I can't say that I understand your irritation completely ( because I don't walk in your shoes) but you sure have the right to be frustrated no need for any kind of forgiveness.
Yeah, apologizing for ranting is because it's against my personal code -- men don't rant, men do.
I'll try to coherently explain why I'm so frustrated.
I fully believe that education on the elementary school level is mostly social -- most definitely in K. That's where kids get together, learn to behave in a group, listen to their teacher, interact with their classmates both individually and in a group. Even baby monkeys need to learn this, and us humans, with our much more complicated social structures, need years of this. Remote ed is killing this aspect.
My wife already works with kids on academic stuff -- our incoming K kid is close to second-grade level on reading and math. We as a family really believe in the value of education, and will make sure kids are caught up anyways.
A poor overworked teacher scrambling to figure out the new software, filling out the forms, and all the other BS associated with remote learning will never be able to be as effective in teaching reading and math as we are doing already. That's not what teachers go into teaching to do, and this will be bad for everyone.
Also, screen time. K kids are required to sit in front of the screen for 4 hours every day, or be counted absent. That is insanity -- that's 4 times the screen time we give our kids a day, including TV! Again, from all my research into education methods (including comparative anthropology), screen learning at elementary school level is useless, or even harmful. Kids need to finger paint, throw Play-Doh at each other, eat paste and worms on the playground, get into fights, play patty cake and spread kooties. The more of this they do early on, the better their cognitive abilities will be, the better their 3-D imagination will be, and the better their social interactions will be developed when they grow up. These are the skills that will be valuable no matter how many cheap Indians can be imported to code.
Last, this is an extreme invasion into our privacy by unaccountable school admin.