

[migtig]

Originally posted by RoseRed
She started it!

Well his friend did offer me ear plugs so I wouldn't overhear any more conversations! Geesh I was just offering some friendly advice. :shrug:

 

[Oz]

Originally posted by migtig
But after letting me sleep unmolested for a few hours, he drove me back up the road to my car, and I offered to take him home. And he said he shouldn't, not on our first date at least!
And Rose is right, after how our conversation got started I really didn't expect a gentleman the whole night!

Sounds like a real gamer! Any dude that does that is playing to win!

 

[migtig]

Originally posted by Oz
Sounds like a real gamer! Any dude that does that is playing to win!

You may be right, and if he keeps it up he just may win. But it's a close race with the Fireman who wants to meet my dad!

 

[EvilDruidTalena]

Not again..... just let me be. I always go out wiht a guy older than me. I don't like young guys. Don't crush me dreams- Let me send them letters or whatever- It's part of the learning process. You all have to tell me to stop and ruin all the fun. LET ME BE!!!